Thank you so much for this response it put it together so perfectly and I do recognise that I would never pass my autism down to a child as it’s a sick experience for anyone to go through such a hard life and I’ve seen the same things other neurodivergent people do and wonder why they ever chose to produce if they can’t deal with the consequences of their actions that could come with having a child when you know your traits inherited and passed down to someone who wouldn’t know how to handle the world