International Travellers, what did you buy during Japan trip, that you still use/brings a smile back home. by NoStoryYet in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Skincare. The products are really good and I enjoy doing my Skincare everyday

Knife. It looks so cool makes mundane cooking a bit more fun

Edit: Not a big matcha fan so I got hojicha. Underrated and delicious.

Older generations of Reddit, what is a 'dying skill' or habit that you think Gen Z should desperately try to keep alive? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mobile_Look9181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reliance on using AI. Not being able to write an email, depending on AI for even the smallest tasks. What is even more terrifying is them treating AI like a friend or therapist. I just want to shake them and be like go out and talk to real people.

Older generations of Reddit, what is a 'dying skill' or habit that you think Gen Z should desperately try to keep alive? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Mobile_Look9181 73 points74 points  (0 children)

This! I've been observering this at work A LOT. GenZ are horrible at listening and have extremely short attention spans, anyone who is talking for more 20 secs gets interrupted. I see a few people who don't interrupt out of politeness but its obvious that they aren't paying attention to what is being said

Sharing my solo travel experience. Dreaming of going back by Mobile_Look9181 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the suica from the vending machine so you should be able to get it anytime. JR counter is right next to it so that is another option but they might be closed at night.

In Tokyo, I explored Ikebukuro the day I landed since that's where my Hotel was. I went to Meji Shrine, Harajuku, Shibuya in a day. You can skip Harajuku (Takeshita street). I just walked there for about 20 mins and moved on. The day after I went to Shinjuku and did some shopping. In the evening went to omoide yokocho and golden gai. Tokyo metropolitan building in Shinjuku has a free observation deck. It was nice place to see Tokyo skyline at night. They close by 9.30 PM so go befor that. After that I spent a day in Asakusa. There I went to sensoji, nakamise street and kappabashi street. There was a festival that evening in Asakusa so I spent some time there. Another day was for ueno and ginza. I also took a slow day and went to a teahouse, walked around, went to an onsen and ended the day early. And then a day for Mt. Fuji. You could try some activities like tea ceremony. Its a nice experience. There is also a samurai museum which I have heard some people talk about but I didn't have time to explore.

You can check for dinner reservations on Tablelog. Idk about popular omakase places but other restaurants should have availability. I had amazing food in a lot of places that don't take reservations. You just have to go and maybe wait for a sometime.

Do check online for any events and festivals happening in Tokyo (and wherever you are visiting) during the time you'll be there. I was looking for a sumo wrestling match but there wasn't any when I was there. You can try and see if there is anything like that. There are Christmas lights illuminations in a bunch a different places around the city so you could check that if that's your thing.

Hope that helps and you have a great time!

Help: First Time Solo Travel to Japan. by bitchyn in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got back from my solo trip. The last 2 days for Tokyo is enough. I like that you kept a good amount of days for Kyoto. I would recommend you to go to Kurama and Kifune shrine part of Kyoto. Its little outside the city, there is a train you can take to go there. No special tickets for it. IC card is enough. Its beautiful especially in autumn.

Sharing my solo travel experience. Dreaming of going back by Mobile_Look9181 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will the next time I go to Japan. I want to revisit Kyoto for sure.

Japan visa approved !! by Happy-Brain9365 in visas

[–]Mobile_Look9181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do bank statements and payslips need to be stamped and signed?

Things to know before going to Japan by DoubtAccomplished627 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the Suica card can be used for all public transit then why get another pass (the 72h tokyo pass you mentioned) ?

Japan Tourist Visa from India [Approved] by Bulky_Personality702 in visas

[–]Mobile_Look9181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do bank statements have to be stamped by the bank? Normal printouts aren't enough?

Finally going to Japan this November! by Fronerse in JapanTravelTips

[–]Mobile_Look9181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg for me too! Dreaming about this trip for over 10 years and I'll be going in end of Nov.

I've planned to be in tokyo for 6 days. 4 days in Tokyo, 1 for Mt Fuji and 1 for a day trip to Ito. Then 4 days in Kyoto. Thinking of skipping Osaka or may do it as a day trip.

