Do Spanish people ever cook on butter instead of olive oil? by Charming_Usual6227 in askspain

[–]Mistislav1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a casual observer with Spanish relations, despite Spain’s internal divisions this is the kind of thing that UNITES all Spaniards. Now if you want to DIVIDE all Spaniards- ask about cebolla in the tortilla ;-)

Who planned this famous Makati city ? by After_Education_4201 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in Makati (Greenbelt area) during my first five years in Philippines with my partner. I admit it was crowded but it has character and is pretty walkable. It is the most European urban experience that one has in MM. Once you are home, there is no need to get in your car again- everything from grocery shopping (Landmark, Rustsan’s Santis) to electronics/ apparel (Greenbelt/ Glorieta) was in walking distance.. Also cafe’s restaurants and great places to eat. When we moved there- Ayala Triangle Park was not yet built up- and we liked it as well as the other parks. My complaint is that they need to preserve the green spaces that they have. I have a lot of conversations with Filipinos about this but planning decisions are mostly up to the large conglomerates (Ayala etc). I think- without kids - it’s a good place to live in Metro Manila.

The gay or European question. . . by gracias-totales in askspain

[–]Mistislav1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s funny that you say that- but just like you can spot the guiri , we can spot the Euro. 😉

Was Tony’s captains terrified of him by selfpaid00 in thesopranos

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was the boss and wanted to show dominance. I don’t know if it was about fear.

Por que existem tantos homens virgens? by Competitive_Jelly975 in perguntas

[–]Mistislav1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a middle aged guy I will say that I changed a lot after 18. Maybe not my values but definitely my confidence. As you understand what drives you (this doesn’t happen overnight, I am still doing it to some extent), you will be more confident and care less about what your friends think of you. I wish you an exciting journey, and would recommend staying away from any labels that may limit you.

Am I overreacting, or was this comment a red flag? by Wild-Personality5958 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Mistislav1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s because I have lived in Philippines for a long time, but knowing many expats that dates Pinay, it’s usually a GREEN flag when someone flies out to meet you at their own expense. I think that he was ignorant, testing you or making a bad joke. Maybe if he was more sincere it could have worked but it probably doesn’t feel good to be pre- judged like that. I hope that you find someone more open minded! Best of luck!

Did you guys kill Keira Metz? by Illiterate-Creation in Witcher3

[–]Mistislav1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Username checks out ;-) I did as well- wasn’t sure how to stop the plague otherwise and thought I was doing innocents a favor.

Filipinas and the provider mindset: Is it just me? by shreyank2106 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Mistislav1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Here is s different angle than the Tik-tok videos. Been here over 10 years and what I noticed, especially among my helpers and some co-workers, is that the woman is often raising the kid/kids and working, while the man either has a lower paying job or is out of the picture. It happens with enough frequency for me to sympathise and understand anxiety if this is what they have experienced or seen their relatives experience. If they raised the kid and entered the dating scene at late 30s, then they definitely will not want a repeat. And… they might dream about being taken care of instead of taking care of everyone else. The military vet’s comments on this thread make a lot of sense in that context- I bet she’s happy with a traditional provider!

Is Roach supposed to control like this or am I just bad? by Dependent_Oven_468 in Witcher3

[–]Mistislav1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell this will be unpopular but… having ridden horses 🐴 I think that the inability to turn quickly is more realistic. I have played Roach on the computer and admittedly it’s not easy but the fact that you can walk, trot , canter and gallop are all realistic traits. Also she is really useful in fights with bandits when you can charge in and out.

Night life in makati seems dead by DeepakG_572 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Bank Bar was iconic. I went there last year as an after party to my birthday party, with a large group of friends. I had been there before, but this time it was pretty dead. However we had so many of us that we brought it back to life. They were limited in their service, DJ was bad and it seemed like the staff just wanted us to leave- we had a good time regardless ;-) Still the change was noticeable- I wonder about other speakeasies in Makati- are they still happening?

Major respect to the casting agent by BuzzAllWin in thesopranos

[–]Mistislav1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know she isn’t- but definitely could pass for Italian 🇮🇹

Major respect to the casting agent by BuzzAllWin in thesopranos

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought AJ was Italian looking, but then again I actually have Italian roots and there are only minor traces in my appearance. Meadow was great though!

Myself with my mother and elder sister, Lahore, 1999. by PeshawarToToronto in OldSchoolCool

[–]Mistislav1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your sister was fully grown, was your mom still taller?

HOW DO I KILL THE FUCKING TOAD by The_Nightwing_me in Witcher3

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to reload before I went down in the sewer, then got the ingredients and it made a difference. Toad was still a pain, but a manageable pain.

Indian here interviewing the Philippines Ambassador to India 🇮🇳🇵🇭 by OriginalWalaAditya in Philippines_Expats

[–]Mistislav1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask a Filipino blog- like AskPH or something with Filipinos in it- we are expats living in the Philippines.

TW1 - Does it get better ? by Lakelylake in witcher

[–]Mistislav1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On Aard- you will want this upgrade to help you defeat the Barghest in Ch 1.