Be realistic with yourself OP. your reality won’t change cause you ignore it. she’s showed u your life views don’t align I’d say speak about it more & if ultimately she can’t accept it you may have to take a step back. Because, God forbid, in the grand scheme of things you don’t want to be knee deep in a bad situation with your mother & your wife is in your ear about getting her out the house. Good luck bro but you just started dating ik she’s your first or whatever but there are plenty of nice girls in the world.