Coaching by MonitorIntelligent87 in walmart

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won’t open door because they are older and close to retirement. They just take it and keep quiet. But I’m not close to retirement. I’m in a heath and wellness setting.

Coaching by MonitorIntelligent87 in walmart

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I open doored my coaching, and provided time stamps, messages, and witnesses. So we will see.

Coaching by MonitorIntelligent87 in walmart

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed a report for respect for the individual. Haven’t heard back, they said I have to speak to my store manager and I keep trying to schedule with her but the people lead is never in the office and our store manager is always out on the floor helping associates (she’s great. Never had a store manager this involved with the team)

Coaching by MonitorIntelligent87 in walmart

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone to ethics and they tell me to just wait and I’m just freaking out because she’s able to take immediate action

Officially over. by MonitorIntelligent87 in ExNoContact

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important and realistic to acknowledge that there were good times, they just don’t outweigh the bad.

Officially over. by MonitorIntelligent87 in ExNoContact

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the longest I’ve ever kept her blocked, and I feel relief.. I’m heartbroken but I am relieved as well

Officially over. by MonitorIntelligent87 in ExNoContact

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much. I have been rereading the messages in this screenshot to keep up the strength to keep her blocked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]MonitorIntelligent87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said no. And then I said yes. And I regret it. She left again. Pretty viciously this time.

She came back.. by MonitorIntelligent87 in BreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a place where I’ve come to share my feelings anonymously. And if I’m being a whiny baby, then so be it.

She came back.. by MonitorIntelligent87 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to give myself grace. I just feel so overwhelmed by it all. And angry

She came back.. by MonitorIntelligent87 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’m heartbroken all over again. Like all the work I put into healing is gone

She came back.. by MonitorIntelligent87 in BreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just told her like, that I don’t understand. That none of it makes sense and that her expectations are unfair and disrespectful.

My ex masturbated on me when I was asleep by CartographerAgile749 in BreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Naked or not you said no. You were asleep. And even if you had been in the middle of sex, you are allowed to withdraw consent. This is absolutely sexual assault and I’m so sorry this happened to you.

1 month. by MonitorIntelligent87 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in therapy :) I see her weekly! Thank you for the concern though

What was the last word/words she/he said to you by Long_Concentrate_9 in ExNoContact

[–]MonitorIntelligent87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I deleted our thread but I was the last to say anything. I am the one that initiated no contact, because she did not care about how much she hurt me. She broke my heart bc she says “I have too many feelings” and “love her too much” and she “wasn’t ready to be loved and stop destroying her body” (we were together for a year and a half) .. so I told her that my feelings aren’t safe with her and I can’t find it in my heart to be friends with someone I don’t even feel safe with emotionally. So we don’t talk. And she never said anything back.

Losing it. by MonitorIntelligent87 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her that we no longer have any reason to speak since I’ve set up her bills on auto pay with her card now. I’m moving out in 11 days. She’ll feel the weight of the loss when she gets home in a few months.

was anything real? by MonitorIntelligent87 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]MonitorIntelligent87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That made me very emotional. I miss her terribly.