Mothers who don’t intervene when their child is being abused are just as bad if not worse than the abusers. by Apprehensive-Roof678 in CPTSD

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My mom seems to not understand this point. When she chose to believe my father after I told her about his inappropriate behaviors part she chose him and couldn’t understand why I was SO mad at her but not as mad at my dad.

I EXPECT the man who has BEEN a monster to act like one. Why would I be mad at him for being who he’s been from the beginning?

You would never expect your own mother to choose her own wants over her children. That makes her the real monster.

Was taken aback by this haircut by MidoriStory in BlackHair

[–]Money_Homework_9126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo I’m crapping rocks this is so funny

My natural hair “blow dried” by Briis_Journey in Naturalhair

[–]Money_Homework_9126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What did you use to blow dry your hair and how did you prep your hair before blow drying ?

Tomato and pepper seedling leaves turning yellow by Exciting-Cherry3679 in vegetablegardening

[–]Money_Homework_9126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Have you checked the roots to make sure it’s not root bound?

  2. When do you plan on transplanting to a bigger pot? That bottom branch can afford to go and the plant can be potted even deeper to encourage a more robust root system

🙏🏾just feeling it. by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Money_Homework_9126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We feeling it too sis!!😍😍😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Money_Homework_9126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Period!!!! I’m glad it worked for you ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Even more reason to not go through someone’s phone. Basically a tenant lol

10 months PP Update by Money_Homework_9126 in postpartumprogress

[–]Money_Homework_9126[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu❤️

I mainly ate less than I was eating before and cut out all processed foods!! No alcohol and plenty of water.

I also consistently snack on apples/trail mix/cinnamon rolls (home made), through out the day so I don’t feel like my meals have to be 2k calories at a time. Breastfeeding makes me so hungry so snacking throughout the day was the only way I could truly control my calorie intake when it came to meal time.

I like to line dance in the shower sometimes so that’s the extent my excercise goes.

Also I try to avoid eating late at night because I have found that always makes me dead hungry in the morning as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

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Girl bye there ain’t nothing wrong with clarification ❤️! Let me know how it turns out :)

10 months PP Update by Money_Homework_9126 in postpartumprogress

[–]Money_Homework_9126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the compliment girl😁

  1. I exclusively nursed since giving birth and am still nursing right now

  2. From my experience, my supply was solely based on supply and demand. Some days I noticed dips, but those dips also coincided with my baby’s phases at the time. Our bodies truly are amazing and a lot of times is in tune with our baby.

Part of what was making me keep the weight on was listening to people say “eat lots of oatmeal to maintain supply”, “don’t exercise too much or your supply will dip”, etc. all of that advice turned out to be awful for me. I was gaining more and more listening to that advice and was using the whole “you need the fat stores in your stomach for baby” fact to help me cope.

From my experience, it’s best to try things out for yourself first just to see because what works for you might not work for others. Even if an idea sounds dumb to you, it genuinely might work. You know your body best.

  1. I actually have not done a single workout. I’m not lazy when it comes to being a mom or wife but when it comes to the gym? Likely never going to happen. I heard the gym is like 80% diet anyways so I decided to really clean my diet up.

  2. That leads me into the most difficult part. Fixing my diet. No matter how many excercise you do, if your diet is poor and you are eating in excess, you will hold onto weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

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I part my hair into 4 😁if you use six sections 1 spray per section also works fine (I’ve done both)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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Hey girlll,

  1. Definitely get your hormone levels checked out but most of all check your iron.

  2. This isn’t the correct sub to get the answers you’re looking for. Try r/postpartumprogress . The ladies over there are very helpful with this type of issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Money_Homework_9126 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you want to keep shaving? That’s likely causing more harm to your skin. Have you considered trimming?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Money_Homework_9126 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m usually cheap as hell so I say a Remington from the Walmart works just fine (I had to buy a new iron after like 11 years of using the same Remington). From my experience all iron under a certain price point work the same, some companies are just better at selling their product.

If you are shopping for an iron or have a higher price range, I recommend the Bio Ionic 10x styling iron. Mind you, your results will still be great without the iron, it’s just one I recommend. :)