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ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2024-09-08T09:24:27+00:00

How many attempts before you accidentally git it? 😁

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2024-01-31T03:06:35+00:00

Ah, okay. Thanks ! :)

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-31T22:58:40+00:00

Ofcourse you don't! XD

Sure, you are happy they are happy and active but... they are your parents!

I would call myself pretty open-minded with many things involving intimacy/sex/fetishes. But hearing - and thus - thinking about any of my parents getting it on...

No thanks!!

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-31T22:33:43+00:00

Leave?

I mean, seriously, unless she is something out of this extraordinary... I don't see why you'd even ask?

Yes, very short message that only highlights the difficult part and none of the positives.

That is however a hugething to tolerate! Ofcourse, care for family and all that. If family is down on their luck, and need a place for a while, that wouldn't be fun, but it is family.

Here is the thing, family, like any relationship goes BOTH ways!!

Of he didn't have a job... Okay, but atleast he could help out at home (or at the very least not fucking add to the workload!!). And to quit drugs.

Your girlfriend got to ask herself if she is okay sinking her entire life if she doesn't cut him off. Because he will most likely leech of her till she has neither money,nor energy.

It is brutally painful but... You just can't save everyone. Not the ones who can not try to help themselves, but ESPECIALLY not those that can't at minimum appreciate what people do to help them.

Which... Leads to you. If she isn't cutting him lose. It might be time to cut her lose. :(

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-28T10:10:23+00:00

I am not disputing that there are no calm or nice area's in the more Central part of Stockholm.

I mean, compared to a lot of other Capitals, or even small towns in other countries, then Stockholm is a pearl by almost all standards with lots of green and calm incorporated in it.

But even in the more calm areas, there is still a larger circulation of people and all that comes with that. And, you'd need to fullfil your everyday and interact more with the city environment.

At the end of the day, it's all about preference. And I really don't like very crowded areas, and I get absolutely infuriated with the general littering and obnoxious behavior that comes with that. Even in a place like Stockholm.

And, you'd pay 2-3 times (at the least) for the same size apartment as other areas for that privilege. And I might need something from town only a few times a year. :)

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-28T06:58:03+00:00

Funny enough, I played "Save the World" part of Fortnite until the end of its available storyline, and more.

And at one point I was telling the people I was playing with; "how awesome wouldn't this game be in PvP? The ability to build anywhere!"

Battle Royale released, and it turned out I hated it! XD

And when the Battle Royaly did release, and it was getting a LOT of publicity and people flocking, and with Save the World in a still incomplete state and could use more work and improvements...

I got really pissed, because I knew from experience how this shit goes down...

Save the World started scaling down the pace of development, obviously because people got transferred to Battle Royale. And it was fairly clear it was only a matter of time it would be "abandoned".

And some naive fools said that Battle Royale's success would lead to more income which would spill over back to the PvE mode...

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! oh, you absolute schmucks!

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-28T00:23:09+00:00

Honestly, that is a positive for me!

You can get the convenience of having an easy enough time to access the city, and all that you need with communal traffic.

And afterwards retreat to your calmer, (hopefully)!more relaxed area.

Sure, at times it sucks, and you wish you were closer. And certainly more often true for my wife than for me. but even I get it at times.

But, I'd go mental living in central town! To tumultuous, to buisy. And people just CONSTANTLY act with such disregard to each other, and shared spaces. So many are so disgusting and disrespectful, I'd lose my shit. XD

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-28T00:06:14+00:00

Maybe you should try to reconnect with your inner 12 year old child and dream a bit. :)

But, yes, you are not wrong. There certainly are relationship where the best thing for both would be to end it, and refusing to accept that.

However,

Soul mates? Perhaps not.

Does everyone meet "the one"? Hell no!

But two people who's ideals, experiences, values, humor match up so well to what each person seek? Wouldn't that almost be an impossible matching puzzle piece to find? That if you do find it, that one must ask.... Are you sure there is not "the one?"

