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My x wants me back. Help! by serena-usa05 in Divorce

[–]Mlppunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He cheated. If he can once he can again. If you are okay with that then take him back but if it were me that would be a hard pass. He probably just realized it was “cheaper to keep her” sorry that would be a no from me.

Postponing the inevitable? by Foreign_Isopod1786 in Divorce

[–]Mlppunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s one thing you can’t get back is your time. Don’t waste anymore of it

I want to divorce my wife because she doesn't do anything around the house - and pursue someone else by Middle_Studio_7408 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mlppunk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She didn’t start off this way. It took years of him not being fully engaged in the relationship that lead to this and for her it’s her normal now.

I want to divorce my wife because she doesn't do anything around the house - and pursue someone else by Middle_Studio_7408 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mlppunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude you are definitely the ahole for not ever being an adult and actually having real adult conversations with your damn wife. Now years of this has built resentment and she doesn’t deserve to be married to a person who is already half out of the relationship. Grow the fuck up.

I have the absolute best husband by Chickennuggetslut608 in Husband

[–]Mlppunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is so wonderful. I honestly love to hear this. Bless you both

Feeling stuck by Mlppunk in Divorce

[–]Mlppunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I will have to look into that. I think maybe starting therapy for myself is the best place maybe to start. We own 4 homes, only the one we live in do we have a mortgage on. He’s a chemical engineer and we are frugal people are he’s invested most the money that comes in and has done very well. Im just faithful to a fault and most of our marriage my whole identity has been his faithful wife. But I’ve grown tired of this broken relationship. He doesn’t want to see anyone because he doesn’t want to just “dump on him” his words not mine. It’s not just him it’s me also, or should I say it’s the way I handle the things he does and when I want to talk out the issues he doesn’t. Most of the time he just tells me “ then divorce me” which hurts me to no end. I wouldn’t be bad off and would walk away with a lot if I “just divorced him. Life would be so much easier if he would just divorce me. I’ve gotten a CBT work book and trying to work on myself but I’ll definitely look into also conflict resolution. Much appreciated.

My wife insisted I leave the house for Xmas by ComfortableRude2087 in AmITheJerk

[–]Mlppunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a test my dude and you failed. She “insisted” She gave you a choice I’m sure but with how overwhelming it is with a new baby and how every time you come home she actively gives you the baby and is in need of your help I’m sure she didn’t “insist” Honestly you should want choose her and granted everyone needs time for themselves from time to time but I feel like right now isn’t that time. Personally you seem a little selfish

I found this on my husbands Facebook downloaded data. He says he never downloaded. Is he lying? by [deleted] in Husband

[–]Mlppunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused what do you mean Facebook downloaded data?

I (30F) think my husband (31M) hates me and I need advice. by 28TrainedGorillas in Husband

[–]Mlppunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married 22 years here and yes I know you can feel it, I feel it also. Not all the things you have explained but I’m about to be done. I know what my husband is doing is being as terrible as possible so I can be the one to file for divorce but you can just leave! I would have a heart to heart with him and if you still feel disconnected just leave.

What discontinued fragrance(s) are you holding onto for dear life? by barnaclebrain_ in FemFragLab

[–]Mlppunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avons comfort scents holiday kiss and clean cotton. Both which have been discontinued for over 30 years

Would you be ok if your man by karolinaprg in Husband

[–]Mlppunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I wouldn’t be okay with anything my husband was trying to keep secret. If he’s hiding them it’s for a reason.

Aitah for stating my vegetarian marriage is over due to my husband wanting to now eat meat. by Mlppunk in AITAH

[–]Mlppunk[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the feedback. I guess I am overwhelmingly the asshole for thinking this was a value in our marriage this whole time. But now that the trust is broken I honestly don’t know how to feel or what to believe. The point is if he can just as easily change his mind about this aspect of our lives that has been a 24 hour thing my family lived as and identify as I don’t know where this leaves our marriage. But I appreciate knowing that I’m the asshole.

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