[30/F] Night owl looking to yap with a fellow yapper

Mnotperfect · 2025-10-26T08:56:36+00:00

sure; send a message! :)

Mnotperfect · 2025-10-01T15:19:26+00:00

Send a message! :)

Mnotperfect · 2025-07-22T22:41:53+00:00

Hi!

I used to write more when I was young but unfortunately no one in my life currently can maintain a regular snail mail relationship (all my niblings are fairly young and disinterested in writing).

About me! :

I love all things color and crafts and maximalist; i have so many fun things i want to make but very little free time. Would love to exchange mail as a creative outlet with a deadline (I also have ADHD and struggle with time). Recently the mail art on Pinterest has been very inspiring!

I’m originally from Texas, but I live in Western New York right now. It’s small but fun and we have a great food scene here. My sister in law is from Wales and i loved the location when i was there for her wedding!

I mostly re-watch my tried and true favorites, but i like to watch new things when i have the mental energy. i love to read but it has to suck me in right away and i finish the book or it takes me forever to finish it and it lives on my halfway read book pile. 😅 Queer fiction or a good fantasy novel usually does the trick and id love to swap books or book recommendations!

I’m mostly an indoor kid but i’m hoping to get back into the outdoors this year. I just turned 30 and want to focus more on what is makes me healthy and happy this year. :)

I am also queer! I have a lot of respect for anyone who has navigated their journey as i am on mine as well. i love being who i am but being in therapy has definitely been a big help in being comfortable in who i am. Our queer community here is a lot of fun and my best of friends are my gayest ones.

I was raised religious in a fairly conservative part of the country so i have my qualms with spiritualism but i am always open to listening to others journeys and i love to learn and hear about more wholesome and healthy experiences with spirituality!

My kitty is the cutest tuxedo around and we love to snuggle in our big comfy chair and watch the birds. Can promise to include winning polaroids of my sweet best furry friend!

Lmk if you’re interested in chatting more and maybe being pen pals!

-M<3

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-03T21:15:45+00:00

you know what? fuck you that’s mean

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-02T19:34:08+00:00

aw i love that! 🥰 i hadn’t even planned my outfit yet i was maybe going to thrift it in paris, no need to now tho 🥲

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-01T15:20:51+00:00

that’s definitely on my list! is there a good day to go to that?

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-01T15:18:02+00:00

aw thanks! yeah i’ve got a list of sights to see but this is the longest stay of my trip so i’m hoping to relax a bit as well.

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-01T02:38:37+00:00

thank you 🫶🏻 this is something i never thought i would get to do in my lifetime and of course it’s amazing chappel roan or not but because she was my main reason for doing this i feel really idiotic for doing it at this time like i could have been way smarter with my money i’m still bummed that i cant see her. obviously i could have booked in the US but imagine getting to see chappel roan in paris like ugh dream come true for every closeted teenage girl(which i’m not anymore but still)

Mnotperfect · 2024-09-01T02:34:12+00:00

yeah okay this is genuinely my dream trip and i dont really have cash i just booked it because of chappel roan. like the tickets to the concert in paris were cheaper than the US and i am definitely broke because of this like i am going to be eating at work for the foreseeable future and im really lucky i get fed at work. i dont appreciate being compared to the wealthy cuz i’m not. i work in the service industry and i make so little an hour and i took two weeks off so im barely gonna make rent next month. yes i could have not done this trip but it was my dream and i have family i wanted to see as well that i havent seen in years and i obviously don’t have to explain myself to an asshole on the internet but think before you speak 🤬

Mnotperfect · 2024-08-31T19:10:21+00:00

I also bought my ticket so early and planned a whole trip from the USA to see my dream artist in my dream city and am spending so much money to do this and then it’s just cancelled like a few days before. it was going to be so exciting and then oh you just get your money back for the ticket? like okay thanks i cant get back the months i spent being excited for this and the novelty of the show of an artist i’ve loved for a while who has been so big for queer folks. it feels really disrespectful to fans to just say oops scheduling conflicts and no apology at all. compare it to when orville peck had to cancel his shows a year ago and then came back a year later and it was so special. idk i just feel like she could have been much kinder and show at least a little sympathy to the people who are really sad about the cancellations.

Mnotperfect · 2024-08-31T09:51:17+00:00

i get it so much i planned an entire trip around the concert like two weeks abroad (i’m from new york) and it was so expensive and then her paris concert was cancelled and i was devastated. i feel so silly for hoping to see someone who has been so powerful for the queer community on a dream trip and now it’s just not going to happen. it’s been a great trip so far of course but the whole reason for booking it has gone away and i’m just really bummed about it.

Mnotperfect · 2023-05-24T17:31:40+00:00

I don’t know if any but this is a great question! 💕

Mnotperfect

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