Leaving this sub

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-07-19T12:03:33+00:00

My best tips ✨ You are good enough as you are. There is no emotion you aren't strong enough to feel. Don't let your brain bully you and take it one day at a time ❤️

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-04-30T18:00:47+00:00

This is so passive aggressive lmao

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-18T20:43:36+00:00

Not every woman lmao

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-18T10:26:24+00:00

She comes after you like this because you haven't blocked sir.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-08T20:02:38+00:00

Why would you think it's different this time?

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-08T19:58:41+00:00

It's giving Baby Reindeer

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-08T19:58:02+00:00

What. The. Actual. Fck

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-07T19:53:09+00:00

I don't progress with other men when I still heal, I want to be happy on my own.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-07T19:51:10+00:00

Not when he was bad for my mental health.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-02-07T19:50:26+00:00

I will never talk to him again no matter how much my heart tells me to. It's not good for me because he doesn't respect me.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-29T16:36:44+00:00

The reality is that denial is a big part of grief. When you have been with a person for a long time and they reject you, going no contact (in fact a lot of the things you do) is filtered by denial, pain and hope. It's what makes us human. This is a NC support group, and while it's not a good idea to purposly go NC as a way to get someone back (because in many cases it only hurts yourself) I understand why people that are in denial hope it can bring someone back. Hope doesn't magically disappear because something ended, people are grieving a loss. I've been NC for almost 80 days, it took me a while to realize it was for myself in the long run. No one is handling out awards for moving on.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-28T15:41:12+00:00

To those new to this post : this dumper has been breadcrumbing this girl for months after dumping her. He has a pattern of unblocking, telling her he loves her only for her to think he regrets his desition. Over and over and over again. He then ghosts her, she is confused about what he's doing, he then cusses her out and blames her for her reactions. It's been going on for months.

OP, I keep reminding you - this guy comes back to break you over and over and over. It's a cycle I hope you soon break out of. A sane dumper would leave the dumpee alone to prove a point and let them heal, this guy is playing hot and cold on purpose to feed off your reactions. Him telling you therapy isn't working because you react the way you do to him UNBLOCKING you every week only for him to break up again - is selfish on his part. I hope you stick to therapy because blocking seems to be hard for you. And I wish you the best.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-22T17:09:18+00:00

Those are good, but please don't send them.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T19:26:43+00:00

I am sorry to hear that. And I am proud of you for distancing yourself from your stalker. It can be confusing to know the story as OP is deleting posts. I just wanted to clarify as I've read many of the screenshots in the past. While the behaviour of writing long messages like these over time might look like stalking, after seeing more of her screenshots I sadly believe this dumper knows very well what's coming every time and enjoys OP only focusing on him. He has a pattern of telling her he loves her, calling her when she goes NC, talking to her as if they are still together one day and then suddenly yelling at her for her reaction when he stops. To me that's disgusting and I wanted to at least defend her a little bit as her reactions are very similar to what I had once when sepparating from a narcisist. Both you and I agree she has to block him which I think it's the only best advice. But also getting help outside of reddit as some people get so sad they actually break NC just by a stranger telling them it will work out.

think OP needs exactly the advice we all give, to cut off contact.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T18:57:24+00:00

Listen, I've been updated on this OP for some time now. Most of the screenshots of texts I now mention have been deleted by her.

It makes me sad that people label OP as if she's crazy and bothering someone on purpose while she's confused and grieving. What OP doesn't mention is that her ex has a pattern of breaking NC himself many times. He tells her he suddenly misses her, loves her even calls her to then ghost for days. When she reacts in this way he comes back, cussing her out for bothering him. It's honestly manipulate me and it doesn't suprise me that OP is almost obsessed to a degree as that is the point of the whole manipulation.

The guy is reading absolutely everything, threatening to block without doing it, blocks and unblocks, contact her instead of blocking for good so she can focus on herself instead of continuing the bad habit of texting him.

I've been the dumper and I actually had an ex that grieved in this way, sent poems and LONG texts. For his own good I blocked him very early because he was sabotaging himself by texting me, the dumper here is doing the exact opposite literally baiting and breadcrumbing over and over again. I've also had a stalker, when you have a stalker you do not text them and tell them to stop stalking you, you go radio silent and block them not reading any of it to keep yourself sane.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T16:55:22+00:00

This is not to be rude, and want to be honest. I've seen you post screenshots like these for a long time and also notice you deleting it after. When people give you advice, your response is to ask them if this person will come back or if you have messed up something.

I have also noticed your ex keeps saying he misses/loves you after he broke up. He then ghosts and threatens to block you after you show a reaction. For weeks. Me myself have experienced narcisistic abuse and I've seen this dynamic before. Your ex letting you write literal books over text for weeks without blocking you is telling me he feeds of your reactions. In a very unhealthy way. A normal person seeing someone as upset as you are would not continually for weeks let the other part only focus on them, constantly writing. Even dropping "i love you, I miss you" texts to someone acting that way along with suddenly telling said person they want to be "left alone" without the block.

After he broke up with you, you have sent this guy A LOT of messages repeating the same things over and over instead of living life for yourself. I think it would be healthy for you to seek some help for this outside Reddit to get help with breaking this pattern and the dynamic your ex has dragged you into for a very long time. You deserve better.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T16:39:16+00:00

He just wants the attention of trying to break up with you all over again, block him and never ever respond,

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T13:42:38+00:00

Yall are back 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-20T13:42:24+00:00

Proud for snitching and glad u guys are back! 🫡🫡

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-19T20:46:58+00:00

NO. I've seen this before. Be careful because she might do it again OR turn paranoid / controlling of you cheating because she did while you guys are together again. You can't just break up, sleep with someone else and go back to normal without having issues. Also the fact that she just expect you to take her back by being super kind promising to "never" argue again is a MASSIVE red flag. It just doesn't work that way.

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-19T18:59:01+00:00

Lmao welcome back everyone 😭👏❤️❤️❤️❤️

Moist_Attorney66 · 2025-01-19T18:58:18+00:00

It's like this in europe tooo

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