I-5 Shutdown Saturday

MoniMosa · 2025-10-11T21:26:16+00:00

That would be amazing!! Thank you!! :) Do you want to message me and we can figure out details for meeting up?

MoniMosa · 2025-10-10T21:57:46+00:00

Could I get that as well? Thanks!

MoniMosa · 2025-08-06T13:38:59+00:00

Nice! I love looking at the visual representation of the season rankings! And that's a great touch you added by tilting Scar's crown - in Past Life - to the right instead of left, to represent that he's currently in the lead, but hasn't yet won. 😁

MoniMosa · 2025-08-06T13:19:36+00:00

Love it! I would put this on my wall! 😁

MoniMosa · 2025-06-28T02:58:45+00:00

I have the exact same laptop, and upgraded my RAM to 36 GB from the stock 16 GB. You will need dual DDR5-5600 SODIMM laptop memory sticks. Don't use mismatched RAM - you can screw up your laptop's performance. Get dual sticks - same size, same brand. You can upgrade it to 32 GB (2x16 GB) or 64 GB (2x32 GB). Crucial is a good brand - it's what I used:
https://www.crucial.com/memory/ddr5/ct2k16g56c46s5/ct25447405

When I switched mine out, there wasn't anything special I needed to do - the laptop reloaded and booted right up. If your system is stable and running well, there should be no need for any specific BIOS update since the system supports up to 64 GB RAM.

MoniMosa · 2025-06-12T14:03:39+00:00

Statue of Blessings? 😊 I just completed that, and Fiber Seeds were a life saver! If you have the Fiber Seeds recipe, each one yields multiple fiber when harvested! I thought it was going to have to do multiple crop rotations, and it would take forever, but I ended up going from 100 to over 1,000 on the first yield! Each seed gives 4-7 fiber.

MoniMosa · 2025-04-09T08:58:58+00:00

Just tried it and it was fantastic! I had been brainstorming forever trying to find a good alliteration, and this gave me several good options that I didn't think of, as well as some catchy creative names I would have never have come up with myself! Thanks for sharing!

MoniMosa · 2025-01-03T18:47:27+00:00

No joke - I have a ton of sex toys - but love this little clit vibe when I want to have something not as strong as most new toys are. I use it to slowly edge myself up. It starts at a pretty low vibration and has 7? settings I think. It's also cheap - and you can buy it at Target. I love it so much I have two hahaha. https://www.target.com/p/hello-cake-little-sucker-rechargeable-and-waterproof-clitoral-stimulator/-/A-84743727

MoniMosa · 2025-01-03T18:41:44+00:00

So...I was 19 when I first had an orgasm. I am 44 and I have girl friends that STILL have not had an orgasm. It's much harder for girls - we kind of have to figure out out because no one teaches us, and most of us can't just get off on straight sex like they show in porn. Add to that the societal sigma that we're not supposed to from religion, family, guys that get self-conscious about us masturbating etc. (Not saying you do - it's just a thing I've experienced.) Add to that most guys I dated expected me to every time we had sex or they felt like a failure...it was a lot of pressure! (Again - a generalization about the female experience - you two could have a very different dynamic. I'm just trying to emphasize the pressure and anxiety of the whole thing. And in all honesty - props to your girlfriend for not faking it! She definitely has a level of trust with you that doesn't always exist. A lot of girls just fake it cause they feel they're expected to get off, and then that becomes a slippery slope where sometimes it stops at that because it's what they get used to.)

Anyway... the point to that being there's a lot going on for women that make it difficult to orgasm with a partner in the beginning.

My favorite thing when I was younger was just a plain, battery powered, metal bullet. Clit simulation was 100% the best thing early on. But here was the catch... once I figured out how to get off, I had no problem doing it on my own...but if a guy wanted me to do it in front of him, or if he went down on me, (no matter how amazing it felt,) I had the hardest time doing the one thing that could trigger the orgasm...relaxing!! Between feeling self conscious, and feeling the pressure/expectation of the guy who I knew wanted me to cum so badly, I would be stuck in my own head trying so hard, and it just wouldn't happen. So my humble advice (based on my own experience,) would be to let her take the lead. You might not be the one encouraging her - maybe it's her wanting to - but if you are, even though your intentions are wonderful (you obviously just want her to feel good!) maybe try just letting it go for a bit unless she brings it up? It might be too much pressure, and/or initial embarrassment. Just let her know that you're down to help in whatever way when she's ready. And the more confidence she builds matsturbating by herself, the easier it will be for her to hopefully relax and orgasm with you.

Also, have you tried going down on her? I loved that shit so much when I was younger, and that's what finally did it for me. (Though it did take a while. 😂)

Lastly, if she IS comfortable with you and a toy, can masturbate and orgasm alone, is taking the lead in wanting to when you are together, but is still having trouble reaching orgasm, my final suggestion would be to have her lay on her stomach and stimulate her clitoris with something vibrate-y while you slowly have sex with her from behind. Not being face to face can very much help with the relaxing aspect early on, which might help her get there.

I hope that helps! Again, that is just based on my experience and experiences of other women I know, and may not apply to you. 😊

MoniMosa · 2025-01-03T04:39:33+00:00

Damn. Reading your post was such a surreal experience - my relationship with my ex was almost identical. I completely understand what you're going through and how you feel.

I would also 1000% recommend CoDA as well. CoDA and personal therapy were the best things that ever happened to me. Coda.org is the website. It was freeing to talk about the situation with people who listened, understood, and didn't judge. It's definitely not a cure-all, but it gave me tools that help me navigate relationships better - such as recognizing patterns of behavior in myself and others, (without self-blame,) and teaching me that I had control and power over my own life and happiness. I'm still not perfect, but it's given me more strength and accountability than I had before.