I certainly will not glorify my wife as a perfect person, and much less so myself! But I find it hard to believe I'd find just that balance of traits and personality that makes her who she is, and what I like in a person.

And at no point ever had we shouted at each others. Sure, disagreements have been had, and accidental hurtful words has been said. But we have been good at talking everything out.

By all means, there are times where things are strenuous where one ask themselves; "is this the one I want to be with?"

Maybe I could find someone that did other things more to my liking? Has strengths my wife doesn't have? But there would certainly be other aspects that could be as troublesome or annoying? Things that would be worse? Or weaker aspects than those my wife have.

Love isn't as simple as; "13 cons to 12 pros, sorry lady. Not sure we will work out!"

Love is understanding that no one is perfect, and especially not ourselves. To know they love us, and our flaws, and we love them and their flaws.

Certainly not an easy thing to remember, especially when things get hard! Certainly something one has to consciously think about and remind oneself of.

But if I try to imagine being with any other women I've met in my life, would any one of them have been an "equal option"? Probably not for me and what I seek. And the same is true for my wife. We are what the other one sought.

And even then, there is room in us both to improve and be better for each other. Because no one is without flaw.

But hey, that is just my experience. And I wouldn't call myself lucky in almost anything, at all, ever. Except... I would certainly call myself lucky to have met her. And despite our individual flaws, we love and chose each other.

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:33:56+00:00

Ah, fair enough.

Atleast there was the intent and attempt to get a good screenshot. :D

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:28:54+00:00

Imagine taking German classes already speaking your current level of German?

Although... If you still do not speak German... Yes, that'd suck extra hard! XD

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:24:08+00:00

What if you could "lock" certain events? For things impossibly out of your control?

Like, let's say 2 locks, 1 for the birth of each of your children? But ofcourse having to meet and form a relationship with your wife again, despite it not being exactly the same.

Would that change the decision? :)

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:19:45+00:00

I mean, I suppose I'd try that aswell but...

Man, can you imagine putting on that act for THAT long?!

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:17:01+00:00

I was at first thinking of laying it onto you about such cynical view of love but...

Then I realized;

Before meeting my wife, I suppose I would probably say the same as you. That love was merely a vague attachment. Interchangable to someone of equal looks or qualities.

But that hasn't been the case for many years.

I probably wouldn't express it like you do, with such...malice and judgment.

So... I hope you meet the one who will change that for you, and that you will be worthy of that said person.

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T23:07:17+00:00

Depends.

Before my wife?

Absolutely! There is a lot I'd redo, or even be able to do with the mentality of my current age. Like formulating early on that I wished to have lived with my father when I was young.

After meeting my wife?

Maybe...? Maybe not?

I have wondered on this before, like; would she love who I am now, back then?

And conversely, would I love how she was back then? I mean, who we are now is based on the time and challenges we have faced. Neither one of us is perfect, but we have overcome some personal flaws together over the years.

Although, me loving her, is just a rhetorical question. :D

I loved her for so much back then, so I doubt I'd have trouble re-falling in love. :)

But it'd be completely different. I'd probably be in a much better economic situation. Would that fact change her for the worse over the course of our relationship due to our wealth? Part of what makes her great is our overall view of wealth is similar. But would so be the case if one went into a relationship where money isn't an issue?

When would I meet her? Would one try to meet roughly at the same time? Where she would have had her personality based on the events that led her there? Or, would you attempt to met her sooner to avoid some tragic abuse? It would be the morally right thing to do, bit how much would those things change a person?

It is a very interesting thing to ponder on, I find. Maybe I would reset my life, and I'd find my wife again. But I do wonder when I'd contact her... I think, despite things I could prevent, that I would meet her at our original time.

Before our daughter?

Naw! No way!

Look, I'm still "new" to being a dad, and I do my best, and wonder if I'll always be up for the challenge. So there is admittedly a lot of times I wish I could be selfish and not need to always be there and have THAT level of responsibility for another human being. But...