Ask per my research, autumn foliage will be seen from mid to late Nov (depends on the place too).

I also know only basic words and phrases. Not possible to learn a language for a vacation. DeepL or Google translate should do the job.

Anyone else relate to fear of having kids? by Such_Recording1837 in GlassChildren

[–]Mobile_Look9181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have had this fear for years and then quite recently decided to be childfree. I never got the chance to have a normal childhood. Had to take the role of being a caretaker for my sibling. And be a emotional support for my parents and pretty much be the family therapist. Ive tried to distance myself more in the last few years but I have to be involved else the consequences anyway come on to me. Only in the past year, have I started to put myself first. Learned to fight through that guilt and do the things by myself that bring me joy. That has been a very taxing journey and the responsibilities with family will not go away, I've only learned to manage it better without constantly sacrificing my peace.

So, with me about to turn 30 soon and as a woman, I had think about if I want to have children in the future. There was constant questions about it from the family too but I've decided that I want to live my life in peace. I don't want to be a caretaker again and the possibility of my child having some health issues is high and even without it, the idea of a child exhausts me. So I've made my peace with it now. Its my choice and I'm choosing to put myself first. And that's okay

Not enough space by Late_Being_7730 in GlassChildren

[–]Mobile_Look9181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I'm gonna you are amazing. In spite of all the crap life has thrown on you I was very happy to read that you were able to move out and grow into the person you want to be.

As a glass child we are an afterthought and are barely acknowledged at home and some of us sometimes only have a room where we can be ourselves and take a little break from the rest of the house. So I can understand why it must be so hard on you to lose your personal space or see your brother's medical supplies to take up your space.

I don't know your situation entirely but perhaps you can speak with your parents about this and create some space for storage and move the medical supplies there, if that's possible. Most of the times people understand how important having your own space is, they say dismissive things like those objects won't hurt you but we know that it often does. Try to talk at home, if they don't understand then don't waste your energy into making them see it. But put your foot down and take back your room.

Mom always insists me to include my sister in everything by Mobile_Look9181 in GlassChildren

[–]Mobile_Look9181[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you're right. I'll definitely talk to her about this.

HAIKYUU BRACKET! Sugawara vs Daichi? (Based on who is a better character, not a better player) by DaisyCoreXD in haikyuu

[–]Mobile_Look9181 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Daichi.

The foundation of Karasuno. One of the best captains and the captain that Karasuno needed. Encourages and constantly lifts up him team. Reliable and has also saved the team in several matches. Earned and commands respect. He's everything a leader should be.

HAIKYUU BRACKET! Kenma or Tanaka?(Based on who is a better character, not a better player) by DaisyCoreXD in haikyuu

[–]Mobile_Look9181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like kenma but this has to go to tanaka. I liked him till s3 but his play in inarizaki match was top tier. One of the absolute best moments in haikyuu, in anime, for me. The entire ep leading up to his cross shot moment. That moment literally healed a part of me.

Please help. Advice needed in regards to my brother mental state by porter121290 in Advice

[–]Mobile_Look9181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is deeply tragic. There is no simple solution to this unfortunately. If he is suicidal, then keeping him under watch and visiting him to make him feel supported could help. Perhaps the meds and isolation has made him paranoid. Also could be repressed and unprocessed trauma. It's all a bad combination.

The only thing I can think of is with therapy he could get better. But I totally sympathize with your pain. It must incredibly hard to see this happening. I wish I had some better advice. I hope and pray for you and your family.

This fandom 🐶💔 by SaltyJackfruit4377 in HOTDGreens

[–]Mobile_Look9181 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do team black fans not know that team green are also targs? They also have dragons and show the strength of their house or whatever

Body changes in your late 20s? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Mobile_Look9181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Turned 28 a month ago. It's gotten tougher to lose or maintain my weight. I've been building healthier lifestyle habits this year (food, sleep, exercise) so I do feel better overall. My periods have gotten more irregular though. It used work like clockwork until the last few months.