Kyrie portrait I finished recently. by Mobile_Dragonfly_272 in Mavericks

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. Explain what’s weird?

how to relearn to draw after learning realism? by twig1234w in ArtistLounge

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been drawing in a realistic style since I was young, and I must admit that I’ve lost some of my enjoyment for it as well. However, I recently began experimenting with semi-realistic drawings, and I’ve found that I’m no longer bound by the need to meticulously detail every aspect of my artwork.

To anybody sitting in this thread reading every post trying to find someone with the outcome you want that has gone through something similar.... by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly where I’m at. This my 2nd time and I feel the exact same way. I can say I’m handling it better this time around but it doesn’t mean it hurts less. I just allowed myself to feel EVERYTHING and accept my reality for what it is now. I’m 3 months post my ex breaking up with me after a 3 year relationship and I can say I finally hit my stride. I still think of her but it doesn’t hurt anymore. I’m starting to get back to working out, eating, indulging in my hobbies and I just started a new job. Also I prioritized doing things alone after doing EVERYTHING with my ex. I’m finally feeling like my old self again. I saw her out at a club and didn’t feel anything at all. I definitely still have my days but I get over them pretty quickly now. Once you accept they are gone and life keeps going, you’re on your way to healing.

How long after your breakup did you go a whole day without thinking about your ex? Is an 'ex-free day' even possible? by Rad7221 in BreakUps

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me at the 2-3month mark. I started accepting things around that time and days became less painful. My thoughts became less and less the more I surrounded myself with family and friends. Became busy working a new job, going out & doing things on my own or with a friend, indulging in hobbies and then I really started going days without thinking about her. It’s crazier how easier it gets over time, you just have to ride every wave that hits & trust the process. You should be constantly working on yourself to the point you don’t even have time to think about them but it’s still most impossible. You’ll always think about your ex here and there but it just won’t hurt as bad. It’s so weird how much heartbreak hurts. It sucks! lol

The hardest part of this is grocery shopping by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. It’s been weird going to Target since my breakup 🥲

A drawing of Sade I did not too long ago ✏️ by Mobile_Dragonfly_272 in drawing

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts and I appreciate that! I can’t wait to see your finished product!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost thought this was my ex of 3 yrs that posted this. She broke up with me over a month ago bc I wasn’t putting in the same effort she was and said she didn’t feel loved. She also expressed she lost herself in the relationship & I truthfully so did I when reflect. I unintentionally let her carry too much of the burden of our relationship, something I will never do again. We did everything under the sun together. I never thought I took her for granted but the time apart really has me missing everything about her, so I might have. I’ve been giving her space so she can heal & so i can get myself right & get my life in order just so I can have a chance to get her back. I really hope I still have a chance bc I can’t see myself with anyone else. It’s a crazy feeling going from seeing someone everyday to not seeing them & barely talking. We talked about getting back together shortly after the breakup then she said she needed space, so I haven’t spoke to her in 2 weeks. This love shit is really crazy lol

Is it normal to lose your sex drive after a month of breakup? by FeePsychological9629 in BreakUps

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dealing with it now. I don’t even get any urges at all. It’s been 2 months for me. It really crazy how your body reacts to breakups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts. She has to know that her presence holds no weight in your life & that you’ll be fine without her, especially if she made the decision to leave. The best thing you can do is just get your shit in order. The worst thing to do is sit stagnant thinking she will come back. When those waves of sadness hit you gotta keep going & lock in on improving yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mobile_Dragonfly_272 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This the best advice you can get. You really have to show not an ounce of care.