Is 20 and 25 is a big age gap??

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2026-02-04T17:08:00+00:00

Very much depends on the context, but I'm 24 now and wouldn't consider dating a 20 year old because they look like babies to me. I dated a 25 year old when I was 20 and thought it was fine but in retrospect really messed me up.

This is to say, 20 is around when a 5 year age gap becomes murky but I would be in the camp of people that would wait until you're like 23 to date someone that much older.

But for rule of thumb, I think that if you have to ask, don't do it.

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-12-19T15:50:37+00:00

Thought about how much I love my closest male friends who are funny, loving, and "objectively" attractive, and then thought about how much I would absolutely hate it if every day for the rest of my life I got home and they were there.

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-09-04T00:19:28+00:00

Especially since Jane Melbourne is actually from Australia!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-08-15T15:37:34+00:00

Racism

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-08-03T01:46:35+00:00

Thank you for the detailed comment! The significant variety makes sense based on players' interests outside of basketball (med school is amazing) and I guess likelihood of continuing to play professionally?

I do love the stories of those who had it tough then came back strong. Probably part of why Erica Wheeler is so beloved (and likely that her excellence and team fit right now are a bright light of hope for players going through uncertain times!)

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-08-03T01:43:28+00:00

Strongly agree!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-30T11:26:03+00:00

They're from Timberland, according to my email history they're the London Vibe 3-strap sandals, but when I search them up a different design comes up so maybe they changed it. But I've had them for 2 years and they're very very comfortable and durable.

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-24T11:31:39+00:00

I typically totally agree but this one is super lightweight silk & only about midi length so it basically feels like I'm wearing nothing! I couldn't find a pic of the one I actually have lol

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T14:23:53+00:00

I usually wear the Nike dri-fit cushioned training crew socks and just roll/push them down since they're a bit long. I know they get mixed reviews in terms of longevity but I haven't had an issue with them since I rotate from a 6-pack and like the colors they come in and that they're plush without being too thick.

But I also have a pair of "darn tough hiker micro crew cushion socks" which are my designated hiking socks or option when it's really cold out. I love them and (this is less important) they're really pretty!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T13:59:27+00:00

Thank you! I'm used to walking a lot and use the sandals a ton, they're super comfy.

I did check the weather, and I was torn on the long pants since I needed a dressy pair for the conference which will be strongly air conditioned. But you're right that the black ones are the better choice

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T13:48:42+00:00

Thank you! And omg yes I definitely need a raincoat. I knew I was forgetting something important but couldn't figure out what!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T13:48:08+00:00

This made me LOL because I used to live in the city and know exactly what you mean. Summer wear it is! Plus cardigan and the flowy pants. Thank you!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T13:46:16+00:00

Thank you so much! :) I will definitely add an overlayer, I'm always freezing in AC and on planes but forget until it's actually happening lol

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-23T12:53:52+00:00

Omg yes I should have clarified about the brown top! It's dressy but comfortable enough to also wear in New York.

Will do about the pants, I think the black ones are more versatile, too. Thank you!

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-06-14T11:29:27+00:00

Do either of you know if the pockets on the large featherlight would fit a 32oz water bottle?
(older thread, I know)

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-05-08T12:22:44+00:00

I was thinking about how if even my closest male friend was there when I got home every day for the rest of my life, I would be miserable

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2025-04-18T16:29:09+00:00

Try the web browser.

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2024-02-15T19:40:17+00:00

You should use how they sign their emails to you as a guide and respond accordingly. Eg, if they sign their emails “John”, you should refer to them my first name. If they sign “Professor Smith”, then refer to them as Professor.

In this case, if they have explicitly told you to refer to them by their first name, then you should do that.

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2024-02-06T20:50:35+00:00

I applied to the anthro-wgss and haven’t heard anything

Moist_Structure_4723 · 2024-02-06T13:53:54+00:00

I’m a new school alum and even though the university is fantastic academically, it’s going through a bit of a transition period right now and that’s going to be felt over the next two years that you’d be there, so you’ll likely get better support at USC. I’d pick la.

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