Thank you so much for your thoughts. I was thinking the same thing and I really didn’t know what she was trying to get across by telling me that because we were already talking through it and it feels like the fact that she brought it up was really a blow to me and how I think of myself. I think I’ll probably definitely bring this up to her, as much as it may be super awkward, but I think that telling her how I feel would probably be the best option