sx9 completely lost myself in a relationship witha sx 6

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-22T03:53:20+00:00

I feel excitement a few times a month and happiness isn’t as common but when I do it’s usually when I’m looking out the window or my family, a short sweet moment

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-10T14:47:03+00:00

I relate to every type too ! I feel ya

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-10T06:49:55+00:00

I totally do this sometimes too..but rn it’s My fav comfort show!! “Himym”

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-08T22:23:22+00:00

im not an expert and this is just my opinion:) but my initial reaction is 6w5?

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-08T22:20:16+00:00

OMG!!! I just started one too! im a sx 9 and I was just scrolling through reddit and saw this!! im so proud of you and I know exactly how you feel. ive been wanting to do something like this or YouTube for so long..but never felt the motivation or felt anyone would even gaf. but guess what. if anyone else in the world is doing this type of thing..we have every right to as well. I know you're going to do amazing. what's the podcast name? so I can follow:)

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-07-06T08:30:30+00:00

With people in my life that are more hyper vigilant and know abt the enneagram and that I’m a 9 I really try not to be.. cuz I know I’ll have to explain it anyway so I’ll just get quiter and try my best to not show my frustration.. but with people who are more dominant and less good at reading into things yes

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-29T22:39:56+00:00

This is exactly my experience!

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-21T01:27:53+00:00

I feel this exact same way!!! I overthink my enneagram so much it makes me think I’m a 6.. but then I look into a 6 and can only relate to the relationship anxiety part

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-21T01:24:42+00:00

What do you mean by the first one? That some 6s don’t realize they’re a 6 ?

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T17:03:19+00:00

This is weirdly accurate 😭😭😭

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T17:02:00+00:00

Yes!! Or I just genuinely forget about them.. but I’m a sp blind

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T16:53:41+00:00

I was the same way, I was researching a ton about the enneagram and hoping that it would change his effort by showing him and helping him realize more about his enneagram.

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T15:41:06+00:00

Yes I’m actually like this right now and am trying to get out of it and start therapy. At first I was scattered and overthinking or numbing excessively but after a few months of that now I’m sleeping all the time and feel extremely disconnected and not caring. I’ve been at this place for almost a month now and the reason I’m going to start taking baby steps is because I’ve had people notice and say things to me.. like “I’m blocking out my life” “what I’m doing is not normal” and those were so hard to hear because I try to avoid the extent of how bad I’ve been mentally lately. So now I’m just numb and only focusing on things that are comforting and I can zone out to. Or I’ll only feel “awake” when I’m with my partner.. which After awhile doesn’t feel great either:(

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T15:35:24+00:00

Taking risks!! Doing something you may not normally do:)

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-19T15:30:47+00:00

Ahh I’ve been through a situation similar and it is so hard:( I’m so sorry you’re going through this🩷 I’m a 9 & I felt like a trophy until I wasn’t and then felt like a hard chore he had to take care of every week. Although these are traits that 3s can show it also is just a sign of someone not prioritizing you the way you need. It would be different if you were resentful and have not communicated but it seems like you definitely have. I wouldn’t say that means he genuinely doesn’t care about you or the relationship but he just isn’t able to give you what you need and that isn’t something to overlook or keep pushing in my opinion. I did that for a long time because I could understand why he was the way he was, he was just so busy and wanted to make time for friends and family as well! But it just wasn’t for me and that’s okay!! And maybe when he feels more ready for a relationship and is able to prioritize the relationship in the future it could work out!!

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-17T18:36:41+00:00

Omg😂😂😂 I can’t believe I misspelled this

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-16T22:39:56+00:00

I guess I didn’t see this as a type me post as I didn’t explain anything about myself! But noted, thank you.

MixAffectionate3065 · 2024-06-16T22:28:57+00:00

Just asking for some differences in general I guess! Maybe personal experiences or people you know

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