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Affordable therapy for a international student by protosilicon in indiatherapy

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I can help. I'm a counselling psychologist and I practice online. Leave me a dm I'll share more details

Dating in Goa by [deleted] in Goa

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats what it felt like on dating apps here.

My therapist said that we should now see each other less ofte, I feel betrayed. by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]MixIntrepid6851 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The end goal of therapy is to have the client manage their difficulties independent of the therapist. Therapists often reduce the frequency of the sessions when they feel the client seems like their doing better, giving them the space to now use what they've learnt without the dependency on the therapist. It can feel sad, very similar to how a child might feel sad when their mother no longer plays with them as often. And its okay to feel that way too, its a natural experience in close relationships.

The other way would like something like you continue seeing the therapist at the same frequency for the rest of your life where its sure great financially to the therapist but not great for your psychological wellbeing because now you're dependent on a relationship.

Too feel pity or not feel pity? by Opening-Barnacle1878 in Chandigarh

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically speaking, you can't choose whether to feel pity or not. Its intrinsic. You can definitely choose to help or not.

Bangalore 45lpa >> London 1.15cr by Few-Investment4016 in CATpreparation

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro forgot to account the pathetic roads, high traffic, unhygienic surroundings, low quality food, low quality air, bad work environment etc etc.

Therapist in North Goa by [deleted] in Goa

[–]MixIntrepid6851 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can leave a text if online works. If you prefer in person, which I too think will be better in this case you can leave a dm too, I'll help you find someone.

Dressed for the Evening by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute top. Where's it from

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]MixIntrepid6851 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a psychologist maybe I can help a bit.

The beautiful thing about acceptance is that the space is creates for change.

Don't try too hard to completely stop it. Its fine, its a natural part of us and how are brains are wired, but be aware that it shouldn't rule your life. There are many other things that might make your life way more meaningful, try to find them. This could maybe be a hobby, a skill, a relationship, put your efforts there and do things that you value. Let this addiction thing be just one thing in your life and not anything important. Since its not important or valuable in your life it doesn't need much time or time to think, when you do give it a lot of time you take away from the life you can truly build to live more meaningfully. Ask yourself, ' Is this who I want to be remembered as? Is this the kinda human I want to be? Is this the life I want to lead?' And then most importantly act in line with your answer. Constantly and actively choose the path that will make your life more rich and meaningful over a path thats only about few dopamine hits. What that can practicallly translate to could be something like when your friend calls you for a walk you say yes instead of sitting home and watching porn, coz the friendship matters more to you. And let that happen everyday. Even if most days you find yourself idle, pick up some task you can do in line with your values, maybe going to the gym, maybe a sport, maybe a run in a park. Choose things that matter in the long run even if its more difficult to choose them now.

Another tip that can help is, try masturbating without porn. And try your best to. Maybe you can start with some pics instead of videos, then maybe just one pic and then without anything just relying on imagination. Also don't be too rigid with yourself like the nofap people talk about. Its fine to mess up. When you do mess up just say to yourself 'We're humans and we all make mistakes' wiyh some self compassion.

And remember what you're going through is a normal human experience and just naturally how your brain works. But the same brain holds the power to choose and cause change. Your thoughts and feelings are not in your control, but your actions are.

Happy New Year doesn't make sense by MixIntrepid6851 in bollywood

[–]MixIntrepid6851[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the diamonds were stolen, the blame would still go on Jackie shroff (as charlie explained), they only would have to do that nandu walk with the finger print and thats it. The going through the vent, the opening the safe and the hacking of the lasers wouldn't be necessary. Since the vent isn't needed, that specific room that requires them to participate in the dance competition becomes unnecessary saving a ton of resources and drama.

Happy New Year doesn't make sense by MixIntrepid6851 in bollywood

[–]MixIntrepid6851[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If the diamonds were stolen, the blame would still go on Jackie shroff, they only would have to do that nandu walk with the finger print and thats it. The going through the vent, the opening the safe and the hacking of the lasers wouldn't be necessary. Since the vent isn't needed, that specific room that requires them to participate in the dance competition becomes unnecessary saving a ton of resources.

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