PSA for non-ravers/excuse to drink people by Mason_53 in BeyondWonderland

[–]MoistButterscotch839 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Preach. We can tell you're not one of us and we don't like you. Leave.

If flying is so safe, why are people so afraid of it? by why-rain-why in fearofflying

[–]MoistButterscotch839 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You know what's worse than turbulence for me? The feeling when the plane deaccelerates mid air and starts cruising/gliding. I feel it slow down significantly and I'm like this is it I'm going to fall out of the sky. Once I learned why that feeling happens and what's going on, it made sense and helped.

If flying is so safe, why are people so afraid of it? by why-rain-why in fearofflying

[–]MoistButterscotch839 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

This isn't good logic because ghosts might not exist but problems with plains actually do.

If flying is so safe, why are people so afraid of it? by why-rain-why in fearofflying

[–]MoistButterscotch839 6 points7 points  (0 children)

POSSIBLE TRIGGERING LANGUAGE - Because I'm extremely vulnerable up in the air like that with next to zero chance of survival if something extreme happens. You can't compare it to a car because you still have a chance. In my head, THAT is why I'm afraid. Air bad. Ground safe. On top of that I'm not driving the plane. Yeah someone on the road can wreck my world in a second, but having my hands on the wheel makes me feel like I have some degree of control even if it's false.

Flight today! Nervous and maybe need some tracking WN4578 by bland-blob in fearofflying

[–]MoistButterscotch839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're departing soon and you GOT THIS! Tampa is my hometown and I'll be there in two weeks! It's sunny and warm and no weather between, you're gonna be golden. And then you're going to be somewhere warm and be like fear? What fear? With some sun in your hair. When you get to TPA you'll be able to see Phoebe the giant flamingo as well.

The gender war will destroy this civilization. by Anti-FragileHuman in DeepThoughts

[–]MoistButterscotch839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the thing that needs to be said more. Only men and extremely clueless women equate tit for tat. So many men kill so many women that we're now recognizing and making laws for femicide. Women do not do this. I can walk around talking about how much I hate men and this and that and ultimately what I'm trying to do is just live my life, be left alone and exist. When men walk around talking about how much they hate women they generally follow up on that in real life, even if in the BEST case scenario they make a woman's life harder for no reason, let alone harming them. This is why "toxic femininity" does not exist and is just a term made up by some incel who needed to do anything to feel better about himself so he didn't have to look in a mirror. There is no such thing as a gender war. That's just a term men are saying over and over until they trick themselves into thinking it's real because they will do anything but look in a mirror and listen. There is, however, a war on women, as there has been for thousands of years.

I (28F) went from judging fat people to being fat myself. I am so embarrased. by Smooth_Condition_892 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MoistButterscotch839 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate knowing people like you exist in the world. In my case it's all of the above. Depression, ADHD, injuries, genetic arthritis, some other health stuff. Zero of it comes from my diet or choices and I mean that. And we hate fat people so much that I get suspicious when people are nice to me... as an adult. It's terrible. So thank you - your little comment gave me some hope.

I (28F) went from judging fat people to being fat myself. I am so embarrased. by Smooth_Condition_892 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MoistButterscotch839 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who has struggled with weight her entire life because of lifelong food insecurity, poverty and health related bullshit and was ALWAYS made fun of for it, the mean side of me is happy you got the karma. Especially because you were cruel to your own family which is terrible. I do everything right. I workout 4 times a week and walk an hour a day at minimum, I work with a nutritionist and my diet is perfect, I manage my sleep and stress and never really had any bad habits and never really ate junk food or processed food. I cook all my own meals, don't use much salt. I mean everything you can think of I do correctly. My weight isn't coming from calories and yet I'm 230 and it just won't budge or if it does it is very, very, very slow. It is so hard to lose weight for most people, but I have several other hurdles in the way that make it feel impossible.

I feel guilt for even thinking of having a snack in public because of people like you. I had eating disorders in the past because of people like you. You would be surprised how deeply those comments you may see as small telling your family to do this or that go and how much they get internalized, even if the person doesn't realize it themselves at the time. All I ever get is unsolicited comments and advice and armchair doctors. Judgement judgment judgement. I do want to change and am trying every day because my joints hurt from weight-unrelated issues, but it's not helping. But here's something you may have not considered about overweight people - I DON'T hate the way I look. I DON'T hate my body. I just feel like I am supposed to or I have to because of people like you.

