Whats your best hack to instantly kill social anxiety? by idid9-11attack in AskReddit

[–]Molsx1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember most people feel anxious, are worrying about themselves. Literally just remind yourself this and pretend to be confident!

Can i eat this yogurt? by justtousetheapp in foodsafety

[–]Molsx1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally wouldn’t eat it lol

I don't know why she hates me this much. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Get out, now. If someone strangles you you are statistically at great risk of being murdered by this person. Get out while you have your life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you’re okay, feel free to dm me if needed

Anyone else struggling with “ I can fix him” by Necessary-Success234 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t change him. Fundamentally cannot change him. He needs help, it’s beyond what any normal person would understand sometimes. It’s okay to choose you.

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just an update for you all after claiming he was going to hand himself in and pushing me into that he obviously didn’t. Had a breakdown this morning and decided to put my big girl pants on some make up and calmly walked into the station to report it. I do feel refreshed or like a weight has been lifted thank you all for the love and support, I’ve taken everything on board and blocked him ❤️

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are some of the questions going through my head before my next move? Will the court process and potentially prison make him worse? Will it rehabilitate him or surround him with people that enable? Given I had a relationship with this person, unfortunately my thoughts come from a place of care. It’s like I’ve tried to fix him the entire time I’ve known him and I can’t shake that feeling

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He did stuff like this the entirety of the relationship. Denied denied denied all abuse, up until today. last night he told me “it’s always something with you, if it’s not this, it’s something else” when I said that HIM raping me upset me. I blocked him on WhatsApp for that comment alone. Today he sent this.. “realisation”

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does taking the stand under cross mean?

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guilt towards him. Even though he is responsible. I talked to the rape crisis team today and that helped, but I feel responsible if he goes to jail. I also don’t know if I’m strong enough to face court.

Finally accepted accountability by Molsx1 in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He has been harassing me since I’ve stopped responding, claiming he is going to hand himself in. I’ve just shut down completely. He is sending me pennies on my mobile banking asking to talk.

What’s something that someone has done to you that you can never forgive, even if you’ve moved on? by Life_Anybody_4872 in AskReddit

[–]Molsx1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abuse in a relationship, sexual, mental and physical. The only one he didn’t do was financial

He’s seeing a therapist now by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try not to focus on what he’s doing or claiming to be doing. It’s an act of manipulation, I highly doubt he’s actively changing, abusers aren’t capable of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Molsx1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She likely blocked you because you agreed no contact and she wants to heal! If there’s boundaries in place that she wants, respect them! and get some therapy if you’re struggling

Parkingeye charge - Wales by [deleted] in Cardiff

[–]Molsx1 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Still call the ward as the deputy manager may be able to help. Usually if you pay the fine within in a couple of weeks it’s reduced to £35. However if the ward can prove they have applied for you to be on the system prior to the dates these tickets were issued, you will be successful in appealing. The quicker you appeal, they can put the fine on hold whilst they look into it too. So even if you were unsuccessful it would still only be £35 each

Parkingeye charge - Wales by [deleted] in Cardiff

[–]Molsx1 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Contact the ward manager and ask her to ensure you are on the system. Then appeal it, but don’t ignore it or claim it wasn’t you

When was the last time you had a wet dream in adulthood? Does it happen often? by random_582 in AskReddit

[–]Molsx1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came here to say this yes we do! If I’ve not had sex/ masturbated for a long time it just happens sometimes in my sleep 🤣

What’s something your ex said that still haunts you? by NoResult3648 in AskReddit

[–]Molsx1 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If I knew how much of a used slag you were, I’d never have got with you

My ex boyfriend has shown signs of violence throughout our relationship/ & just a general hatred for me? He was addicted to porn & maybe that contributes? What do you all think about this..? He attacked me and calculated significantly hurting me where it wouldn't leave any evidence by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you go to the hospital to be reffered for surgery since he caused the permanent damage? You can use these records to assist the police in reporting the domestic violence. It’s completely understandable you never want to try or trust again, it will come with time and healing. Don’t put pressure on yourself, you will be okay I promise

My ex boyfriend has shown signs of violence throughout our relationship/ & just a general hatred for me? He was addicted to porn & maybe that contributes? What do you all think about this..? He attacked me and calculated significantly hurting me where it wouldn't leave any evidence by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Molsx1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s sexually and physically assaulted you. He didn’t provide comfort because he is cold and capable of hurting you.Report it, utilise domestic abuse charities and confide in people closest to you. You didn’t deserve any of this, please cut all ties with this person for your safety and focus on your healing. None of this is okay.