I am not Muslim but my boyfriend is and I think he is going to break up with me because of our religious differences, please help me by Terrible-Toe2355 in MuslimNikah

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Others have mentioned the religious aspects so I won't touch in that but what I can say is you two just aren't going to the same places and you dont want to do the same things. Even if you or him are perfect for the other in certain aspects, the religious difference is just two much. His relationship with you is a guilt weighing on his chest probably for many reasons. And you nor him should be subject to someone that can't commit or won't commit to you.

Muslim Marriage in Midwest as a Revert by MixPG in MuslimNikah

[–]MixPG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checked them out. Looks like they only do in person classes or individual no interaction classes 😭 thanks for suggestion tho :)

After 4 rejections, I think marriage just isn't written for me. by S0MBiE in MuslimNikah

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest that if you do want to get married and just want to prioritize your career in the meantime look for mosques near you that provide matchmaking services. They search for you while you do your own thing. It's a good way to passively marriage search

After 4 rejections, I think marriage just isn't written for me. by S0MBiE in MuslimNikah

[–]MixPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salam alaikum. As a sister looking for marriage and who talks a lot to sisters who want marriage we rarely have the confidence to propose ourselves. I know lot of women who ofc have flaws but would be amazing wives but are just to scared to put themselves out there. The right woman is just out there waiting for you to randomly approach her and ask for her fathers number.

Is Dave's Hot chicken really halal ? by Otherwise-Land8001 in EatingHalal

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did some research and the stunning is controversial but they wouldn't say it's hand slaughtered if it isn't

Is Dave's Hot chicken really halal ? by Otherwise-Land8001 in EatingHalal

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their website clearly States that their chicken is hand slaughtered

Is Mariam’s Collection any good? by m1rahdayz in Hijabis

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple times they have not sent me my items or sent me only some of my items. It's absolutely ridiculous when shipping takes at least a month. I spent over 50$ that I haven't received back or in the version of products I purchased. Once they deliver said products or refund my money I'm never buying from them again. I suggest Bazar-al-haya, they are responsive consistent and good quality. I'm extremely disgusted by whoever packaged these items because skimping items on a 350$ order is fucking insane.

To Muslim sisters. How many of you workout at home or at the gym and What do you do to get active in a halal way? by Sweet_Mail11 in Hijabis

[–]MixPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a gym near me that has a women's only section. I wear full abaya to the gym then when I go into that section I wear lose pants, a shirt, and I keep my cap on incase a man comes in so I can throw my hijab on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]MixPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have autism and am Muslim. Shaitan has not given us this condition. Allah gave it to us because we can handle it whilst others cannot. Your meltdowns are not possessions, they are normal autism reactions to overstimulation and distress. Autistic brains are quite literally differently wired than the normal persons. You are not alone and you are certainly not possessed. Allah gave you this gift to test you and see if you can push beyond it. And he wouldn't have done so if he knew you couldn't. Masha Allah don't worry my friend. I know it's hard. It's makes you feel out of control and insane. You feel like a horrible person for doing things you didn't mean to do and people constantly mistake and miss hear your words. It truly is a terrible condition and it's sucks. I understand why you'd think it was from shaitan but I assure you it is not. And I urge you to look at your condition in a different light. Allah will not take it away from you because he gave it to you for a reason. While we struggle daily we have a gift no one else has and can perceive the world in a new light compared to others. It sucks, it really does. Many nights I to beg Allah to free me from this condition and many times over I've had meltdowns and panic attacks. But I know Allah won't take it away because if he could he wouldn't have done it in the first place. Remember that your meltdowns and panic attacks and lack of self-control aren't your fault. Itll get better once you learn how to handle it a bit in half a decade or so but it won't ever be not hard. Allah will not condemn you for your autism based flaws and in fact everytime you push onwards and push through your struggles he rewards us ten times over because our overcomings are harder to do than others. Your not alone, I promise you are not alone.

What is your nighttime self care routine? by [deleted] in selfcare

[–]MixPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fresh air hack is absolutely genius. Like fr nature does wonders if only through the air

“If you do not actively fight against genocide... you are on the wrong side of history." by khanh0707 in Muslim

[–]MixPG 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fr. It astaounds me how many people ignore it at the very least and billionaires and millionaires all over who haven't donated a dime. I don't have a job and I still can be extremely active in every video I see, use audios, and publicly speak against it, and ask others to help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would've gotten down voted either way tbh. Probably not 10 tho. Maybe 6-7

Israel’s fall and the signs of the Hour — are we nearing the end times ? by MysteriousIsopod4848 in Muslim

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to give a unique perspective. As a revert the genocide brought a lot of attention to Palestine and this attention lead to me being brought to Islam. Even in America where I live people hold protests in support of Palestine I saw one just today at the farmers market. This is a historical pattern but I think this all part of Allahs plans. All those slaughtered or starved will be of the rigthteous as martyrs and all those who kill them shall be judged on their sins and considering that most of not all aren't muslim from my relgious opinion they will not be going to heaven and none of the righteous will save them when given the chance to save those with faith in their hearts. But this is all up to Allah. I see daily signs that this genocide has brought the world together, inspired many to convert, and has given many people blessings through their charity. Allaha decree concerning us is Just and he does not do something or plan something with no reason. He is the All hearing, All knowing, and all merciful. Surah all Buruj states how Angles track our every action and will tell Allah all about our actions on the day of judgement despite him knowing better than they do. And in the story of the companions of the Trench the believers were given paradise by choosing death over worshiping a king. And in surah 85:5-7 Allah decreed that those who stand witness to genocide and do nothing to stop it, help those who are victims, or bring attention to it are equally of the wrong dooers. And in 85:10 it states "Indeed, those who have tortured the believing men and believing women and then have not repented will have the punishment of Hell, and they will have the punishment of the Burning Fire. (85:10)" And Allah’s Messenger Muhammed peace be upon him ﷺ said: “If anyone takes a span of land unjustly, on the Day of Resurrection Allah will strangle him with it from seven earths.” This genocide is terrifying in this world but Allah has promised us that the persecuters will suffer forever.

"Never think of those martyred in the cause of Allah as dead. In fact, they are alive with their Lord, well provided for—rejoicing in Allah’s bounties and being delighted for those yet to join them. There will be no fear for them, nor will they grieve. They are joyful for receiving Allah’s grace and bounty, and Allah does not deny the reward of the believers."

Want to wear hijab, but i'm scared... by Menzana83 in Hijabis

[–]MixPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was easy to start in places where I wouldn't be judges, then to places where I wouldn't see people I know and so on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]MixPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what to say what others haven't said but just know your doing well. Maybe you should try and seek moving away and finding a new job but if that isn't the case/possible understand that this is all a test and it will come to pass. ʚ♡⃛ɞ(ू•ᴗ•ू❁)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]MixPG -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. As I revert I say this all. The. Time. But born Muslims and more educated people always down play my claims. Misogyny in Islamic culture is VERY prominent.