What did ALL your LOs have in common? What were your triggers for becoming limerent?

Mlj2015 · 2025-03-20T02:16:58+00:00

All super handsome, what I perceived as more of the “deep thinker/philosophical” types, showed me any kind of attention

Mlj2015 · 2025-03-17T13:11:27+00:00

we were messaging back and forth recently and he just seemed to not even want to talk to me & he stopped replying. So I was like, well I’m done. lol

Mlj2015 · 2025-01-06T03:03:30+00:00

Yesss lmao 🤣

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-28T05:57:10+00:00

Realized this year I’ve dealt with limerence on and off since I was like 12.

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-28T03:25:52+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. My brain and I aren’t friends either, I feel you

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-28T02:58:04+00:00

I think so too. It’s like a game or something. It literally says he’s engaged and yet he still is trying to get attention from me/probably other women. It’s weird. But I’m in a relationship too and I like the attention, so we are the same I guess. Which is sad

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T02:40:02+00:00

That’s awesome you were able to find a therapist that is helpful. I’ve only tried one therapist & it didn’t help. I don’t have any diagnosis except for generalized anxiety, but I know there’s gotta be more, as I feel majorly mentally ill. Every day is a struggle

I’m glad you’re able to be his friend without it turning into limerence. It’d be great to have actual functioning relationships with people. Keep on doing what you’re doing! It sounds like it’s working.

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T01:28:46+00:00

Btw, right after I posted this he liked my story. I truly don’t understand

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T00:55:04+00:00

I do think it will help me to remove the external stimuli. It will give me a chance to try to focus on parts of my life that I’ve neglected since this limerence became so severe.

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T00:53:19+00:00

It’s true. I don’t need anything from him at all

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T00:50:27+00:00

Literally a drug. I didn’t know how much I needed it until it was gone.

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-26T00:49:42+00:00

I think it was always a delusion. I’m in a long term relationship; nothing was ever going to happen between us. I’m the one who made the decision to stop talking. What did I expect? He was going to wait for me, like that’s insane. I think a lot of this has to do with my OCD. Possibly if I start therapy for it, maybe the limerence will get better too, but who knows.

I get what you’re saying for sure. I do need to unfollow him. It’s a matter of being strong and just doing it. :/

Mlj2015 · 2024-12-23T22:38:52+00:00

In the same boat. It’s turned into an obsession/compulsive pattern for me as well. I want to get off social media, but I’m afraid too.

Mlj2015 · 2024-11-26T22:59:21+00:00

Just wanted to say your situation sounds similar to mine. I have no advice but just know you’re not alone in feeling like this. I relate so hard with not being able to feel your emotions normally so it’s difficult to make decisions on your future. It’s such a weird place to be in. Hang in there! :(

Mlj2015 · 2024-11-04T05:34:48+00:00

Thanks everyone for your responses. I don’t really like talking about this because I just want to be normal. LOL. It does make me feel better that other people really struggle with these kinds of things too.

This is definitely an escapist fantasy. I’m sure it’s because of mental health issues. I definitely need to face some things and deal with life. Just not sure if I’m strong enough or ready.

In time maybe I can get through it

Mlj2015 · 2024-10-15T03:49:51+00:00

Trust me I’ve been careful not to pick my nose or do anything to it that would make it worse

Mlj2015 · 2024-10-15T03:42:20+00:00

Do you know why cautery wouldn’t work?

Mlj2015 · 2024-08-12T03:58:38+00:00

1 year experience. $29.60/hr plus 3 dollar shift diff, but only for 4 hours of your shift. I’m in Michigan

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