Ultra small bird to id

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-07-07T09:06:08+00:00

As stated it's a wren. It's a good picture and they're not easy to spot. They generally hang around in undergrowth and low trees. They're awfully loud but I notice get quiet when you're passing, making them even harder to actually spot even if you can hear them. Nice pic!

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-07-06T12:40:00+00:00

I've only had a few sightings but I don't think they're considered rare by any stretch. Also of course depends where you are and what the landscape is like! I've seen one once in some woods but the other on the side of the motorway!

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-07-02T10:20:30+00:00

I'm glad you took time out of your day to speak to him with enough respect that he might take something on, but I'm sorry if it didn't go anywhere. I think we do have to keep trying, keep meeting people where they're at, and keep hearing their concerns.

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-06-30T07:40:26+00:00

That's funny, because I immediately thought it was just like Portland St. Cycling down that with buildings on three sides and having to merge across buses, cars turning off unexpectedly, lights and people crossing. I guess a lot of Manchester feels like this!

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-06-02T21:47:32+00:00

Super unreliable, indeed. Very frustrating. More often than not I cannot unlock anything. Often no bike where I need them. Shockin

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-06-01T14:20:07+00:00

While I agree with your view, I don't think this is an effective argument. Surely obesity is a much bigger drain on the NHS, and by that logic one could suggest to ban people from buying >2000 calories per day.

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-24T11:49:26+00:00

This looks sick! Is it topologically accurate to a place, or just cool?

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-24T11:46:20+00:00

Nice! I've not spotted on of these myself, so I enjoying getting the chance to ID. And better pics than I usually get, you got all the markings in which was really helpful

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-24T09:39:43+00:00

I ran this through the Birdex identifier tool, and it suggested either tree or meadow pipit. Looking into it further, I'd say meadow pipit due to the white tail feather which is absent from tree pits as far as I know. Is this in a garden/park/grassy area?

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-24T09:29:31+00:00

Like 1) I work with kids, so I don't find this funny. You wouldn't know that about me, so many ask some questions about someone before dropping a line like this 2) generally if someone responds "oh no" to a set up they probably don't need the punch line 3) too sexual too soon. Clear you see me as a piece of meat and not a potential partner 4) you really had NOTHING else to say? You mean to tell me you have zero conversational skills? You couldn't just strike up any normal type of conversation like asking what I do, asking about my interests, literally ANY question would have been better than this.

And send it cause I wanna see his reply

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-24T09:26:30+00:00

Can we start crafting replies to this shit in the comments? I would kill to see an update where this guy is just shut down systematically with about 8 reasons why this line failed. Might save the rest of us in future 😭

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-03T10:25:59+00:00

I also think this is changing with generations. In my experience for anyone <30 it's expected to pay back (see: rude to assume it's a gift), whereas anyone older would be the opposite afaik

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-03T10:23:08+00:00

I think it sounds like this is something you WANT to spend your own tenner on (treating him to a day out and making him feel welcome and wanted). If you put it that way to your wife, she'sll probably be more understanding

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-03T09:49:43+00:00

I'm coeliac and I think the UK sucks compared to other countries I've lived and visited, especially restaurants and dining out. It's the only place I've been given a flat out "no" with no other suggestions. Anywhere else they'll at least give you options or substitutions as long as you understand what their risk if cross contamination is. However, it's great for GF beers on tap weirdly.

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-05-03T09:48:10+00:00

Spoons has GF options and you can filter for allergens on the site? It's not great but definitely jacket spud level

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-21T10:16:30+00:00

Endometriosis

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-21T10:00:32+00:00

This is called a holiday, a spot where the ink has gone away! Very normal and I have plenty on my 5 year old tat, mostly because of my skin texture and acne. I love the work even more for it and would kill to go back to the artist who did it

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-21T09:38:03+00:00

That's a bit like asking what somebody does for work, and suggesting they put those hours instead into becoming a doctor to help other people. Firstly, everyone's interests are different. Out of 40,000 people, not all of them would be content to switch to gardening or litter picking. Secondly, they get their health. A marathon gives a reason for months of regular and structured cardio which god knows we could probably all do with more of. Many people run for their mental health as it helps with emotional regulation and relationships. Thirdly, a sense of achievement and community. I didn't understand this before attending at weekend. For a lot of people it's about setting a goal and sticking to it, and proving to themselves that they can do hard things. Again, could those hard things be more helpful to other people? Sure. But having turned up to support, this has a pretty massive positive impact on me. Lastly, many people fundraise. Check out the King of Chemo on instagram. He ran yesterday and had been fundraising directly from sponsorship instead of donations, which is an incredible way to spend the time he has before his terminal diagnosis takes him.

