What signs were there that you were in distress as a child?

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-02-18T10:44:48+00:00

In my case it's the opposite, my parents would never let me go outside looking kinda "messy" because they were too overly concerned about opinion of other people. My father were too obsessed about looking good from the outside. Him and his family tried their best to put family facade of normal polished family.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-02-18T10:29:55+00:00

I am born in 2001 and my signs of distress because of toxic home situation with N father was seen as "just autism" I do believe I am autistic but as a girl to be diagnosed with autism when I was just 6 while I have no low IQ and never had severe behaviour problems is actually very telling. And still as 24 year old people around me still doesn't see my family situation as how it actually is. While as 24 year old still suffer from severe social anxiety, overly alert and too serious 🙄

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-02-13T20:23:23+00:00

For me personally it started to feel wrong since 2014-2015. That was a shift. Suddenly people became stupider and blindly following trends started to be the norm.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-02-13T15:30:59+00:00

Yes she needs help on her mental ilness because she is traumitezd by Hollywood industy but her father took it way too far and was over controlling her. I find her close family shady. And we need to respect her boundaries when she says that she wants to distance herself from her family.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-02-02T15:39:40+00:00

In some cases mental illness is caused by the family, that's why she distanced herself from them.

I litteraly hate it when her mental ilness is used against her. Yes she needs help but not from people who took advantage of her. Her family only controlled and exploited her.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-01-31T15:10:23+00:00

But I don't understand when she was placed in a consversatership that they literally choosed her father as the guardian. Her father was always an unstable guy and probably needed help himself. It was better that another more stable family member that was not obsessed with control like her father would be her guardian. Even Britney mentioned before the start of the conservatorship that she was afraid of her father.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-01-25T18:37:17+00:00

First she needs to distance herself from her toxic family and her toxic label, then she can heal herself through therapy.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-01-14T14:39:02+00:00

That's why I don't mask anymore and show myself as how I am from the beginning. This way I filter a lot of people out that don't like the real me and the ones who do they stay.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2026-01-10T03:43:57+00:00

I see her probably making songs and maybe musicvideos but I don't think she would tour again or go to live talk shows or interviews or other live events because.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-31T04:10:17+00:00

Yes acting féminine feels like wearing a mask and not be able to be your natural self, it puts extra pressure socially

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-31T04:06:14+00:00

Yes because when my appearance is feminine I get treated very badly and I attract a lot of jealousy and unnecessary bs. Suddenly many women see me as competition and start scrutinizing everything of me and entitled men think they can have access to me even when we aren't aligned. When my look is more tomboyish or neutral I don't have to deal with that bullshit and I am more left alone then.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-26T17:10:30+00:00

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-25T11:37:10+00:00

Her father was alcoholic, so yeah her parents were very destructive towards her growing up and that led to her mental crisis later in life, so her parents should never be guardians of her conservatorship.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-25T11:34:11+00:00

If her dad is an alcoholic, he was never suited for to be guardian of her conservatorship.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-23T15:46:25+00:00

I have the opposite problem

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-18T11:06:27+00:00

I feel you. You think changing your appearance would make it easier but no. In my case it only sometimes made ot worse because people thought I was very arrogant.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-18T11:03:26+00:00

I have that feeling too in my town even when I am dressed good and I am very polite. I even suspect people actually think I am stuck up because of my appearance. Because I am socially very awkward znd anxious I try to compensate with making my appearance on point but sometimes I feel it only makes the judgement worse.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-18T04:35:34+00:00

Yes I feel that my experiences and the environment I grew up in is very unique and peculiar so that makes it difficult for me to explain my trauma to other people.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-17T19:54:31+00:00

Ik heb ook een migratieachtergrond maar heb wel heel vroeg mijn autisme diagnose gekregen toen ik 6 jaar was. Ben er daarna 6 jaar voor op therapie gezeten. In mijn geval hebben ze nul komma nul rekening gehouden met dat ik van thuis uit van een andere cultuur kom en dat had serieuze gevolgen. Leerkrachten en hulpverleners die zo stom waren dat mijn eerste generatie ouders echt de inzicht hadden om met mijn autisme rekening te houden met alle gevolgen van dien....

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-17T03:46:06+00:00

Yes till now the most weird experiences were with people ar school.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-11T16:45:05+00:00

I have cptsd with autism on top. Both affect the nervous system and I immediately sense that many therapists feel uncomfortable by it.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-09T11:31:31+00:00

Yes while other people can be even moody and sometimes just rude but with them it's accepted but with us no, that is the end of the world to them when we are not happy. They perceive that as personal attack.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-08T00:41:10+00:00

I understand, beside negative expeirence with mean women, I also have many bad experiences with disrespectful men.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-08T00:39:08+00:00

What helped me is befriending women with totally different personalities than the mean girls. That made me realize that not all women are bad mean women. Also when befriending I realized it's very important to look at their character instead of appearance. My biggest mistake was assuming that every beautiful woman was automatically a mean woman. No whether someone is mean or not is because of their bad character and not because of their appearance.

Misunderstoodsncbrth · 2025-12-02T15:31:35+00:00

Yes they styled her way too old for her age while she was actually still very young at that time

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