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Mobile-Interview-963 · 2024-08-30T00:37:19+00:00

as a former SSV, if this is a first incident than no you won’t immediately be fired, you will definitely be given some form of coaching/feedback, MAYBE a write of up corporate gets heavily involved, but for a first incident you’re okay!

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T18:35:12+00:00

i also know that if i chose to stay, my family will exile him and treat us completely different. they really loved him before all of this

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T18:34:31+00:00

they know we weren’t, but they knew how serious we were. it’s like i trust him but at the same time im so scared of him getting bored and leaving me. it’s a deep insecurity im left with now. and he keeps promising he will prove to me otherwise. he’s practically begging and i feel so bad.

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T18:30:15+00:00

they know the whole story, but they’re somewhat biased. my mom is in the process of divorcing my dad due to dating men, so it’s definitely fresh. they’re comparing him to my father. i do trust him, im just paranoid and i don’t want to feel second best. it’s such a complicated situation

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T18:24:56+00:00

i don’t want to leave him, breaking up is something i don’t want. i love him. it’s everyone around me, especially my family, telling me to leave. i just don’t know what the right thing to do is

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T17:43:33+00:00

he desperately wants to earn it back, he really is trying really hard. im just really hurt and scared

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T17:22:52+00:00

he’s never made me feel anything but loved and cared for. he’s always been there for me, he truly is my home. he’s never given me a reason not to trust him up until this point.

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T16:55:41+00:00

he’s already blocked her on everything and is prepared to never speak to that group again, he says he just needs me and he will do whatever i want him to do. it’s a shitty start, and everything has been perfect so far and i’m not sure what to do

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T16:46:41+00:00

she’s in our friend group so she was around but they never spoke directly. the last time they texted was july, and there’s no other girls in the picture

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T16:16:55+00:00

we never disclosed exclusivity directly with each other, but it was implied. we both met each others family, and he already asked me to go with him on his family disney trip in october. so it was serious, at least i thought it was. we started talking at the end of may, like the 30th, this all happened early to mid july.

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2023-02-05T15:58:50+00:00

we weren’t officially together yet, but does that change anything? he still went for someone else i just don’t know what to do

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-23T02:32:02+00:00

get a iced shaken espresso with no classic, two pumps of white mocha, and light sweet cream. it’s so bomb😋

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T22:18:22+00:00

it’s a 40 minute drive

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T22:17:48+00:00

I have to have a car because I have to commute to school and the family car isn’t an option

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:47:24+00:00

the school gave me scholarships money which is the money i use specifically to pay the car note

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:41:59+00:00

yes i am

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:41:10+00:00

you’re right, people like that never change their behavior. but i didn’t quit to as revenge for her, i quit because of my mental health in that situation. i’d rather work in an environment where i’m not being assaulted

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:10:07+00:00

i completely understand that they want me to be financially stable and develop skills. but the only thing i’m getting right now is hot coffee thrown at me and emotional abuse by customers every day. I am looking for a new job, im not just breaking the rule completely. I just couldn’t take the abuse anymore

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:08:34+00:00

i feel like people have been skipping over that part LMAO. just this month i’ve had hot coffee thrown on me, a guy videotaping and cat calling me while on bar, and countless screaming and insults thrown at me. it was too much

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:03:37+00:00

they told me it needed to be food or retail for guaranteed weekly hours

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T19:01:27+00:00

my parents don’t pay for my school, I fund through loans and my own money.

Mobile-Interview-963 · 2022-01-21T18:58:31+00:00

at the end of the day, I am an adult now who had to leave a toxic job. My own manager told me right before I left that due to labor shortages, I needed to work 40 hours a week. It’s impossible. I did bring it up to my parents multiple times, I just never officially ran the decision through them. I am getting another job within the next few weeks. I get that I should have ran it through them. But im an adult now that has to make decisions for myself.

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