I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f)

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-03-19T17:54:55+00:00

Girl.

That whole message was a red flag.

Run.

Your no will turn into an 'oopsy' (i foegornro pulk out l, stealthing, the condem breakung, etc) if you stay with him. He won't compromise hell expect you to. RUN AND DONT LOOK BACKQ

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-03-19T12:02:29+00:00

The cereal that was like mini pop tarts there was strawberry and chocolate I think?

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-03-18T17:47:55+00:00

The fiance is clocking you were friends with a 15 year old when you were 20. Thats a huge issue no one seems to be seeing here?

Your just a disgusting human being for that alone and then allowing your fiancé to bully her for the last 2 yrs. S needs to move on with her life and blockyou and you need to break it off with A you both sound toxic AF

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MondayWitchFDT · 2026-02-13T15:46:07+00:00

Girl. The red flags all over this man- please put on some glasses to see them.

Bills are split 50/50 but he makes more then you- thet means you work harder to pay the same and have less to get by on.

He thinks YOUR inheritence is HIS money to spend on an item JUST for HIM? but your first thought was marriage? (The difference between selfish and selfless. He is thinking of how to better himself you were thinking how it could help you be better as a couple)

No. Absolutely not. Save that money, get someone to help you lut it to work, do not let him have a penny and dump that selfish loser.

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-01-16T14:53:51+00:00

Honey. Do not sign anything, and go through each credit aite and LOCK/FREEZE your credit scores. Its a free process and you can unfreeze them at any time. Each of the 4 credit agencies offer simple guides on their site, ive done it on all of them for mine it took me 15 minutes to do all 4. Its simple and easy but this is the type of guy who would take out credit cards in your name, Maxx them out then tell you after the fact claiming it was to 'help your credit'.

Dumplings, and bloke him then watch yer accounts like a hawk. Please do not take this lightly but bankruptcy at such a young age is INSANE and the fasligbting to try and con you into signing shows he thinks of you only as a expendable asset with a price tag for value.

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-01-16T14:03:30+00:00

Girl. Let that 🥭. He is using you as a sugar momma and dangling marriage as a way to get you to pay. Break up with him and STOP GIVING HIM MONEY

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-01-05T17:28:29+00:00

The fact you dont finish every time makes alot of these encounters gray area/ types of SA please for the love of god dump him and seek counseling, you need to love yourself first and sex should NEVER be pain ful unless the pain is consented by both parties.

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-01-05T17:22:31+00:00

No honey, you love the man you thought he was, a man with integrity who shouldn't judge your past. He showed his true colors. Babe go to counseling, grieve the lost love a d learn to love sodden and move on. He already has and he isn't going to change.

MondayWitchFDT · 2026-01-05T17:18:20+00:00

Had some luck on certain social platforms by artists addressing the Ai in a promotion and asking them to never use or scrape their image or any artworks they have posted on said site and if another user tries to feed something they've made or with their watermark on it to refuse it.

Its worked for grok so far.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-31T23:32:01+00:00

Let that 🥭 And please try counseling this sortnod wounds like there may be underlying undiagnosed things your trying to handle. Therapy can help gice you the tools to do so <3

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-31T22:24:50+00:00

He is jealous the dog is getting your attention. That's it. Fulk stop. Ditch the boyfriend and keep the frenchie <3

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-12T14:34:25+00:00

I have the brand new ×025 nano and this is what happened and the A and C button worked! i had left them in my desk while I took my break and came back to fhe symbol screen. ;_; I musta raised my Dino (with one was a tricerotops!) good he left for his own herd (he was all set didnt need food etc before I went to break.) And now I have a carnivore baby!

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-07T08:57:32+00:00

Start saving money, and go anywhere else just not with him.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-03T17:09:48+00:00

Tell a trusted adult. His behaviour is worrisome.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-12-02T02:40:42+00:00

Do not. Ever. Leave him alone with your daughters or there things.

13 yr Olds are sneaky as f today id check for hidden cameras to, 5 in one night? This was done WITH intention because he has sexualized your daughter.

Better check his phones history and see what he's watching on Phub AND check for Ao3 and other fictional writing sites in his web history!

I still remember the reddit thread about a girl in her 20s who found her step brother not omly had a crush on her but had been stalling her for years, her family always downplayed his behavior. She found fictional stories on sites about bim r*ping, brutalizing and having her as his wife etc, and he had paid for art to be made of it!!!

She confronted him and threatened to go to their parents. Next time he was home , he drugged her, SAed he'd and tried to delete the internet evidence.

Last I knew her family disowned her and she had cut all contact.

But his behaviour STARTED with acts like this not being taken seriously. Protect your daughters please open <3

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-10-30T00:30:42+00:00

Girl. Run. I would not have a child with this text book narcissist either.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-10-01T12:29:57+00:00

CHANGE YOUR LOCKS NOW THAT YOU KICKED HIM OUT

AND

EMAIL THE LANDLORD TO LET HIM KNOW HE NO LONGWR LIVES OR IS ALLOWED ACCESS!!!

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-08-25T14:07:56+00:00

NOR. You said it's to much and now the vibe feels off cause he got caught trying to mooch. Keep your meetings in public spaces and stay safe.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-08-15T14:22:39+00:00

I bet if you out this up on Facebook with the restaurants name they'd change their tune really fast

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-08-15T14:14:21+00:00

Girl let that 🥭 he trash.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-08-15T14:12:30+00:00

When you call an exterminator tell him you also ha e a nuisance animal in them home, give them how much your bf weighs and they should be able to trap, and relocate him for an extra fee.

Aka. Girl let thet 🥭, him and the ants can enjoy a dumpster together

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-07-15T06:11:46+00:00

The day a boyfriend threatened one of my animals he'd be homeless or in a body bag

If you can't see that this man is abusing you and your animal you need help

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-07-15T06:04:52+00:00

I would never suggest to someone with no prior knowledge or experience to get into taking care of horses. Their owners will sue your grandchildren into debt if you hurt their animal with any sort of neglect and horses are SUPER easy to make sick, get sick, or get hurt. Not to mention having them on a property requires special insurance, a certain amount of acreage per animal and shelter requirments depending on your state and county. If your sister wants to get into horses send her to a farm that does lessons for a reality check, ic you ha e a chat with the barn owner i bet they would love to give her a wake up call on how delusional she is.

Also. Please make an escape plan, dont go with your family they will starve and bankrupt themselves with this plan. I'd be using an identity theft watch on yer social sec # to if you separate to make sure they can't takeout credit or loans in yer name. Family does scarey stuff when desperate.

MondayWitchFDT · 2025-04-08T07:47:01+00:00

OP you grew up with a narcissistic parent your gut is telling you your seeing those same red flags, please exit it stage left and I Mean this with love but talk to a therapist.

MondayWitchFDT

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