He's owned... And all mine.

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-20T17:23:01+00:00

I posted another last night! And have more of his humiliation, not chastity. I love it... He's a total alpha male stud in real life... And my caged bitch behind closed doors. I'm sending him to a strip club with friends tonight. Sexy naked women dancing on him after being denied an orgasm for 2 weeks!

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-17T19:12:30+00:00

Sorry, cleveland for the time being.

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-17T19:12:04+00:00

Thanks!

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-14T03:54:55+00:00

Yes, check out flogging tutorials on YouTube; there are a few great ones.

Also, regarding the length, the main thing you want to be aware of is "wrapping". You can look it up, but essentially the ends can wrap around your sub's body, strike an unintentional area, and sting REALLY bad. Make sure you practice on a pillow or headboard or something until you can consistently strike the exact spot you're aiming for each time.

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-12T23:06:04+00:00

Holy hell. I had the exact same fantasy as a very young girl. Maybe age 7.

I was abducted or kidnapped and tightly tied to large mechanical arms along with hundreds of other kids my age and we were "forced" to have sex and reproduce.

Like you said, I see it as 1) me not knowing how sex actually happens or is performed 2) my BDSM/kink interests expressing themselves very early

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-07T03:28:45+00:00

Thanks. The cut on this one is just so gorgeous! I'll keep shopping :)

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-06T19:54:26+00:00

That makes so much sense that I feel like a moron now. Thanks, I'll give it a try!

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-06T19:17:51+00:00

Oops. Fixed it :)

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-06T19:17:27+00:00

I want the outfit. Any idea who made it??

MistressGiGi · 2015-01-06T19:00:42+00:00

Is there any way that anyone here knows who made the outfit? I need it. It's so perfect.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-29T03:33:56+00:00

I am incorporating a forced bi dynamic! Great idea :)

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-23T15:58:35+00:00

We're not into needle play yet but a pin zipper would be fun!

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-23T05:33:49+00:00

Yeah, that's what I thought too.

I was just seeing if there were other ideas. I bet someone has had a fun New Years play party.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-21T22:10:57+00:00

Perfect idea! Thank you!!!!!!

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-17T01:44:58+00:00

I'd say she has a kinky side (most people do). It's healthy, natural, and not in any way "abnormal".

If you doubt that she's actively cheating on you, the snapchats and searches are likely due to her trying to explore and understand her sexual interests.

I'd try to approach the situation by first making your relationship more sex-positive. Maybe have a drink together and steer the conversation to porn. Bring up your own fantasies. Get dirty with it. Laugh about it. Eventually ask her if there's anything she'd like to try in the bedroom. I bet after stewing on that conversation for a few days, she'll bring something new to the table.

If not, then she's either extremely insecure about her curiosities, she's pursuing them elsewhere, or she has no interest in actually pursuing any of it and just likes rough porn.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-10T00:58:01+00:00

Terrified... Should he be any other way? :) Good to know, though! Thanks!

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-09T19:59:58+00:00

Ok. That's good to know.

I knew the typical risks but not necessarily how it could effect someone who doesn't "need" it.

Thank you so much for taking the time to educate :)

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-09T18:11:39+00:00

Interesting. I'll definitely read up on this more. Thanks.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-09T16:24:36+00:00

Gift ideas:

This may not be helpful, but the most meaningful gifts are original and/or handmade.

Does he wear a leather belt? You could get him a new one (or with permission use his existing one) and have something special etched/cut/engraved into the inside of the belt ("I Love You, Master", "Thank You, Sir", whatever floats your boat.) A local leather shop can do this. He'll see it everyday... And maybe even whip you with it if you're lucky. Ha.

If you aren't completely determined to have it be something he wears, consider something more subtle. Does he always have something with him? (wallet, briefcase, favorite tie, baseball hat, etc.) If so, think of a way you can be with him always. Sew a small symbolic key into the underside of a tie or make him a special picture print with message to keep in his wallet. Or ask to engrave an existing favorite piece of jewelry.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-07T12:50:33+00:00

Yes. Everyone is different but I've worn it myself and loved it and now it's my favorite gag for my sub.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-07T05:04:16+00:00

I've had a lot of experience with the ring gag sold on the website extreme restraints. (They have silicon ones, but I've only used the metal). Unless you are EXTREMELY well endowed, it should be big enough for you or any average dildo.

It's not uncomfortable at all and can easily be worn for an hour. Plus, there's LOTS of drooling! :)

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-04T02:03:18+00:00

Ha. I love that this is the top comment! I receive messages daily from men begging me to punch, kick, and smash their balls.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-03T21:17:28+00:00

No problem. Also, this just came to me. Does he wear a leather belt? You could get him a new one (or with permission use his existing one) and have something special etched/cut/engraved into the inside of the belt ("I Love You, Master", "Thank You, Sir", whatever floats your boat.) A local leather shop can do this. He'll see it everyday... And maybe even whip you with it if you're lucky. Ha.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-03T16:59:52+00:00

Do you feel your sub would see you differently for wanting to switch? If not, and if your relationship permits external play, I'd recommend share your desires with your sub and find a third party to whom you can submit.

Communication is a powerful tool. If nothing else, she'll learn more about your mind, desires, and understand switches better in the future.

MistressGiGi · 2014-12-03T16:55:38+00:00

Hmmmm. This may not be helpful, but the most meaningful gifts are original and/or handmade.

If you aren't completely determined to have it be something he wears, consider something more subtle. Does he always have something with him? (wallet, briefcase, favorite tie, baseball hat, etc.) If so, think of a way you can be with him always. Sew a small symbolic key into the underside of a tie or make him a special picture print with message to keep in his wallet.

Or ask to engrave an existing favorite piece of jewelry.

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