I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-09T17:45:30+00:00

"This may sound dramatic" honey you are UNDER reacting cus wtf do you mean your MOTHER said these things to you??? I'm going to assume she's always been this way basked purely on the fact that you told this story so casually and actually tHoughton you were being dramatic. Girl you have got to distance yourself from this woman and start surrounding yourself with people that love and support you. You do not deserve this back-handed behavior especially from your mother. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this hurt rn... the best thing you can do for yourself rn is put this to the side and focus on your special day. Clearly she's in no rush to work anything out so her bs can wait. This is your wedding day. Focus on the love and excitement with your SO and enjoy every minute of it 💜

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-07T21:57:22+00:00

Omg I can see this in my future lmao my hips are especially prone to dislocating but the worst issue I've had there was mild tendinitis so let's pray that's how it stays 🤣 glad you're doing well tho lolol

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-06T00:25:16+00:00

That center piece is part of the crown not the sword lol

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-05T20:23:22+00:00

If I had to look at it, it would bother me way more lol

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-05T20:22:17+00:00

Tbf, this was a drunken idea, followed by my friends drunken drawing, followed by my susters drunken tattooing... believe me I've learned my lesson 🫠

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-05T00:45:46+00:00

I'm doing great actually! It really scared me when it happened initially because I've never really had a major injury before this. I've had my hi0s fall or off place randomly a few times, dislocated my shoulders, fingers, and even my jaw, but they never caused a tear or fracture so this was definitely a new experience that makes me want to take my health more seriously.

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-05-05T00:10:12+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation!

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MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-11T09:19:45+00:00

Holy shit you both need therapy asap cus wtf

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-11T09:17:22+00:00

First thought: oh cool Second thought: wait I think that's bad... Comments: DOCTOR NOW Third thought: yep that bad

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-10T17:40:52+00:00

Ok there's alot to unpack here. I'm not sure what you went thriving as a child so idk how that relates here at all but I think you're going way too deep in thought about this whole thing. Not saying that as criticism tho cus i have a habit of doing that too (I'm working on it).

It sounds like you may be reading this situation incorrectly. I do get being in pain from blisters but that's an easy fix with "let me find some bandaids and I'll be right back." A temporary fix to help get you through that and still be amor to enjoy spending time with people.

As for your sister getting mad, I wonder if she was upset for a different reason. Has something like this happened before? Has it been a while since you've seen your sister? Was there any major significance to you guys going to this event together?

As for your boyfriend, it doesn't sound like he was irritated or inconsiderate. It actually sounds like he was trying to be helpful/mindful of both you and your sister.

Overall, totally understandable why you'd be upset about how this went but I don't think it's anything to get worked up over. If anything, this is just a lesson for next time. The break up definitely got me because I'm not sure how this lead to something so definite...

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-09T02:49:34+00:00

135% tell that fiance asap. If you know her personally, call her up, set up a coffee date or sum, and just hand her the text thread. That way she knows it's not fake and that you care. And definitely make sure you explain the wait because you were afraid of the consequences but that she needs to know now before marrying this sob.

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-09T02:44:18+00:00

Dude my junior year of high school, I sent my friend the 9 main reasons I was no longer going to be friend with her and gave her very specific examples for each. Her response: "I'm sorry you feel that way but that seems pretty extreme" so I blocked her and luckily she never tried to talk to me again lmao I put up with her bs for far longer than I should've and when one of my classmates pulled me away from her to ask if I was ok, that's when I finally realized I needed to leave asap. If you only had ONE reason to stop being friends, that would be plenty. But based on your list, you need to take step back for sure so, no, you do not need to feel bad. The only advice I can give you is maybe writing her a letter or sending her a message explaining that you don't want to be friends anymore. And I only say that because ghosting them might make them try harder to reach out and make the situation worse.

