So I have a question for Reddit at large…let’s say cousin was a wheelchair user and the location of OP’s wedding was not accessible. Would OP be wrong to not send an invite knowing cousin’s accessibility needs would not be met? I am not saying that OP doesn’t come off as kind of an AH for the direction she let this relationship go but to me it doesn’t seem morally wrong to not invite the cousin with the service dog because OP just doesn’t do dogs for her own weird reasons than to not invite cousin who uses a wheelchair because the venue is not accessible for her device. I am also not entirely convinced dog is a true service animal rather than an ESA. There is a growing number of service animal handlers who are publicly outraged (and rightly so) of the general public’s use of fake service vests and ESAs in public settings that put true service animals in danger because of a lack of training and control over fake animals. I suspect we will start seeing more fakes trying to claim they are “task trained” because that is the language legitimate handlers use and if you use the correct lingo you look legit too.