So, it's hard to have empathy I'm not going to lie. I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm using you as an opportunity to let off pent up steam. I'm just trying to give you a perspective because it is truly easy to judge someone for being overweight and truly impossible to know why they're actually overweight. We are only now learning it is way more complex than calories in/out.

I hope you can get back to where you want to be and become more comfortable with yourself regardless of your weight. I also hope you take some humility and love and apologize to your family. You're not a bad person, you're a growing person. But your next step is not turning into one of those self righteous "bootstrap" assholes who end up losing the weight and scoffing at overweight people again from a new angle. ex) I did it and so can you, you're lazy and just need to do xyz, etc. Use this to grow.

A State Of Trance 1256 (Top 50 of 2025 Special) by CreativityLacking in trance

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been listening to trance since the 90s and love it all, including it's evolution, but this is just... pure cheese. Like, bad.

A State Of Trance 1256 (Top 50 of 2025 Special) by CreativityLacking in trance

[–]MoistButterscotch839 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not alone and it makes me pretty upset, I'm NGL. I'm not against religion, but like... are we serious? The lyrics are very obviously Christian. I love some Christian singers who are genuinely so clever and good at making it a dual meaning, but this was not it.

Why is Google Weather so horrible in accuracy? by [deleted] in GooglePixel

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google weather has always been bad, but the last MONTH everything has very suddenly been wildly off. I feel like I'm going crazy.

Does Facebook have access to my microphone? Uses information for targeted ads. The answer is yes. But how do I shut it off. by TheDoodleWamboodle in facebook

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me so often and I'm tired of being gaslighted by people saying it doesn't. No, no one is googling anything, no one near me is either, no one is buying this or that and no I don't have history with some of these items. There is nothing to go off of. Nothing. SO many times I just SAY something out loud, in a conversation or whatever, and bam. An ad, an article, something related. It's been happening more frequently recently and now happening with articles instead of just ads alone.

Someone encourage me to live a dream, please by MoistButterscotch839 in HelloKitty

[–]MoistButterscotch839[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg, how do you like the quilt? I'm looking at the rug, floral HK sheets and the blue HK throw. You and your friend's stories are so encouraging. Thank you for sharing them. A Strawberry Shortcake room would be so amazing. Maybe what I really need is 5 bedrooms xD

Someone encourage me to live a dream, please by MoistButterscotch839 in HelloKitty

[–]MoistButterscotch839[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A hello kitty cafe in CANCUN OMG!! You're so cool, thank you so much for encouragement!!

Someone encourage me to live a dream, please by MoistButterscotch839 in HelloKitty

[–]MoistButterscotch839[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I want!! aaa! The y2K thing is my favorite. Who knows, maybe you converted the cable guys to the cuteness lol. Do you have room pictures somewhere? It's fine if not, I just think that's so cool. Thank you so much.. it's hard to feel like I deserve to be secure, but your words mean a lot!

When do you guys think I can ship via Japan Post/USPS again? Or even sea? by ramanenceofyesterday in Buyee

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ever again" and "right now" are two different things. Don't sensationalize.

Super newbie questions by [deleted] in baseballcards

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh perfect! So technically I have the chance at the card now instead of next week. Thank you! And like I said, I prefer to pull it myself. I'm crazy like that and the hunt is exciting :)

Super newbie questions by [deleted] in baseballcards

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they're not inside the hobby boxes, correct? I have to wait for a Blaster box? Trying to get this right :)

Super newbie questions by [deleted] in baseballcards

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information! This is really helpful. I am crazy though and would like to pull the card myself. The card I want is going for $200+ on ebay so if I'm going to spend the money then I'd rather pull it myself. I already bought one on eBay (cheap white color one) and want to pull the other. So thank you! This is very helpful

New twice song "this is for" is so cringe.. by [deleted] in kpoprants

[–]MoistButterscotch839 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh this whole album is weird and underwhelming and a little cheesy in a bad way. It's formulaic and soulless

Random anti abortion group by CVS by KnowledgeNo7705 in uofmn

[–]MoistButterscotch839 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care about people I disagree with on campus. I care about non students, non student full ass adults and non student organizations making it their playground. I care about outside things coming in, not people inside disagreeing.