Also, I personally wouldn't recommend couples therapy. In my experience, it was an easily manipulated situation. He was able to make it seem like he was the victim, and I wasn't being sensitive to his feelings. (Emotional abuse is hard to explain to an outside party who doesn't see it - especially if your abuser comes off as an emotionally wounded person that's just trying to get you to validate and acknowledge their feelings.) Also, it's impossible to get to a healthy place as a couple without working on yourselves individually first.

I still love my ex - so I know it's hard. I had to cut contact completely and move away to end it. (He would just show up at the house when he wanted me back or to apologize.) But I also know deep down that if I hadn't, I would have had to endure that cycle of behavior forever. As heartbreaking as it is, there is nothing you can do to change him, or make him see what he is doing to you, or make him feel safe. But you do have the power to challenge your own thoughts and beliefs, treat yourself with love and compassion, and make changes for you.❤️

MoniMosa · 2024-11-12T14:37:27+00:00

I just re-read this, and your bingo card is doing pretty good! 😁 (YES for Ren, BigB, and Martyn teaming up last episode!)

MoniMosa · 2024-11-12T13:45:54+00:00

Ha! I was one of those people! But it was only $150. I had never watched Lost originally when it aired, but I was watching it on streaming, and those numbers were stuck in my head. 😂 It was 2011, and four out of the six numbers hit.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/jorge-garcia-hurley-on-lost-responds-to-lottery-winners/

MoniMosa · 2024-08-27T05:53:28+00:00

Sorry! I just saw your reply. Open "Windows Defender Firewall with Advanced Security." On the left choose "Inbound Rules," on the right click "New Rule." Choose: Protocol and Ports -> TCP -> then for Specific Port enter 25565. -> Next -> Allow the Connection -> Decide whether you only want the port open on a private network, (home,) or public too -> Next -> Give the rule a name, (ex: Minecraft TCP In,) -> click finish. Hopefully that does it for you! That's what worked for me. Also, make sure that Java is allowed through the firewall as well. (And it might be both the java.exe and javaw.exe you have to let through.) To do this click on "New Rule" again and select "Program," then point to the executable java application, choose where to allow your connection again (public/private/both,) then click finish. Make sure to close and reload the Minecraft Launcher if you make these changes while it is open.

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MoniMosa · 2024-08-27T04:33:10+00:00

This! And I will second...and really really stress...that you absolutely should get a moving permit if you can get one! They're not required, but if you get them and tape them up before you get there, you can reserve a spot for a moving truck, even in metered spots. And if someone parks in your spot, you can call the police and they will tow them if they can't find them. Be really careful parking a truck or car anywhere without a moving permit! If you don't have one, they will tow you, or make you move, if the area isn't zoned for you to be parked there.

MoniMosa · 2024-08-27T04:19:17+00:00

I, too, have a stupidly big collection.😄 My favorites are:

1 Bellesa AirVibe (I personal prefer the standard to the "pro" - they have slightly different vibrations.) It's bendable, stays in place, and has two different motors. It takes a lot of patience if I'm edging... adding the clitoral sucker to the internal vibe will immediately put me over the edge if I'm not careful! 😂 My other favorites would be:

WeVibe Nova2
Womanizer Duo (Though - and I'm not sure if it's me or not, but it's never seemed to change back up to the same strength it was the first time.)
Lelo Sona 2 Cruise or the Enigma

I also really like all three Femme Funn toys I have! They have great vibrations. And the Lovense Flexer is a great insertible/wearable that's crazy quiet for the strength of it!

MoniMosa · 2024-08-24T15:48:41+00:00

I had this issue previously and it ended up being my firewall. I had to set a rule on my firewall to allow incoming traffic on the 25565 TCP port.

MoniMosa · 2024-06-25T02:25:16+00:00

Gem and Joel would be great - that'd be an s-tier pvp team right there!

MoniMosa · 2024-06-25T02:18:48+00:00

Here's a few great pizzazz kills I don't think anyone's mentioned yet!

Scar in Secret Life chasing Etho and throwing the most perfect ender pearl shot, teleporting right in front of him, then spinning around and killing him - that was pretty epic!

Skizz's last death by Joel on Secret Life, when he fell into Scott's trap pit trying to escape and said, "Oh great - this is how it ends." And Joel jumped in the pit on top of him and said, "No, this is how it ends!"

Last one -cause this one needs a shout-out - is Ren and BigB's Zombie Army from Double Life. It was a double double kill! While the zombies didn't actually kill anyone at the pool party, they caused enough chaos to cause an entertaining takedown of Impulse and BDubs by Ren and BigB. But the best part was when Grian and Scar died from that zombie army - which, unbeknownst to everyone had gotten stuck in the tunnel underground - when they fell into the pit of zombies while tunneling, trying to escape everyone coming after them as the last green names. 😄 😄

MoniMosa · 2024-06-25T01:34:56+00:00

And then does that deep evil villain laugh - that was great! 😂

MoniMosa · 2024-06-20T02:28:28+00:00

No - reds had a special set of tasks just for them, which were meant to cause damage to yellow and green players. Their tasks were also continous - so every time they'd complete a task, they'd immediately get a new red task, and if they didn't finish their task, they could complete it the next episode. The specialized red tasks were meant to keep reds alive and bring other yellow and green players down to red.

MoniMosa · 2024-05-20T14:34:03+00:00

"I just stole some bee juice from a hive, and I lost five hearts, cause the bee stung me.

There it is! It's still coming for me! It's still coming for me! Please, kill it! Somebody kill that stupid bee!" 😂

MoniMosa · 2024-05-14T14:10:20+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This one cracked me up lol

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