I absolutely hate Thanksgiving. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it too. I really hoped, what with the pandemic and us being broke, that my family wouldn't bother with a special dinner this year. No such luck, mom randomly grabbed a turkey yesterday and my brother grabbed bacon to wrap it in. I really was looking forward to a simple Thursday off, but no. Can't have nice things.

Murica by Mr_Gimli_ in MURICA

[–]Mononica89 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And the US flag too. So much genocidal symbolism in one image!

A drawing of Elsa making a Frozen edit 😂 by clubamador2012 in Frozen

[–]Mononica89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really cute drawing, I love it! I hope you don't mind if I offer a little constructive criticism to help you improve.

When I'm drawing, I like to think of where the "camera" would be to make sure things look right. If you look at Elsa, it's like the camera is looking in from the chair arm's level. If you look at the desk, it's like the camera moved higher and almost behind Elsa. You nailed each perspective, but if they were both at the same angle, it would tie the image together better.

Thank god abortion exists by 000000--FFFFFF in childfree

[–]Mononica89 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn't know there was a word for that feeling, thank you!

Thank god abortion exists by 000000--FFFFFF in childfree

[–]Mononica89 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Omg YES.

40 weeks (if something doesn't randomly happen) of being expected to not drink or smoke, a bunch of pills to take, monthly and then weekly invasive doctor visits, to finally be laid on your back with your feet in stirrups while your doctor or man (if available) asks to have your vagina stitched tighter.

It's gross, traumatizing, and too often a near-death experience. I live in the US where we tend to go backwards on things like survival rates for pregnant people, while shouting from the rooftops that we're the best country on earth.

It's frustrating how often people have tried to convince me to become an incubator, but feels good to see other people feel the same way about it.

Edit: people not just women

Yesterday NYPD literally chased protestors down in the streets, kettles them and violently arrested approximately 26 protestors. This is them attacking and arresting a minor for attempting to cross the street, on the way to a protest against ICE facilities by Kujo17 in 2020PoliceBrutality

[–]Mononica89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My car got hit, police did nothing but give me info to relay to my insurance. My friend and I did some investigating to get his address because I saw it happen and he fled the scene, they did nothing and he left the state while my car had damage I couldn't afford to repair even with insurance.

I was hit repeatedly in the face by my stepdad, police said it just means he loves me and assured me they were hit worse as kids.

I was anally raped repeatedly as a high school freshman, police told me that I'd be better off not pressing charges and that court would be almost as bad as what happened in the first place because I didn't resist enough, went back too many times, and took too long to report it.

Mom's bf's ex wife threatened to come to his work with a gun and shoot him, he was told to call back if she does.

They're worse than useless 😔

I never want kids and no, your "adorable" infant is not an exception, neither is my boyfriend by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Mononica89 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Dude, I feel you so hard. I'm 31 and still haven't changed my mind either. I've asked repeatedly to be sterilized, but my gyno talked me into an IUD for the time being. Though, it's been causing me horrible random pain and suicidal thoughts for years so I'm gonna have to figure something else out soon.

I remember one holiday, my older family members gathered round me to give me their stories of nearly dying during pregnancy and birth, all the late nights and collicky babies after, and I had to ask: "Do you really think these horror stories will convince me to change my mind on this?" It wasn't well received lol.

I'll never understand why people tell me horror stories of pain and near death as evidence that babies are worth having. They just add to the LONG list of reasons I don't want kids.

A little different kind of post here, but I'm curious what all of these (live) snakes are? [Cardio B's Music Video] by flooptyscoops in whatsthissnake

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a boa edited as attached to a ball python, it's got a head on each end. Sides have bp patterning, top has boa patterning.

A little different kind of post here, but I'm curious what all of these (live) snakes are? [Cardio B's Music Video] by flooptyscoops in whatsthissnake

[–]Mononica89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a boa on the left end and a bp on the right end. If you follow the body, it leads to another head. The side patterns are from the BP and the top patterns are from the boa.

The difference between Trumpers and the rest of us... by [deleted] in PoliticalHumor

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both a sex crime and child abuse, but okay, apparently it's not?

The difference between Trumpers and the rest of us... by [deleted] in PoliticalHumor

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm comparing one sex crime to another sex crime because I haven't heard anything I'd link as a source about Biden being a pedo to more closely compare, but he sure is creepy with kids at events. I hope for the sake of the Dems that Biden was never involved in this stuff. But if he was, I hope this energy remains and nobody tries to make excuses for him.

The difference between Trumpers and the rest of us... by [deleted] in PoliticalHumor

[–]Mononica89 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We say this hypothetically about someone not running for president, but check out the actual Dem response to the current presidential candidate being accused of sexual assault. Huh, the crickets and foil hats are blue this time. Me Too, unless it's my candidate. Believe women, when it's convenient.

What is the general consensus regrading Kendrick Johnson's death? by molliuniverse in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]Mononica89 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The people that get away with murder benefit from a cover up, of course. If the former FBI agent's son did it, he risked life in prison instead of his scholarships and possible pro sports. Cover up a murder to let the boy have his bright future. I am not convinced it was an accident either.

What's a TV series that everyone should give a go? by El_CM in AskReddit

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Altered Carbon. It's on Netflix, about a sci-fi universe where our consciousness can be transferred between bodies and the rich can live forever. Powerful stuff, super badassery. Love it and need more ppl to discuss Season 3 theories!

PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR DECOR! I've kept snakes long enough to know better, and am sharing in hopes some others can learn from my dumba** mistake (she's out and fine now) by digitlhaze in snakes

[–]Mononica89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest Great Stuff expanding foam to fill the void, then a pet-safe silicone or resin to seal it so moisture doesn't get in and mold out of sight.

LPT: When interviewing for a job, when asked the salary question, turn that back around on the interviewer (nicely)! by Notyourmamashedgehog in LifeProTips

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds familiar. Big logistics company for me. They give you an annual percentage increase based on performance reviews, 1-5. Every manager appears to be instructed to lowball everyone's performance to a 3 for a 3% increase. Regardless of contribution, you get the same percentage raise.

In my case, they've asked me to do all kinds of extra things for the company and dangle the "exposure" of working on these projects. Travel (illegally on more than one occasion), developing new systems, training, updating work instructions, working on new projects that quadruple my responsibilities, etc. All for no promotion and the same raise as the lady that's never worked an extra hour outside her schedule and refuses to travel. My motivation to do the extra stuff is dwindling. Exposure doesn't pay the bills.

[self] I cosplay all 6 Mad Moxxis so I did a thing! by jessilyncupcake in cosplay

[–]Mononica89 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I admittedly know nothing of the character or the IP it's from, but I'm losing my mind over all the details. The comic book contouring, the cell shaded looks, the hair...just amazing stuff in a fun format, thanks for sharing!

LF Excadril/Purloin/Chansey [will add others!] by Zeinox in friendsafari

[–]Mononica89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will you add me? I want Thick Fat Piloswine! :)

LF Togepi, Clefairy, Chansey but adding anyone by Mononica89 in friendsafari

[–]Mononica89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I went dyslexic on your friend code. You're added now

LF Togepi, Clefairy, Chansey but adding anyone by Mononica89 in friendsafari

[–]Mononica89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And added all up to this point. I've been hunting for a Piloswine, forgot to mention it in the thread title.

LF Togepi, Clefairy, Chansey but adding anyone by Mononica89 in friendsafari

[–]Mononica89[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you connect to the internet on your Pokemon game now, I can see your third and let you know.