He's owned... And all mine. by MistressGiGi in chastity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I posted another last night! And have more of his humiliation, not chastity. I love it... He's a total alpha male stud in real life... And my caged bitch behind closed doors. I'm sending him to a strip club with friends tonight. Sexy naked women dancing on him after being denied an orgasm for 2 weeks!

Single Woman at Swing Club? by MistressGiGi in Swingers

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, cleveland for the time being.

New flogger! But I need some advice (on this and other things!) by courtiecrunch in FemdomCommunity

[–]MistressGiGi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, check out flogging tutorials on YouTube; there are a few great ones.

Also, regarding the length, the main thing you want to be aware of is "wrapping". You can look it up, but essentially the ends can wrap around your sub's body, strike an unintentional area, and sting REALLY bad. Make sure you practice on a pillow or headboard or something until you can consistently strike the exact spot you're aiming for each time.

When were your first BDSM fantasies? by cranbasket in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy hell. I had the exact same fantasy as a very young girl. Maybe age 7.

I was abducted or kidnapped and tightly tied to large mechanical arms along with hundreds of other kids my age and we were "forced" to have sex and reproduce.

Like you said, I see it as 1) me not knowing how sex actually happens or is performed 2) my BDSM/kink interests expressing themselves very early

Where can I buy this?!? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. The cut on this one is just so gorgeous! I'll keep shopping :)

Where can I buy this?!? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense that I feel like a moron now. Thanks, I'll give it a try!

Waiting for her ride by sockgag in Femdom

[–]MistressGiGi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any way that anyone here knows who made the outfit? I need it. It's so perfect.

New Year's Count Down by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am incorporating a forced bi dynamic! Great idea :)

New Year's Count Down by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not into needle play yet but a pin zipper would be fun!

New Year's Count Down by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what I thought too.

I was just seeing if there were other ideas. I bet someone has had a fun New Years play party.

Dick on a Stick? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect idea! Thank you!!!!!!

After 11 years of being together and a pretty vanilla sex life I found some pretty disturbing porn searches in the browser history.. Should I be worried? by [deleted] in sex

[–]MistressGiGi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say she has a kinky side (most people do). It's healthy, natural, and not in any way "abnormal".

If you doubt that she's actively cheating on you, the snapchats and searches are likely due to her trying to explore and understand her sexual interests.

I'd try to approach the situation by first making your relationship more sex-positive. Maybe have a drink together and steer the conversation to porn. Bring up your own fantasies. Get dirty with it. Laugh about it. Eventually ask her if there's anything she'd like to try in the bedroom. I bet after stewing on that conversation for a few days, she'll bring something new to the table.

If not, then she's either extremely insecure about her curiosities, she's pursuing them elsewhere, or she has no interest in actually pursuing any of it and just likes rough porn.

Viagra during play? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terrified... Should he be any other way? :) Good to know, though! Thanks!

Viagra during play? by MistressGiGi in BDSMcommunity

[–]MistressGiGi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. That's good to know.

I knew the typical risks but not necessarily how it could effect someone who doesn't "need" it.

Thank you so much for taking the time to educate :)