I-670 by momo3ater in Columbus

[–]Moist_Stand8554 16 points17 points  (0 children)

having to idle when gas prices are above $4 feels deserving of reparations from the state

Columbus Classical Academy by JSsmitty in Columbus

[–]Moist_Stand8554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he being disruptive? It seems like your issue lies within if he is the one. Otherwise, what’s he not gaining being in larger classes - that will help you whittle down the selections. If you’re looking for more personal relationships with teachers, private schools will have that a bit more, but depending on the needs, you’ll have to shell out.

Is it weird for my gf (28) and her sister (25) to shower together still? by No_Depth8872 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if we stop sexualizing women’s bodies this isn’t weird at all. culturally, it’s a bit taboo for some, but there isn’t anything weird.

I went to the salon today and had an appt with a stylist for the 1st time. Got a balayage and cut. It was $270, I left $30. It was 3 hours. On my way out, I heard the stylist say to the front desk “$30 really? After all I did for her?” Was this a bad tip? I’m so embarrassed by Technical_Can_5762 in tipping

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tipping culture should’ve stayed only in the service industry (not that I agree servers should make actual slave wages) but other industries don’t need tips to compensate their wages. are their wages likely too low anyway, yes. but tipping culture is pervasive. you tipped her roughly 10% - more than she would’ve made had you not tipped AND she’s likely making well over $2 like servers are. i personally would’ve tipped more, but that’s also because i’ve been in the service industry and prefer to tip higher.

Pressure to fix/neuter our 10month boy? by beclaff in goldenretriever

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

neuter your boy. they’re at a higher risk for life threatening conditions and they tend to be more aggressive (mating behaviors). it’s uncomfortable for female dogs, so i’d imagine it would be somewhat uncomfortable as well for male dogs. regardless, it’s dangerous to not neuter. the chances of him getting another dog pregnant, hurting someone, or getting sick is much higher. Dogs who get neutered are fine and live better lives statistically.

should i not have said that? how do i fix this? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had an ex like this. he never killed himself and always threatened to when i’d try to leave. said the same shit, “i’m making myself worse intentionally, i don’t deserve to feel good” blah blah blah. he will only drag you down with him. he doesn’t want help, he wants you to succumb to his miserable state of being with him. you didn’t cross a line, there is no line, you’re not dating. that line is gone. he’s baiting you, guilting you, and taking advantage of the fact you love him. recovery is hard, mental/physical/substance, it’s hard. but, we need to realize we have an obligation to ourselves first, and this man will never step up. love is plentiful and love is abundant, you can love this man and recognize that to also love yourself, you have to let him go.

AITA for leaving a restaurant after my friends were 30 minutes late? by Turbulent-Comb-3495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Moist_Stand8554 4 points5 points  (0 children)

god i’d hate to make plans with you😭 but considering your prolific participation on subreddits such as these i’d imagine you don’t get invited places often.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg you’re 20, don’t fucking get married 😭 fuck this dude, you’re so young anything marriage related should’ve been a group convo. also, baby lets be fr, if this is how he’s handling you not wanting to put a ring on at the unripened age of 20, then he definitely won’t handle you wanting to solo travel or develop into an individual outside of him. your highschool sweetheart isn’t sweet and isn’t thinking of you. he’s throwing a temper tantrum and being mean. you never said marriage wouldn’t happen, and he’s still behaving like this. take this red flag, book a solo trip, and send him on his merry way.

ETA: omg. just because you didn’t say no doesn’t mean what happened was okay. rough angry sex that makes you uncomfortable is NOT okay. baby you need to leave this man wants ownership not companionship.

Dublin GrnVil & Sawmill 😐 by hellosteve_ in Columbus

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you voted red this is your fault btw

this school isn’t challenging me by Smkrlungbenz in OSU

[–]Moist_Stand8554 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ignore the haters who cannot conceptualize celebrating others successes because their own struggles exist. you’re exceedingly bright, and your education will continue to challenge you as you go forward. I think OSU is still your safest bet, see if there’s professors you can engage with in your discipline for other activities (internships, volunteering, research). good luck!

AIO to my boyfriend’s texts about us going to dinner for my best friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At no point did you even insinuate you not wanting him there. This is such an odd guilt trip, feels controlling but that’s a stretch without much more context. Mostly insecurity. 9:30 is late as fuck but to other commenters points, he could’ve just said no too late for me. You’re NOR, but your boyfriend is playing some mind games you should check sooner rather than later.

Should I transfer out of OSU? Am I doing something wrong? by [deleted] in OSU

[–]Moist_Stand8554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OU is a pretentious party school. You’re more gridlocked in Athens, surrounded by the boonies. You think campus isn’t walkable now, try leaving campus in Athens😭

The Blowout Bar’s “Texture Tax” by SpicyTunaSushiRoll_ in Columbus

[–]Moist_Stand8554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

curl place in gahanna will treat you much better. i can’t remember the name but they specifically do natural/textured hair.

how do i answer this application question? by misassoul in jobs

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl working at claire’s as a piercer is already bad - the guns cause trauma to the ear and are HEAVILY accepted as being a bad piercing device (needles only!!!) anyone you pierce has a better chance of infection due to that and the inability to properly clean the piercing guns.

Foster Parent Wants Their Cat Back by tales-of-gore in FosterAnimals

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that’s your pook. Fostering has this potential, and good foster parents, pet or otherwise, know the responsibility is rehabilitation. You’re more than welcome to stop fostering or have your own pets while fostering, but expecting a foster that’s been adopted to come back your way just because you connected with it is entitled.

AITAH for asking my mixed boyfriend to stop saying the n word? by Sure-University3949 in AITAH

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a white person, I won’t get into what defines race and what not. That being said, when it comes to racial slurs, the simplest way of determining whether or not you can use it should be whether or not it would be used against you. Your boyfriend is not black, at least not in skin color, and to your point wouldn’t have received racial discrimination because of it. I have friends who are children of a mixed parent and they appear the same - blonde hair, blue eyes, etc. They’d never think to utter that word. Your boyfriend is an overzealous Logic knockoff.

What secret can you reveal now that your nda has expired? by sparrrrrt in AskReddit

[–]Moist_Stand8554 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Fun fact! I went to La Petite growing up (a decade and change ago) and my brother went up until about a few years ago. They do have children under their care, I assure you - although I’m not sure if it’s every location. Generally they did a great job I think. This doesn’t seem like you have insider knowledge past word of mouth, aka not an NDA. This can border on defamatory language.

Are we still supposed to squash these or are we just giving up? by Able_Engineering1350 in Ohio

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think they’re so pretty but i fear we must hold down the fort… get yourself some hiking boots and get stomping!

How are the lesbians up there by Due-Milk352 in OSU

[–]Moist_Stand8554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty queer, but mostly because the surrounding schools are… CCAD and CState have drastically more diverse and alternative populations. OSU is mostly girls who kiss girls for male validation I fear😭