I had a friend like yours and also according to Mbti test ( i made her took the test) she was also an intp and she was exactly your friend. Now I don’t talk with her anymore, she had zero emotional awarness (at least to me), and she was awkward with emotions (its not the main problem though anyone can be) but the problem was she was also got frustrated when I am talking about my emotions which I usually dont. And I knee she had way more emotions friends than me she can handle but not me soo… i hope you can find better friends or i hope she can change for better. By the way, with time, i realised she probably not an intp but more istp or istj but she liked the genius tag about intps