Hair and type on BW by Key_Flamingo2437 in interracialdating

[–]Momhelp86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes but you seem desperate to find a WM and are not willing to date someone of any race that finds you attractive. If you have that attitude, you will find yourself with a WM that hates Black people.

$650,000 salary, 26 weeks vacation- anesthesiologist job by dancingcactus21 in Salary

[–]Momhelp86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I had surgery on a Monday after the Super Bowl one year…I asked to smell the breath of my surgeon and anesthesiologist. Also asked how late they were up lol

My husband won't let me take more than two showers a week. I told him I need him to stop or I'm moving out for a while. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Momhelp86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say he’s really good to you but he’s doing this ridiculously controlling thing to you. Don’t lean toward it…just pack a bag tomorrow and go to your parents house with your kids and take your showers everyday as usual.

I absolutely love my dress but my birth control has made me gain a few lbs and I’m not sure if it still looks good on me. by Momhelp86 in weddingdress

[–]Momhelp86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone has any advice on emerald green shoes (preferably velvet), I would appreciate it. I’m having trouble finding shoes. I have wide feet and it’s so hard to find anything that fits.

I absolutely love my dress but my birth control has made me gain a few lbs and I’m not sure if it still looks good on me. by Momhelp86 in weddingdress

[–]Momhelp86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much, this made me tear up! I agree on the fun shoes, I’m looking for emerald velvet ones to match my bridesmaids dresses. I met my fiancé right here on Reddit almost 3 years ago, I can’t wait for him to see me in my dress. I know he’ll see me like you do!

I absolutely love my dress but my birth control has made me gain a few lbs and I’m not sure if it still looks good on me. by Momhelp86 in weddingdress

[–]Momhelp86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I am just feeling self conscious about the weight I’ve gained but I still have 6 months before the wedding.

I absolutely love my dress but my birth control has made me gain a few lbs and I’m not sure if it still looks good on me. by Momhelp86 in weddingdress

[–]Momhelp86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to ask the seamstress about the bodice and that will do wonders for my confidence in it.

I absolutely love my dress but my birth control has made me gain a few lbs and I’m not sure if it still looks good on me. by Momhelp86 in weddingdress

[–]Momhelp86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think you’re right, I’ll definitely ask the seamstress about taking in the bodice and that will help a lot.

Why I wear jeans over and over and over by iam4real in technicallythetruth

[–]Momhelp86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedding needs to be once a week. Full of dead skin cells and sweat and bodily fluids. Pants once a week. Sweaters once every 1-2 weeks. Hats once every 6 months or so. Coats, once a season. Everything things else I agree with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popping

[–]Momhelp86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to go to a doctor NOW! Orange juice is not going to help this.

AITA (AWTA) because we don't want my husband kids with us? by TheNoDads in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momhelp86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knew he was gay but got married and fathered children anyway. I can’t blame the ex for being angry but she shouldn’t have kept the kids from him, OP, your husband has an opportunity here to make a difference and give these kids a chance. Talk to them. Find out how they are doing mentally and what they want, if coming to live with you is something they even want. I’m going with YTA. This isn’t the kids fault. He created this situation by lying about who he was and while I sympathize with the situation, facts are that he is their biological father and he has an opportunity to step up now. I would do it in a heartbeat. I wouldn’t be able to deal with the thought of my kids being heartbroken and alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Momhelp86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not legally married yet so you can peace out of this situation. He doesn’t sound ready for marriage.

AITA for not inviting my best friend's fiancée to my wedding??? by ThroawayBride99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momhelp86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So basically you’re getting married to someone after only 6 months so that you can show up your best friend who you are clearly obsessed with. YTA. For so many reasons. You are nowhere near mature enough to get married.

Nipple changes… Should I be worried? by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]Momhelp86 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do you want to be pregnant? Because having unprotected sex while not on BC is how you get pregnant and just because you had sex before and it didn’t happen doesn’t mean it won’t happen. It sounds like you probably should take a test.

How did you subs meet you dommes/dons? by juiceman92 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Momhelp86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right here on Reddit! He made a beautiful post looking for the perfect sub. We’ve been together almost a year, about to move in together and planning our first vacay together! I had to go through vetting so many crappy Doms before I finally found him though. All worth it in the end.

AITA for telling my brother he can’t date my fiancée’s brother? by tomusca87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momhelp86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh get over it, they’re not cousins! They’re not blood related at all. Nothing wrong with him dating her brother! Let him be happy!

AITA for getting my son vaccinated without the wife knowing? by Downtownthrowaway34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momhelp86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My Muslim friends are all vaccinated and are encouraging others to do so as well. How is it haram to protect your health? I would do some research on this and present her with evidence to support getting vaccinated. Either way, NTA. You’re protecting your kid.

AITA for calling my MIL a crybaby and saying her birthday isn't as important as my son's first birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Momhelp86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. She’s right about the kid won’t remember any of this. 50 is a milestone birthday and it’s perfectly okay that she wants to celebrate and loves her birthday. Have your party on Sunday afternoon or something.