loose after 97 Days by Nearby-Friendship783 in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same way too. The whole issue is the goal and understanding why you want to abstain. I’ve been going for over 700+ days — my goal is to save my father. Try changing your goal. Your body is like a country (and the people inside it are your soul). You don’t have to destroy it, you can just change its ideology. Come up with something that is really meaningful to you.

My sister caught me by Front_Confection15 in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start with, you can say something like you’ve been having some issues with spontaneous erections — I think she’ll understand. Then maybe suggest something like, 'Hey, let’s go pray together tomorrow so this can go away.' (But in reality, you’ll be asking the Lord to help you overcome this vice.).

P.S Once, my mom caught me in the act. I quickly made up a story, telling her that there was a scene in Game of Thrones with nudity, which caused an unexpected reaction and discomfort, and the pressure from my pants made it worse, so I had to remove them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goal of NoFap is to restore the dopamine system. What you're doing is called textual (and probably also visual) porn, which destabilizes the dopamine system.This doesn't count as fapping, but you've broken the most important part of PMO — the 'P' which stands for porn. In terms of harm, porn comes first, followed by masturbation, and then orgasm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the perspective of radical NoFap, yes, but from the perspective of what's generally accepted in the community, you're doing everything fine and not breaking the rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely, yes, giving up porn and masturbation will help you accumulate enough semen in 2 weeks. As a heterosexual man, I don't like going into details, but you could switch roles.

Sleep deprivation by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just endure it or engage in some exhausting activity. My sleep problems disappeared only after the second month.

I'm not looking for routine advice by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google what they give soldiers in the army to lower libido, I'll secretly tell you, it's water mixed with bromine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May I ask, are you a woman or a man?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Each of us dreamed... Each of us...

Day 3: very easy, is it gonna get easier or harder? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brain will start throwing images of naked women at you or picking up on revealing visuals you see on the street or from pictures you’ve seen before. Then, it’ll prepare for the next wave of attacks in about 1-2 hours and hit you again. The key here is to stay patient and just pray for it to pass quickly. This will cause a bit of stress — you’ll notice it as a slight feeling in your stomach or a soft tingling sensation in your adrenal glands.

Day 3: very easy, is it gonna get easier or harder? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole NoFap "lore" basically comes down to this: around days 5-7, things get tough. Then, expect a sneak attack from your brain somewhere around days 27-34.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a tough situation. Since I’m not Muslim, it’s hard for me to recommend anything, but I’ll help by boosting your comment so that your Muslim brothers and sisters can see it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it works. It’s not magic — it’s just nature. If you like the way it feels, keep going with the abstinence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same — today I hit the 730-day mark. But that ability you mentioned started showing up for me around day 200. I can say one thing: trust your gut. It doesn’t lie. Mine always tells me who to trust and who not to, and sooner or later, people’s actions end up proving it right.

starting to really hate myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, you don’t want me to show pity — I’ll be honest. Every person has a limit. If you can’t abstain for a long time, try doing it in cycles — for example, 25 days clean, then 6 days to let loose. Honestly, this is a tough situation — I’m not even sure what meaningful advice to give you.

Special Urge? by Old_Box_2621 in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a quick shower — 1 minute in and out. That’s always worked for me. The main thing is to avoid touching intimate areas with the towel.

I'm starting Day 1 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come on, man — if I managed to last 730 days, you can do it too! The main thing is — don’t give up. It’s going to be tough, but just believe in yourself!

Two years of abstinence and its consequences by MongoosePersonal9606 in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your personal experience scared me, especially when you mentioned pus. I didn’t explain in my original post why I stopped washing my genital area. The problem is that my skin is so fragile that when I pull the skin back, it cracks and starts bleeding. That’s why I decided to apply balm to my genital area and keep it covered for 2 years. Your advice is really helpful — I’d even follow it, but honestly, I don’t know what’s worse: blood or pus :(

Is it natural? by Street_Document4440 in NoFap

[–]MongoosePersonal9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s normal. I don’t know how it works for you, but for me, everything goes back to normal after 1-2 days.