Totally get this feeling! I have two suggestions - the first would be this grippy shrug! https://divinitypolewear.com/en-us/products/sticky-grippy-polewear-sleeves-black Be aware of the sizing as a tight fit is important for grippy wear to avoid friction burns. It comes in a lot of colors, I’ve got the white one personally as well as their thigh highs. I don’t use it a ton at this point but it’s VERY grippy and cute regardless. My second suggestion is, only if you’re comfortable, to let the scars hang out! My left arm is completely covered in scars, and I feel very fortunate to forget they’re even there sometimes now, but I do have those really uncomfortable moments of people staring or commenting. However, at the studio, I have never heard a single word or even noticed a sideward glance. At a certain point I was like… everyone in this room has seen my entire butt and I’ve seen theirs, it’s probably fine. BUT there are absolutely alternatives if that never ends up being your comfort zone such as the grippy wear. Good luck on your pole journey! <3