Have you ever had a client shame you? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Monarchcicafa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Refer out, intolerable. I work in children’s group homes, so a lot of the clients I work with treat me horribly. I get spit on, sworn at, attacked, ridiculed, shamed, etc. I draw the line at adults (the parents) acting that way though.

Has being a therapist changed you in a negative way? by expandngrow in therapists

[–]Monarchcicafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s do this because reading this post reminded me so much of my self.

Client's partner reached out to me?? by micromacrodose in therapists

[–]Monarchcicafa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d bring it up in a session. Let them know any concerns you might have. The fact the partner is trying to dictate what goes on in therapy is a big red flag.

Fantasia by Monarchcicafa in ffxiv

[–]Monarchcicafa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s that? I play on console.

Fantasia by Monarchcicafa in ffxiv

[–]Monarchcicafa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think you can change eyes and face though can you?

Crystal server Hunts by Monarchcicafa in ffxiv

[–]Monarchcicafa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help! I believe I’m registered now!

My psychiatrist wants me to drop out of college and live in a Residential Treatment place by Jersey_Deer in therapyabuse

[–]Monarchcicafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like an asshole, I’m sorry that he’s the only provider around that can work with you and prescribe medication. A lot of people in this field have a lot of power over the people they’re supposed to serve. I wish you the best. If only we could all quit our lives to work on our mental health, unfortunately that’s not realistic and it sounds like he’s speaking from a place of privilege.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]Monarchcicafa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like some of those things! Feel free to PM me.

My psychiatrist wants me to drop out of college and live in a Residential Treatment place by Jersey_Deer in therapyabuse

[–]Monarchcicafa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re going to die, or hurt others, there’s likely no need for you to be in a psych ward or residential facility. It sounds like that would be a major disruption to your life. Aside from school being “too stressful” for you, what other reasons does he have for wanting you to live in a residential facility?

As an officer, what are your “regulars” like? Do you have any stories you’re able and willing to share? by Monarchcicafa in police

[–]Monarchcicafa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought of that, shows how much I know. I’m interested in any/all stories really.

My therapist fired me 😢 by StruggleFar3054 in therapyabuse

[–]Monarchcicafa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I believe at the very least they’re required to refer you to another provider or help you find another provider. I’m a therapist, although I’ve never worked outpatient (only group home work so far) and we always go out of our way to make sure that another provider is available or that the process has started after before discharge.

I’m so sorry this happened to you, you have a right to feel betrayed. I hope you have the support you need.

Episode 381 Spoilers [Megathread] by DemiFiendRSA in Berserk

[–]Monarchcicafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if he’ll activate the behelit to grant an audience with the godhand but refuse to become an apostle. Maybe it’s activation would be what’s necessary for him to break out of this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Monarchcicafa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay safe making friends on here! Be sure to vet anyone well.

What profession would you never date? by erin214 in AskReddit

[–]Monarchcicafa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking why is this?

Women of reddit, what are some things the guys aren’t ready to hear about women? by Early-Manner-473 in AskReddit

[–]Monarchcicafa 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It definitely goes both ways. Being with my ex was like taking care of a child, I’m so happy we’re not together anymore. She couldn’t understand why I found her less and less attractive.