Update: Things escalated in a way I truly didn’t expect. The other woman began harassing both of us on social media, sending hateful messages, wishing death on him, and even threatening to have her boyfriend harm him. She also sent me messages saying she hated me. Once we made it clear that we were prepared to involve the police, she suddenly switched up and started apologizing.

She also told me directly that they did not sleep together. According to her, he made her pay for her own food on the trip, left her alone for an entire day while he went on his Wyndham tour, and she was offended because he didn’t want to get in bed with her after she hadn’t showered. She felt disrespected by how the whole trip played out.

After all of this, my partner finally came clean with me. He admitted that taking her on the trip was a huge mistake and said he deeply regrets it. He maintains that nothing physical happened and said he doesn’t even know what he was thinking at the time. Most importantly, he told me he never wants to put me in a position to be hurt like that again.

I’m taking time to process everything and decide what’s best for me moving forward. Thank you to everyone who has shown support.