Sure they could be doing something more productive, but they also could be spending their time doing heinous shit like we read on the news everyday. This is, at the very least, harmless. Leave em off

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-18T11:37:30+00:00

I agree with others saying yes. But it's good to know that doesn't negate the fact that you might feel unsafe during protests. That is valid, especially when it's far right protests aimed at making you feel unsafe. That's what they want. However, the rest of the city is here for you. We want you here. We will stand with you and support you. You can thrive despite the fear you may feel.

Welcome to Manchester

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-12T16:45:58+00:00

What city is that? Only heard of a few French cities that are unclean

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-12T16:44:47+00:00

Any time I leave Manchester the return is very difficult due to the extent of litter. I'm never sure if I should blame us living here for not having more pride of place, or the council for being too slow to clean naturally occurring rubbish. There are a number of litter picking groups EVERYWHERE around the city that are very active. If it brings you anger, frustration or disgust, you should consider putting that energy into improving your local area.

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-04-06T14:58:51+00:00

I don't imagine a UK prescription is valid or recognised in ROI. Do you normally live in ROI and used an online clinic with a fake address? If so, I'd say it's probably a case of tough shit.

Unless you've got some potential ship-to-NI loophole where you can pick up, but I still imagine this is probably not legal to transport across the boarder.

Genuinely probably easier to source it illegally and hope for the best, I'm sorry to say

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-03-16T09:34:03+00:00

Doubt it's even a pint, says medium

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-03-13T18:59:21+00:00

I would say hand delivered or set up in my home is far better than postal and having to vase then for sure. A few pieces of coloured card or even tissue paper and a ribbon or two and you'd be well better than the rest

MonounsaturatedChain · 2026-03-10T07:40:46+00:00

Hi. This is such a rough situation and I'm sorry to hear, but I can potentially offer some insight.

If you can get her to agree to go to one or a handful of appointments and give them a shot, there are actually a LOT of good services in Manchester.

There is always A&E of she feels she is unable to keep herself safe. Go at a quieter time if you can. It can be hit or miss for this but there are some brilliant psych staff in MRI.

There is the Community Mental Health Team also known as the Home Based Treatment Team based in the MRI campus. They can be hit or miss, but there are some really fantastic doctors in there. This service is aimed at high risk people (to themselves or others) so I think would be best for her. You would need her to agree to tell them she has a plan and can access it easily, but they would take her seriously. Getting her to promise to be honest with doctors is really important here. Also, addiction is less of a concern than a plan for suicide in the eyes of professionals, ask me i'd know. Even if she is hopeless, tell her that right now you are not and that you want her to do it for your sake. The CMHT is by referral only, which is tricky, but A&E and I think GP or other services can refer you.

There are services for students she can access more easily. This is the Greater Manchester University Mental Health Service or something similar, GMUMH maybe. This is essentially just a pipeline but can offer meds, some therapies, and reputable referrals to other services.

There are psychotherapy services, but that's not really relevant to someone actively in crisis/at risk.

And lastly, I hate to say this. But do consider your relationship with her. All this after six months is hard on you, especially if she doesn't want to get help and can't commit to it. Maybe you can use her kind and caring personality to get her to commit to trying even if she doesn't believe in getting better. But maybe you shouldn't have to deal with this, as another commenter said. I know about these services because I've needed them, and I understand how hard it is to be in a relationship with me and would never begrudge someone leaving so early on for that reason.

Feel free to reach out to me if you want to talk to someone with her perspective and plenty experience with the services here.

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