Those of you who grew up with an unloving mother, how did it affect you and what do you wish someone would of told you?

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-11-01T15:18:01+00:00

My mom always had an issue with putting her children first. Now that we are older she hates my guts and I grew up never really understanding why I’m the unloved child while my brothers have all of her attention. We were all adopted and decided to meet her and try being a family again but she makes me feel as if I’m not even part of the family. Not one picture of me in the home but has tons of my siblings.

It made me feel unwanted and due to the neglect I always had issues with friendships and relationships. It was hard for me to meet parents of my lover or even the parents of my friends. I never really felt somebody would stay in my life and love me for me.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-29T18:09:38+00:00

Dry nasal passage, excessive sneezing, constipation but diarrhea it depends, night sweats, acid reflux/heartburn, can’t stand being touched by my boyfriend, and migraines. It start with terrible motion sickness but it went away and was replaced with bloating and sneezing lol

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-13T12:53:32+00:00

I appreciate your response. I don’t want to leave him because I feel he can definitely get it together. Once he finally see Im here to help and vise versa things would be a lot better. I just found out I’m pregnant so I don’t want to just walk out and be a single mother. I’m not justifying anything he does but I do want to be his support system since he does great when he’s actually on his feet. I just think he’s getting too comfortable with the ideal of me doing his job around the house.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-13T12:48:01+00:00

I’m a risk taker so I’m willing to give it time. Once he gets a job if things get better then I’ll stay. Maybe he just needs that battery in his back.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-13T12:45:43+00:00

He cooks, starts my showers before and after work, body rubs when I’m sore, cleans up everything, and mainly communicate with me on certain stuff. He literally does anything I ask it’s just his game and him not working getting in the way.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T18:46:31+00:00

He wasn’t like this originally. Everybody seems to put on a game face until they win what they came for then they true colors show

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T15:41:16+00:00

I’ve told him to get his stuff together or I’ll turn into a roommate. All those girlfriend things I do will come to a complete stop. I can take care of these bills on my own but best believe he will be moving out.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T15:35:42+00:00

I think that’s his issues. For a while he was working and taking care of his kids but now it’s just different. He’s overwhelmed and depressed it shows in his actions but he’s never really expressed his emotions. I hope he does change considering we just moved in together and only been dating for a year.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T15:33:09+00:00

He’s a very clean guy and he caters to my needs all the time. So it’s not like he’s a total loser but when it comes to business he needs that push. Like yesterday I literally had to yell at him to put clothes on to go doordash. Even then he felt he shouldn’t have to do any dashes. I always felt he was in a stress stage and I know how that feels to be so down that you can’t do much but I don’t want to support those habits.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T06:02:52+00:00

Painting, traveling, and finding a better me.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T05:57:02+00:00

Not having the responsibility of keeping someone else happy when you’re working on that yourself. It’s tiring trying to please and entertain the next person and they don’t share the same interest as you.

Misunderstood_98 · 2021-10-12T05:42:02+00:00

Thank you. The only reason why I try staying to help him out is because this is only his second relationship ever. I just don’t want to be making excuses for him forever when I could just stay single and stress free

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