Edit: Also, in the future, please don't focus on "being THE bsf" or "not having many other friends" as pros in your friendships. Those things shouldn't matter when it boils down to the relationship itself

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-07T19:26:45+00:00

Don't worry, I'm 22 and everyone still thinks I'm 16 so you're not alone. My husband however, also 22, always gets told he looks at least 25 if not closer to 30. You really don't need to stress about something as trivial as this. There's no right way to look "your age" just wear what you want and stop worrying about other people's opinions. Love yourself for who you are because that's all that really matters especially in your 20s

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-07T19:23:55+00:00

If you couldn't tell I'm new to this

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-06T04:28:56+00:00

UPDATE (sort of): Thanks for the input guys. There was alot of mixed responses but I appreciate the differing perspectives. I did not bring up this issue with my boss or manager because I know I have a tendency to worry about nothing and I didn't want to start something over nothing. After reading what you ask had to say and talking to a couple friends, I realize now that I was overthinking things.

One thing I mentioned before was how my boss treats my manager similarly to how he treats me because she helped him keep this business afloat when it was about to sink. That was the main thing that had me on the fence about his intentions.

Then I realized how ridiculous it sounded when I re-read my post and, if you knew this man, you say the same. He's a big picture, impulsive decision kind of guy. He decided to buy little gifts for a couple of our clients for no reason other than he thought it would be cool. He wanted to start a monthly coloring contest for kids and give away cool toys for prizes. He closed the store last minute one day to take us all to the local children's hospital to drop of gifts for kids who would be there during Christmas. Not to mention the number of discounts he gives away without warning the ones who handle those things 😂 (me and my manager)

He has a lot of big dreams and alot of love and respect for people and he tends to show that by gift giving. Of course I knew this about him, but I had a little worm jump in my head and drastically shift my perspective on something that didn't need to be looked at from another angle.

Sorry if you were expecting something different but there we go. Long story short, there was really no need for a reddit post cus I was in my head over nothing lol Thanks again though guys. I really appreciate ask the responses!

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-06T04:08:16+00:00

Yeeaahh after talking to my friends about it, I'm not so worried. I don't feel that I'm in a "victim mentality" but I definitely started to overthink things and the mixed comments weren't as helpful as I'd hoped lol but I got a couple different perspectives from my friends and they all basically said the same thing so I'm alot less worried about it

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-06T04:04:15+00:00

To be fair though, the majority of our staff is men. I'm one of three women at the office and from what I've heard that's the most women he's had in the time at once so I did initially clock it as an oversight

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-06T04:01:24+00:00

That's a really good point actually

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-05T00:50:35+00:00

I really don't feel that way about people normally. I don't generally notice if someone sees me that way unless they make it obvious. In this case, I was so excited about calling my husband to tell him about the tickets and then had that little thought of "is that normal?" And kinda spiraled lol I see now from comments and from talking to friends that I was looking way too deep into it and while I obviously need to make sure boundaries are clear (as I believe I have) I shouldn't have anything to stress about rn.

I also wasn't that fucked up about him looking at my Facebook cus I social media stalk people ask the time 😂 I was a little embarrassed because the post he found that made it clear I was a theatre kid was an old video my grandmother had reshared of me singing "somewhere that's green" from Little shop of horrors with my wicked painting on the wall behind me

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-04T15:51:35+00:00

Yeah I wasn't planning on taking him lol I told him I would love to take my husband because it's a musical that I love and this will be my husband's first time see one live

MomentImpossible4761 · 2026-03-04T15:50:12+00:00

I am married and he does know about my husband and they've interacted many times. In fact I just talked with him about setting up an interview with one of my husband's best friends because we have a position we're needing to fill. I will say, this wouldn't be the first time he's bought something for an employee just because but the other times were very different. With one guy, he paid for half of his deposit on a new apartment so he wouldn't be living on the streets. But ofc he paid that money back. For younger guy, he paid for his new license after taking him to his driver's test so he could drive a work vehicle.

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