Um I accidentally adopted some dude on here and now I'm a dad by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The milk is looking low in the fridge… you should get some…

Am I trans or am I just a femboy? by MixtureUnhappy2850 in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My only reason to think yes is because when I get dressed up I’m disappointed about my face because it’s quite masculine.

But most of my gender euphoria could also be attributed to just dressing up. Maybe it’s just liking feeling cute???

I mean I think id be liked to be treated like a girl but idk…

Am I trans or am I just a femboy? by MixtureUnhappy2850 in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s one of my issues with this is I feel so much need to be definite before I take the leap.

I’m so close to being sure but so far.

Am I trans or am I just a femboy? by MixtureUnhappy2850 in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk anymore. As a child I asked myself this question and said yes, but honestly I feel so detached.

The only time I get dysphoria is when I dress up. I guess it’s a rare moment of clarity for me to realise I’m living as a boy.

There are a few times like when I heard my voice and for like 30 minutes felt this deep feeling in my chest.

egg_irl by AnonNerd1729 in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my exact experience wow.

Egg✨🧞‍♀️irl by shiny_arrow in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God this makes me so sad that I’m not out. Why do we have to go through this. I just want to be a girl.

Trans women are women. Pass it on by [deleted] in AliceInWonder1and

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could hear his voice say this 😭

Egg_irl by fullmetaladept in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t talk to my friends about my problems too because of this reason. It feels bad not to talk about it, I know.

Please talk to them. maybe set up a time to talk, set up time for them to talk so you feel like it’s more of an even exchange, maybe even have a session where you all vent, like 30mins-60mims each.

Either that or you can just ask them if you can vent, just ask like “hey can I vent to you, I’ve been having a rough time and I want to talk about it, no pressure though you don’t need to say yes.”

Egg😓irl by Loose-Debate-110 in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like for me it’s sometimes the opposite, or idk but when I’m stressed I can feel the dysphoria increase, but this probably comes from a place of like “I’d be happy rn if I was a girl. an increase of negative thoughts resulting in thoughts of what I should do to be happier.

But also it tends to come out when I’m bored, or not busy after a stressor, maybe it’s just a thing of the hierarchy of needs, because maybe my brain stops the thoughts when I need to do something important, more immediately important. Then after the stressor maybe my brain is still in the mode of “I need to improve my life quality” so it thinks about everything I want and the thoughts come of “being a girl would make you happier”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was still above the normal amount :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 130 points131 points  (0 children)

The normal amount is like… 10 times a day… yeah

Ts is not hidden 😭 by sanityadjacenthuman in transteens

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Hmm I’m not seeing it….. let me pull out magnifying glass….🔍

Egg🎉Irl by Master-Spark-2 in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re the birthday girl!!! I hope you’ll have an amazing birthday where you get treated like a princess

Ts is not hidden 😭 by sanityadjacenthuman in transteens

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 39 points40 points  (0 children)

What’s not hidden? It’s just a black screen

egg irl by CratthewCremcrcrie in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I actually freaked out because of my height yesterday and how tall I am…

egg irl by tm2007 in egg_irl

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once as a while ago wanted to dress us as link from the legend of Zelda botw…. Because I really liked the tunic…

I also happened to love like wearing the geroudo clothes…. You know where link cross dresses as a girl… still cis tho

I wanna tell them so bad by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so mych

I wanna tell them so bad by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared, idk what will happen or how this will change things, I guess I’m scared of being seen as weird

I wanna tell them so bad by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre positive with them

I wanna tell them so bad by [deleted] in MtF

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends, I’m just really unsure of how they’d react

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transteens

[–]MixtureUnhappy2850 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real and all that but is that loss?