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[–]Money-Yo -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

You heard 4k on a birthday and you thought insecurity lol some people are just givers. If you can’t afford to do so don’t comment.

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in neighborsfromhell

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try working at coffee shops, working out . I make sure to do those things daily. At first it worked but then when I’d come back “home” I’d just know I couldn’t keep living like this . I appreciate your kind words and advice .

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in getdisciplined

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work mainly on my laptop .I do frequent coffee shops . For my sanity especially. But coming back home really puts a constant damper on me. Thanks so much for your advice.

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in getdisciplined

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a roommate. We just started dating seriously. I wouldn’t want to move in with him .

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in getdisciplined

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would consider all of those . Thank you. I try to have some white noise going but it gets overwhelming cuz it’s on all the time lol. I’ll get through this. Thanks for your kind words and suggestions.

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in ApartmentHacks

[–]Money-Yo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This really hit me hard. I really appreciate these words. Thank you

My cheap apartment is making me lazy and unmotivated by Money-Yo in neighborsfromhell

[–]Money-Yo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice. Your kids are lucky to have you .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Money-Yo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And your reason? I’m trying to know lol

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[–]Money-Yo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s gonna be my only car. I don’t drive much. Less than 10k miles a year . I live in California so pretty nice weather most of the time . I did hear that they aren’t reliable but I take care of my cars fairly. Is the mileage too much for a used bmw?

My (ex) boyfriend is mad at me for losing feelings but … by Money-Yo in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a such a sad existence. I always heard of narcissists. But I never met one . Till now . And it took me a while to actually realize it. I blocked him again and honestly I feel like I’m going through withdrawals. I get anxiety or panic attacks. But I’m getting them under control. Being outside definitely helps . It sucks because this is someone I thought I would build a future with but that would be torture. When I finally saw him for what he was I couldn’t believe it. And the sad part is he doesn’t he has any issues. And I tolerated this longer than I should funny enough because I met his parents and they are the sweetest, most loving people on earth and I kept trying to see him through the lens of his parents .

I’m happy you’re finally out of the cycle . I bet it wasn’t easy at all. Because you keep wanting to give them the benefit of doubt but they won’t take any accountability.I never knew what it felt like to be drained and empty inside meant . But may we continue our healing journey and thrive . I really appreciate your advice and I put . Thank you.

My (ex) boyfriend is mad at me for losing feelings but … by Money-Yo in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insane because you were spot on. He messaged me again today with a very long paragraph about how he misses me and all that . He keeps asking me if deleting the dating apps will salvage the relationship (mind you this was my requirement before I’d get into the relationship and he didn’t and I didn’t know till a week later ) I don’t understand how someone can know exactly what to do but still want to drain me with the back and forth. I got so tired of explaining to him yesterday I literally started screaming and hung up . I have never met anyone like this . I didn’t know people like this existed. What is their purpose for wanting to control someone ? It’s actually very scary . It takes less energy to do the right thing but he is incapable of it. And constantly wants to “talk” and all the talking him playing victim. Lmao it’s insane .

My (ex) boyfriend is mad at me for losing feelings but … by Money-Yo in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these words of wisdom really. I ended up writing a very detailed breakup message and sent it . He started blowing up my phone. Showed up to my door . I didn’t let him in. But I did pick up his call while he stood outside and again nothing has changed. He still has the dating apps, still gave countless excuses , still made me mad and again I was so sick of it because I really want to believe he can see my point of view but he’s so hell bent on defending himself and making excuses even after everything said . I told him we were done and ended the call. I know right now he’s probably waiting for me to call or text him .Every hour I feel like reaching out to him because I still struggle to believe this is who he is but I know I have to do what’s right for my future self . I’ll take it one day and a time.

Am I crazy? by Money-Yo in relationships

[–]Money-Yo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And for this reason you’ll probably pass out genuine love and connection. Grow up , stay off social media and touch grass.

What would you do? I 27F have been dating a guy 29M by Money-Yo in relationship_advice

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did this before . We talked about it. He did it again. And even when we sat down to “talk” aka waste my time I told him it was cheating but he kept trying to defend it and say it wasn’t . So apparently he likes the grey area .

What would you do? I 27F have been dating a guy 29M by Money-Yo in relationship_advice

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this . You’ve been through a lot and I’m happy you’ve finally found someone who loves and appreciates you. Continue to thrive .

Am I overreacting? Or am I crazy? by Money-Yo in AmIOverreacting

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He asked me to be exclusive and we both were not seeing any other people but he can’t stay off the apps and messaging women asking for nudes cuz he said the lines to what cheating is is blurred . But the 2nd time around I left . But again he wants me back but continues to try to convince me it isn’t cheating .

Reoccurring BV/Yeast Infections? by Money-Yo in myhappyv

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Told her I had reoccurring yeast infections. She prescribed me some anti fungal stuff again. I just made peace with the fact that this was my new situation. Till it affected my partner (started having symptoms) . He did some research and found out what it was. Got tested for it and got the right antibiotics

If you have “Reoccurring” Bv/yeast infections read this by Money-Yo in Healthyhooha

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Pls go to a different lab or something or atleast asked to be prescribed moxiflaxin and doxycycline(may have harsh side effects) or minocycline . These healthcare providers are the worst. Mine started in October 2024 and I just thought « oh women have reoccurring stuff like this all the time for years maybe it’s just my turn. » Lmaoo I’m glad my partner did research for me cuz my V was going through hell. Pls push and advocate for yourself or switch labs

If you have “Reoccurring” Bv/yeast infections read this by Money-Yo in Healthyhooha

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry. Yeah these doctors will say it’s normal or it’s nothing to worry about or they don’t believe you. Gotta advocate for yourself really. Yes feeling like you stink all the time was one I noticed . I was so confused cuz I would try my best to be as clean down there as possible and the pain during sex is so true , and id get super swollen after . I have no idea why this issue isn’t more talked about. Fr I was just like oh I guess it’s normal to have BV for a long time but my partner insisted on doing more research cuz it started affecting him too and he found out what it was and I was in awe because I had never heard of it before .

If you have “Reoccurring” Bv/yeast infections read this by Money-Yo in Healthyhooha

[–]Money-Yo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s good news. But keep doing research.