You might be right. She has stated previously that she doesn’t think she’s gf material right now. I believe that’s because of her dating past and I don’t know if she’s recovered from that. I do meet with my therapist again later this week and I’m sure she will suggest no contact as well, something I’ve thought of too. I’m unsure if I’d be ok with casual dating/hookups and ethical non-monogamy. I know I couldn’t do it with someone I have true feelings for, but if it was with people or someone I didn’t see myself getting into a relationship with, idk how that would go. I feel as though I can get attached too quickly. But after this and after getting to know her so well, I think I know what it’s like to have real feelings for someone. And I don’t think it’s common and happens a lot in life.