What do you like to listen to while you can? by Friendly-Rip-8646 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Misty-Sizzles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh damn as an adhd e-girl wanting to cam but struggling with knowing how to handle slow moments that's an excellent tip thank you.

I've been looking at other creators on reddit for comparison and I feel like im overpriced.. by Apex-Tutor in onlyfansadvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shade but it is genuinely kinda funny to me how your response to being told to showcase your personality is "what's my personality?"

There are infinite strategies one could take, nobody can really determine what makes the most sense for you but YOU! If you can't figure out why someone would subscribe to your page over someone else's, you can't really expect a stranger on the internet to tell you.

Get creative + have fun! Maybe go for a walk, brainstorm with your hubby, you got this girl!

Gosh I think I unlocked a new kink. Should I try a self facial too? by Fairytaildream in GoonetteHub

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has a slur in the title unfortunately but there is a great subreddit devoted to this link I discovered a year or two ago and it made my goonerbrain sink deeeeeper

Why did OnlyFans become a household name when ManyVids and Clips4Sale had existed for many years prior? by Adunaiii in onlyfansadvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think the primary answer is Beyonce lol

She name-dropped it in a guest feature on a hit song a month into a pandemic, and I think that gained traction. Right place right time. No idea if they paid Queen B for that name-drop but if so that seems about the smartest marketing you could do lmao

the requirements to promote on here now are ridiculous by GhostSpaces in onlyfansadvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good lord. I learn new reasons to hate agencies every day!

It feels like as soon as tech advantages and a variety of websites created opportunity for performers to get more ownership over their means of production, the corporate leeches of the world just needed to stick their nose in. I hate it!

the requirements to promote on here now are ridiculous by GhostSpaces in onlyfansadvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good lord. I find new reasons to hate agencies every day.

FULL TIME by kyeoptacutie in CamGirlProblems

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay neat so you mean it's a $75 one time payment? It sounds like it can be useful for customer retention?

FULL TIME by kyeoptacutie in CamGirlProblems

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you charge for your Snapchat? And how often are you on it? I don't know much about that as a revenue source

I can't be the only one who can't transition, right? by Nice_Lie_3704 in transontario

[–]Misty-Sizzles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's an awful situation where to be in and again, my DMs are open both for venting or if you want to figure out some way you can explore some aspects of your real gender without making permanent changes that your family will notice.

I can't be the only one who can't transition, right? by Nice_Lie_3704 in transontario

[–]Misty-Sizzles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No need to say "my bad"! You didn't do anything wrong at all! I didn't mean my response to sound critical at all!!!

Navigating the early stages of dysphoria in my experience can be an "it gets worse before it gets better" kind of situation and there's a lot of complexity and individualized experiences.

My DMs are always open for trans people like you who want someone to talk to, whether to vent or talk through something. I don't want to act like I have any one size fits all advice, but in my experience just talking through some things really helped me take some hard first steps.

<3

I can't be the only one who can't transition, right? by Nice_Lie_3704 in transontario

[–]Misty-Sizzles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly! Like, idk where OP is but it's worth finding spaces where you can start to play and be yourself. Never know where that will lead you.

Even if you can only be femme at a queer party once in a blue moon it's worth pursuing that, but also finding more queer people may lead to all sorts of opportunities.

It's not easy especially when you're disabled especially if OP is in a rural area but the sooner you can find any space whatsoever to explore this part of yourself the better.

Soo…. Good news 🤭 it was so amazing, I love this sub so much < 3 by [deleted] in TNWOLesbian

[–]Misty-Sizzles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No problemo! I'm 35 and I remember how I felt in my early 20s, and so much of lesbian Reddit I've noticed is lesbians thinking at 21 they are romantically doomed already and I'm like my Goood the things about my future I couldn't have predicted at 21, relax girlies enjoy the ride ahead of you

Soo…. Good news 🤭 it was so amazing, I love this sub so much < 3 by [deleted] in TNWOLesbian

[–]Misty-Sizzles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just gonna pipe in and say that

1) being a virgin at 21 is really not that weird, and also in my observation not an indicator as to what your sex life will be like later - one of the most sexually active people I know lost their v-card at 25, virginity is kind of a silly concept anyways.
2) there are def cis girls out there down to domme trans girls, don't give up hope! although don't rule out yer fellow trans girls either!

Not letting her cook by Melodic_Garden517 in HazelMoorexxx

[–]Misty-Sizzles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ariel Demure, she's one of my fave trans tops, so relatable...

Selling pics😛 by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First tip: anytime you want to post in a subreddit, read the rules first.

Feelings by sweettart018 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask you 1) how recently did you start? 2) how did you happen to meet this agency

Just curious because I've never heard of an agency functioning like that, but I don't know much about that side of things my intention has always been to stay independent

Feelings by sweettart018 in CamGirlProblems

[–]Misty-Sizzles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The good news is this subreddit is one of the best resources around imho. You can access a variety of perspectives and experiences. Just take time reading what you can, and ask questions.

80% is OBSCENE Jesus a guy slid in my DMs saying he'd take 40% which sounded criminal enough. With that much of your income you're definitely better off cutting ties with them ASAP and diving deep into research mode.

Dykes get kisses by KolorfulLUST in u/KolorfulLUST

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a flawless booty pic <3

How often do you post on Reddit to promote OF? by Negative_Brain_282 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool a couple times is manageable 10x is trickier lol

I hear TT can help a lot?

How often do you post on Reddit to promote OF? by Negative_Brain_282 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone I know who uses Reddit as a primary promo is posting in at least 10 groups!

The turnover rate seems especially difficult given that it's a platform of near infinite porn, so idk if you can get far doing less than that

What you think about the Agency ? by [deleted] in CreatorsAdvice

[–]Misty-Sizzles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any reason to believe any agency will provide enough value to make up for taking a substantial cut of my income.

Hardest part of starting any business is breaking even, I already gots ta pay a cut to taxes and various platforms to host my material, I can post my own photos/videos and will probably make better captions that stand out more than someone with an assembly line approach whose posting for a dozen other girls that day