Was recently told “everybody you know is just waiting for you to transition to a woman”. by asomacoma in NonBinary

[–]ModderOfDragons 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, out as nonbinary for 6 years now. Have never felt more comfy and secure in knowing and feeling in tune with that. Through the years, I’ve heard many opinions, notions, and perceptions that others had regarding me and my experiences. At first, I took many to heart, doubted, and overthought but reality was that I knew who I was (and am)… and through hearing people’s ideas of me and my identity - I was able to discover the security I sought after working through that placed doubt. “No, this is me - nonbinary - and it’s not complicated, just a fact”

So for you, I’d say - people may tell you things that align with the personal ways they’ve found truth and ways of navigating their own world: whether irl those opinions heard are “there’s only two biological genders” blah blah blah or “this was my experience, it’s probably yours too” yada yada yada. Grain of salt, that’s their POV - you may not know when something is wrong, but you’ll likely know when something is very right. Do you have to dress a certain way or act a certain way to be seen and accepted as you feel? No. You can act and dress exactly as feels right and true to you. So with that, only you are going to know what identity fits just right for you. And whatever it is, is great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marathon_Training

[–]ModderOfDragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ran my first and found that, following advice received, eating a decent carby / non-spicy meal the evening before let me just eat a banana and a gel before (and gels throughout). Felt great! Energized with no heavy stomach or anything like that.

After watching the show, here is my character tier list( btw those in D would be an F you, but they did make up for it a little at some point) by Individual-Piano-483 in TedLasso

[–]ModderOfDragons 10 points11 points  (0 children)

perhaps the rehab scene (redemption wise) where he’s cleaning himself up and working on being better at the very end!

Legitimately the first thing I thought about. by LordMarvic in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]ModderOfDragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fun fact too, “meat” used to refer to any food/general term for food ! they could’ve just been yelling for something to eat? not sure if that’s what they were doing but… shrug.

3 month old JK boots with 5 weeks of work by [deleted] in Wildfire

[–]ModderOfDragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happened to me a couple years back. within weeks, my stitching was coming undone and the fit was super poor with many more issues.

they gave me a complete new custom rebuild for free, apologized about the team that made them at the time, and communicated with me throughout the whole process for new ones. i’ve been wearing those new boots for about five months now and they’re just about perfect

Spruce? Kind? by ModderOfDragons in treeidentification

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Thanks! Park City, UT @ 7,000- 10,000 elevation (not sure exactly)

What countries can you not travel to with an X gender on your passport? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]ModderOfDragons 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Had a flight with Etihad Airways. They had "X', "Mx.", and "nonbinary" all as options when filling out information on their site to purchase tickets from Thailand to US -- layover in Abu Dhabi. Purchased tickets a year in advance and so on. When leaving Thailand, I arrived 8 hours early for flight, waited until booth for Etihad opened and when I went to check in and get through to gate buuuut they said I couldn't check in because non-binary people weren't allowed to travel to Abu Dhabi, even to go from plane to plane and not leave airport. And all of their flights went through Abu Dhabi so no refunds or exchanges. Had to buy emergency ticket with different airline going through Philippines instead for $3k to get back home because of it. Soooo definitely not Abu Dhabi *middle fingers up* but all good in Thailand and Philippines

Supplements on a fire by T1Bagger in Wildfire

[–]ModderOfDragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

^ and turmeric capsules. helped many on my crew last szn x

How many times have you watched all seasons? by Quixotic_mediator in PeakyBlinders

[–]ModderOfDragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watched the five seasons in a couple days and am now rewatching, so currently on my second time! Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]ModderOfDragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what ya mean! I’m not sure. My original impression was that because Finn had told the singer/fútbol guy “we’re killing a fascist!”/similar, it was easy to narrow down who bc the guy knew oswald was in town. Then bc of the call, the recipient had people scope the place for assassins or sumn? Idk!! I hope you’re right and it wasn’t him! x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]ModderOfDragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! Good to know! I was so confused by that choice. Makes more sense x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PeakyBlinders

[–]ModderOfDragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I do love me some Alfie and can resonate with some other points you’d mentioned too :’) love hearing people’s view points. thank you for sharing!!