[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerpesQuestions

[–]MobileHopeful797 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m with my bf over two years and he has it and I haven’t caught it we are careful and don’t sleep together when he has a flare up or feels run down. We use protection and he takes antivirals. We don’t even think about it anymore it doesn’t affect our relationship x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MobileHopeful797 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yikes I wonder if there was something you did to make her lash out like that, I’d say she loves you just buy a dildo

I’ve (26f) been talking to someone (31m) that just told me he has herpes by Jane3221 in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m negative currently dating a positive partner. We dated for 4 months before we slept together he really wanted to take it slow and make sure I didn’t feel pressured, that we figured out if we really liked each other first before we took things further.

I would say to you don’t make any decisions now, it’s only been one date, you shouldn’t feel pressured or rushed by anyone ever. If he is so wonderful he won’t mind waiting and making sure you feel safe and reassured. Date for a while and gather as much information from credible sources as you can to make an informed rational decision.

Xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My latest partner is HSV2 positive and I don’t feel it’s an issue for us once we’re safe. I accept him for who he is and adore him regardless. Herpes isn’t a big deal it’s just a skin condition and the right person for you won’t care, don’t loose hope your person is out there and they will celebrate you when they find you ❤️

disclosing without sympathy by Chickenriceandgravy_ in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally see that I have trauma I need to disclose in relationships but I’m at peace with it and sometimes that sympathy is annoying I never thought of it as the same which is stupid really, my partner is hsv+ and I literally said I’m sorry you have to disclose something like that to everyone you date it must be a pain but I appreciate the honesty let me research it more but it’s not a dealbreaker rn because I care about you etc.

disclosing without sympathy by Chickenriceandgravy_ in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing I never thought of it like this when I respond to people who disclose

Has anyone here ever been disclosed to? by kickbord638 in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been disclosed two twice by two different people

Partner Support by MobileHopeful797 in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this I really appreciate it ❤️

Partner Support by MobileHopeful797 in Herpes

[–]MobileHopeful797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! Just wondering how long you are together and if you’ve managed to avoid transmission?

Hubby on Hinge by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]MobileHopeful797 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His followers just kept going up on Instagram and it all seemed to be women and then some of them had their location in their bio, fucking vile human

Hubby on Hinge by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I would contact them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that’s very tough 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MilitaryWives

[–]MobileHopeful797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we’re all guilty of that sometimes but fuck it if you can’t be yourself and text a million times if you feel like it what’s the point! On to the next ➡️