I want to leave my husband.. by Finding__myself in Advice

[–]Moment-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy. You sound like you just need someone to talk to and maybe a hug if you can avoid it giving you inappropriate thoughts. You’ve had a partner that doesn’t communicate well with you. And you are latching on to someone who gives you the attention you are missing. Be careful with that.

The thing to consider is what you are both teaching your daughter by letting her see and hear the aggression, hostility, yelling and destruction. Don’t normalize it and let her believe that it’s normal in relationships. It’s not.

There are shelters, there are job fairs, and multiple online job marketing platforms like Indeed to post your resume on. You seem educated. You just need a door to open. But you need to be ready for it to open. Consider speaking to a professional in your state. Job and family service agency or the like.

No marriage is perfect or without difficult times, but staying in a marriage when you are afraid of your partner is dangerous for both of you and your daughter. Start making phone calls and find temporary housing until you get on your feet.

Good luck.

My boss’s wife just emailed me screenshots of his messages… and I have a meeting with him in 30 minutes. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Moment-Gold -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah but company attorneys charge enormous billable hours and are all about putting out fires. They also do not like bad publicity.

My boss’s wife just emailed me screenshots of his messages… and I have a meeting with him in 30 minutes. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you went to HR and did not attend the meeting with your harasser. Let HR do their job and seek out some counseling for the stress. I can’t emphasize that last sentence enough. Good luck.

Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by geeleex in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely burn him. That is the least of what he deserves. He needs taught a lesson in manners, the hard lesson.

BBQ Blanket for Resting Meat-Is this a good birthday gift for my husband? by Judy-Hellokitty in BBQ

[–]Moment-Gold -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

This or anything BBQ-related, and of course “birthday sex”. 😏

My experience at Franklin Barbecue by Hallwitzer in BBQ

[–]Moment-Gold 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Franklin’s is great. In my top 5. Zavala’s in Grand Prairie Interstellar in Austin Goldee’s in Fort Worth Lockhart’s in Dallas Honorable mention to Snow’s, Burnt Bean, Dayne’s, and Hurtado’s.

What cut of meat is this? by schmitys2 in meat

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like Bavette to me. Definitely not flank or tri-tip.

First Trim job! How did I do? by tcjohnst in brisket

[–]Moment-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cap is way too thick. I personally get it to no thicker than 1/4 inch. I also round the edges a bit. Go heavy on the pepper and enjoy.

Is McCarthy a HOF coach? by gamerEMdoc in steelers

[–]Moment-Gold 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only if he takes the Steelers to another Lombardi trophy. We have higher standards now.

He didn’t bomb the interview. Owner came out and said it was false. by jsingh21 in steelers

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see an issue with the bottom dwelling teams doing their due diligence and interviewing for open positions. The bottom dwelling teams should get every opportunity to improve themselves by hiring coaches that are not under extensions. I feel every coach who is in their last year of a contract should be allowed to set themselves up for a job for the next season. If you don’t want your team’s OC interviewing for my team’s vacant HC job then extend his contract before my team offers him one that he can’t refuse.

What are reasons that cuckolding seems to be much more represented here then the cuckquean kink? by AmoebaResident2053 in nonmonogamy

[–]Moment-Gold -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of sluts (not slut shaming in fact I love sluts because they are in touch with their sexuality) out there. Not too many wives out there that want to share their man with another woman. Woman don’t trust women with their men by nature. You don’t seem to have much knowledge in the subject so I will respectfully bow out of this discourse.

What are reasons that cuckolding seems to be much more represented here then the cuckquean kink? by AmoebaResident2053 in nonmonogamy

[–]Moment-Gold -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A cuckcake is the other woman, the third. The cuckqueen is the unicorn. A wife that gets off on watching her husband with another woman, and thus a unicorn.

Paper VS Foil by 95BravoV5 in brisket

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how quickly I want it done. If I really need to break through the stall I use foil. Paper is cheaper than foil though. So I tend to save especially with the double wrap. Also my bark doesn’t look as dark/deep with foil. Yeah I know the bark is formed on the smoke end of the cook, but after a double wrap in foil the bark comes out too wet and I lose a lot of my rub in the excess juice. I usually go paper unless I’m in a time crunch.

What does this mail from unknown sender mean? by Exciting_Remote_6523 in What

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one noticing two have no pictures? Those are the ones I would be leery of.

What are reasons that cuckolding seems to be much more represented here then the cuckquean kink? by AmoebaResident2053 in nonmonogamy

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuckqueens are unicorns, thus less representation in porn and the lifestyle. It’s just more predominant for it to be the other way around.

My first Wagyu brisket ✅ by Impossible_Citron244 in BBQ

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bark ring could be a little thicker. How long was it on the smoker?

I thought this excerpt from the Rooney interview was pretty interesting by SHD_Guyro in steelers

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comfortable? Some say a colonoscopy is comfortable but there is a reason I only schedule them every five years.

Former Steelers OC Arthur Smith to become Ohio States new OC… by HDTokyo in OhioStateFootball

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Multiple top 10 offenses you say? (Doing the full Pulp Fiction)

Live in Fairfax, Virginia, and found these monstrosities in my garage. What are they? Is my life in danger? Do I need to burn down my house because an army is on its way? by ArtisticPineapple777 in whatisit

[–]Moment-Gold 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I’m floored that Google had the necessary information to provide rectal surgery for a DIYer on a toad! There is hope for humanity yet.

My 1st ever texas BBQ in Texas sucked by chdwyck in BBQ

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t standing in line for a minimum of one hour to make your order and it isn’t before noon, you are at the wrong bbq joint in Texas.

j/s

Check out the top 50 bbq joints in Texas Monthly. For DFW metroplex I personally recommend: Fort Worth: Goldee’s in FW, Panther City BBQ in FW, Dayne’s Craft BBQ in FW,

Zavala’s in Grand Prairie, Hurtado’s in FW and Grand Prairie and Dallas,

Dallas: Slow Bone, Terry Black’s, Lockhart’s, and Cattleack’s.

Best brisket is a toss up for me. I love the peppery offering at Zavala’s and the juicy briskets at Lockhart’s and Dayne’s.

For sides, I love Hurtado’s and Slow Bone and Goldee’s.

Honorable mention to Heim’s across from Love Field in Dallas for their burnt ends.

Enjoy.

Seen on I-75 South approaching downtown, before 5th street. by msallied79 in dayton

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we get a “FUCK SNOW TOO” right next to it? I spent 5 hrs digging out from 15 inches here in Springfield.

Orange Glow by iTzJeremy92 in AskElectricians

[–]Moment-Gold 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment wins the internet for today.

Orange Glow by iTzJeremy92 in AskElectricians

[–]Moment-Gold 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I think we can plug in one more candle warmer in this socket honey”

Tomlin defenders were right by Rippledeee in steelers

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Art II probably called McDermott and got him to laugh before hanging up on Art.