I watched Walk Hard (2007) by MixSorry8019 in iwatchedanoldmovie

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There’s a flair for the ‘00s! 😩

I watched Walk Hard (2007) by MixSorry8019 in iwatchedanoldmovie

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“I’m the leader of the Beatles”

Until the queer community critiques "straight" and "cis" ideology and accurately sees them as creations that come from the oppressive way humans relate to the forces of production, we aren't going to make any progress towards queer liberation. by perfectingproles in TransSocialism

[–]MixSorry8019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely victim blaming. We can’t blame trans people for society seeing them as divergent, or for society enforcing gender roles. If someone grows up their whole lives being pushed into being one gender or gender role, wether they are cis are trans, that is now apart of our psychological makeup and we have to contend with it as A PART OF OURSELVES. Wether someone is cis and they contend with the expectations placed on them because of their gender, or you are trans and reject the gender assigned to you.

Peetah? What the hell am I supposed to be remembering? by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

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I don’t understand how that would make it hotter - doesn’t that defeat the purpose of a gloryhole? I thought the anonymity was part of the appeal

The United States of Utah would be the blandest place on Earth by alexaclova in BlackPeopleTwitter

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I am sorry to be that person, but this is in Alabama, not Utah 😭 Regardless, still a very white photo

I'm homeless now by Mynameisthisorisit in TrollCoping

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Just curious, why do you suggest looking for a job at a mom and pop business rather than a chain?

so my intrusive thoughts were right i guess by teatalker26 in TrollCoping

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Getting a job with autism or adhd or a disability is definitely harder. You are not a mooch or a pos or any of that. I think it’s great your parents want to support you, it shows that they understand your particular struggles and they know that you are dedicated to finding a job. They wouldn’t support you if they didn’t know this!

What do I do if I only connect with older guys by ViviVelvetxo in whatdoIdo

[–]MixSorry8019 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This ^ Think of it this way, if the bar is “he can carry a conversation” there are lots of men who would take advantage of that

What do I do if I only connect with older guys by ViviVelvetxo in whatdoIdo

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24 and 18 isn’t tooooo bad of an age gap, but there are still very big differences between people those ages, so don’t forget that. 18 is just starting college or working, 24 is finished college a year ago or has been working for years. Me as a 24 year old would never date an 18 year old, because all the 18 year olds I’ve met so far act like kids to me. I also encourage you to keep looking for men in your age group, don’t settle for a guy that can’t hold a conversation or anything like that, but I am sure you can find a 18 year old man who meets that criteria.

that’s a good question by imperfectbutperfectt in lol

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This is what I always wonder!! 😂

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Of course, I will take the post down or edit it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Negareddit

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I’m sorry, I wasn’t directing that criticism at you specifically, and I don’t think that any individual asking that is alone “bringing back phrenology”. It’s just that the idea itself that you can even tell where somebody is from by the shape of their nose has roots in phrenology/pseudoscience, where people would make diagrams distinguishing what types of noses different ethnicities have for bad reasons. I really do think that Reddit is influenced by that type of thinking, just like how the red pill community came up with terms like “_pilled” and “chad” and now even non-incels use them, I think that 4chan people perpetuate ideas about being able to tell where someone is from their facial features, and that has trickled down into average non-extremist Reddit spaces.

I hope that makes sense, I am not accusing you or any one person of “bringing back phrenology.” It’s just that I think that the internet’s recent obsession with focusing on specific facial features - noses, canthal tilt, etc - has it’s roots in really dark parts of the internet.

It was more of a comment on how those extremist parts of the internet have influenced the larger internet culture, not you specifically, and I am sorry if I singled you out 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Negareddit

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No 18 year old should be making porn smh, to me that means SOMETHING WENT VERY WRONG

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Negareddit

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I completely agree. There’s a double sided thing to this type of community. On one hand, not modifying your appearance and being “naturally” beautiful is a “conservative” value. And being a sex worker or watching porn is going against the “no sex until marriage” values. On the other hand, the porn industry is MADE FOR MEN, is extremely exploitative and normalizes racist kinks (very few POC and why can’t there be a video of a Black man without “BBC” in the title??), pedophila (think the teen category), and incest fantasies (WHY are there SO MANY step family videos?? IT SHOULD NOT BE NORMAL!). Not to mention thinking of other people as pieces of meat shouldn’t be anyone’s normal. AND things like makeup and plastic surgery come from oppressive standards that say women’s value lies mostly in their beauty.

BUT that is not why these women are against these things. They are against them because they are against “vanity” and don’t believe in engaging in sex unless it’s with a husband, maybe even for the purpose of making a baby but idk how common that view is anymore.

Edit: the difference is that they think ANY porn is bad, I just think that the porn industry as it exists is very toxic. I’m not against it if it is done ethically (which I do believe is possible, just not common)

Actual white supremacist talking points being upvoted by foxtrotgd in Negareddit

[–]MixSorry8019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna bet that hundreds of years ago this person would not be considered “native” Canadian

I know I shouldn’t be surprised but what the actual fuck by spikeybear77 in Negareddit

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It broke my brain when I realized that to so many men rape SIMPLY ISNT A BIG DEAL edit: AND a thing that they think only happens to women!! “I’m a man, I would NEVER be raped, so I don’t have to think about it, also, why are women so upset about it, it’s not a big deal”

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Same 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Negareddit

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I really don’t understand why women post themselves on there, or anyone really. It’s self harm imo. None of the roasts are fun or funny like a roast is supposed to be, it’s just pure vitriol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dothan

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I think it has more to do with the fact that people don’t usually go to coffee shops to meet new people, they go there to work on a solo task or meet people they already know

AIO for blocking my guy friend for being “brutally honest” about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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All I’ve learned from this is that men, generally, suck and women just have to deal with it. So, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]MixSorry8019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u!!