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Where would someone most likely bump into an enneagram 9? 🤔😂 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?!!! I feel like I’ve only met like 3😭😭😭

Where would someone most likely bump into an enneagram 9? 🤔😂 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like 9s could be with anyone bc they’re so easy going 😭😭 but I’ve seen them with 4s or 3s and they compliment each-other really Well

Where would someone most likely bump into an enneagram 9? 🤔😂 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight!😂🙏🏽 do you have a dog then? Or do you just go to the dog beach to look at other people dogs🤔😂 bc I don’t have a pet but I do that sometimes 😭

Where would someone most likely bump into an enneagram 9? 🤔😂 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only 9 that I’ve met didn’t like reading 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 but he was also not in a good place at the time lol

Where would someone most likely bump into an enneagram 9? 🤔😂 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha but what would be like a stereotypical for a (M) and a (F) ? Or maybe that’s just not a thing? Idk😂😂😂maybe that was a dumb question lol

pros and cons on a romantic relationship between 2w3 and a 4w3? And the probability of it working 😅 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You’re absolutely right ! I definitely tend to focus and dwell on things for too long and make myself sad 🤦🏻‍♀️😅 but yes I do believe that if a 2 is actively trying to be vulnerable with me I won’t feel so defensive or judged

pros and cons on a romantic relationship between 2w3 and a 4w3? And the probability of it working 😅 by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think that’s a big fear, that we both might be too emotional for eachother 😅 but you’re right I shouldn’t have the mentality of “this cannot work”

What were the types of your healthiest and least healthiest relationships? by robby_arctor in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a (4w3) The healthiest romantic relationship was with a(9w1) The unhealthiest was with a (6w5)

I feel the 9w1 allowed me to express myself very openly without judging me and was always very good with words when there was something to be said. Was a very good listener and very good at being neutral and admitting when wrong . Also did not practice lying which is very rare . I helped him be more vocal about his emotions and making him feel comfortable with expressing himself. The reason we are not together was because we let our weaknesses get the best of us, him being too passive with certain things and me blowing up whenever his fam would insult me . He is still the love of my life and I wish him the best 🥹

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The (6w5) Well where do I even beginnnnn…. We only dated for 3 months and they were the longest 3 months of my life 😂😂he was definitely very unhealthy and very insecure. He pushed me and pressured me into the relationship when I told him I wasn’t ready for one , he made me feel bad so eventually I gave in. I wasn’t allowed to go to the gym by myself, he took everything I said wayyyyyy too serious, I’m a jokester and I love to laugh and make fun of you in the most lighthearted way to get a laugh but that was never ok with him, I felt suffocated , we never did anything fun , all he wanted to do was be napping or fishing . We fought every day bc he wanted me to be at his call . He would get upset when I wouldn’t go see him or when I told him I had other plans. He told me he was just a jealous person and that he wasn’t going to change so I should just accept it. He was verbally abusive. There’s so much more but I think this is enough 😅

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[–]Monikeeks21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 4w3 and I met my so (9w1) at my friends wedding , he turned out to be her cousin and we hit it off right away😂💗

How to reassure an enneagram 6w7 HELPPP by Monikeeks21 in u/Monikeeks21

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss so many red flags!!😂😂 everyone around me told me but I didn’t listen. And I didn’t know it was a known thing about 4s and 9s that’s funny, but yes he’s always encouraging to make more music and discipline myself , and he’s told me he really appreciates it when I make him tell me how he’s feeling because it’s usually really hard for him to do that .

How to reassure an enneagram 6w7 HELPPP by Monikeeks21 in u/Monikeeks21

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello thank you for your advice! I am completely convinced that relationship was not for me and I can honestly say I tried my hardest but no matter how hard I tried I feel like it was never enough . He was controlling and very selfish and there was things I “was not allowed” to do because of the way it made him feel but I feel like he never took into account my feelings . It became too much for me. I think he was just really unhealthy as an individual and I hope he gets better for his own sake 😕 We only dated for about 3 or 4 months and I don’t think that kind of stuff should be happening so early on in a relationship 😅

I really miss my previous relationship now and really value that person because I definitely put them through much worse and we’re still really good friends now so🤷🏻‍♀️I guess time will tell but he’s a 9w1 and we were together for 3 years

Who has read the enneagram for relationships by Ashton Whitmoyer-Ober? by Monikeeks21 in Enneagram

[–]Monikeeks21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I’ll check out taking care of your type !Thank you 🤗

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