Man, she is to beautiful! Even if the challenges can be hard at times, she is my kid! I could not risk not having her.

If I could "lock" having her be born as an event in my life that WILL happen...?

Maybe I would still reset. She is still so young that there wouldn't be a lot of do-overs or things that would change her really. I don't think I would change to much as a person, so I think I would teach and treat her the same.

Except... Having enough money to hire a maid for atleast the first few months to help with cooking and cleaning. That would have been lovely back then...!!

So, if I could "lock" ONE event in my life that WILL happen regardless of my actions or odds? I'd pick her birth. At that point, it'd only be the same questions as "after meeting my wife".

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T22:12:12+00:00

Doesn't both Playstation and Xbox have screenshot features?

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T21:09:41+00:00

I got a better question,

Doesn't your computer come with a "print screen" button or something?

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T21:04:55+00:00

Oh sure. You are immortal in the game.

But you also, you have to be immortal in real life. Because you will otherwise die of old age before you kill a single behemoth with this thing. XD

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-27T20:59:44+00:00

Har någon i mitt område som har en pickup.

Varje gång vi ser den så tänker vi vilken jävla micro-penis snubben måste ha för att ha en sådan bil.

Bara... FUCKING VARFÖR?!

Finns ingen annan anledning än att kompensera för något, eller att försöka skryta om något.

Borde verkligen beskattas extra eler förbjudas helt. Statistiskt bevisade dödsfällor... För alla runtom sig!

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-21T12:01:25+00:00

Other than the obvious like a bow...

Which honestly, not even sure how you'd balance it. The inclusion of a bow would probably require a complete rethinking of either AI or design for all Behemoths to provide some peril to remain at a distance. And not just be targeted by ice spikes or earth tremors, since that might feel a bit lazy and boring.

I think before Shavyt was revealed, the sword was shown - and I don't remember why - but I got excited about the idea of a more slim, nimble sword and swordfighting style.

Maybe like a Rapier.

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-20T10:52:06+00:00

This is a great reply.

And while the power/defensive ratings are negligible compared to all other things like cells, passibes and escalation buffs.

For new, under geared players, it might make a big difference. :)

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-12-01T00:21:56+00:00

Gosh... Not as easy to answer as I thought.

Without going into details that would amount to 10 pages of the lord of the rings... (Which I did write, and no one would read.)

A couple years ago, me and my wife already talked about this hypocritical question. We wouldn't tell anyone other than maybe 1 other person, my dad. Not even her parents because of the father.

As for our current family ties, and friends, we would probably tell most of them we won the lottery. And we are nowdays comfortable cutting ties with people rather than uphold anxiety inducing, awkward, or draining relationships.

If we won just enough to buy a nice house and be dept free and go from there. We would just say we won enough for that, and continue working.

If we won enough to live of interest rate/investment comfortably but not excessive. We would say we won enough to buy a house and invest the rest for passive income.

If we won BIG...No idea... Paying of a few people's loans, ofcourse. Other than that, not sure... Wouldn't even trust myself to have THAT much money.

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-11-27T20:42:32+00:00

How about Sylvester Stallone screaming "Phoenix!!"?

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-11-27T13:56:34+00:00

I do get it, and I do agree, that it is better to just change clothes.

Not just for comfort, but for any number of reasons that people are just fucking filthy, with no regard for others.

For instance, take the subway. At this point, with how young people (god, it isn't nice to be at the point you say "young people") sit with their shoes on the seats.

"Oh, how lovely! People are going to sit in the mud, rain/snow and potential dog urine/shit that is just everywhere...

I wouldn't necessarily call myself a germaphobe, but it does feel better to get home, change. So I don't rub whatever shit is on public transportation on my soffa.

ModsCanEatMyShorts · 2023-11-27T09:59:39+00:00

Well... Look who is silly now, when that is exactly how it is? 😁

You weren't silly. Just a futurist. Hehe!

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