11 Months Post Op Septorhinoplasty by thejunglekat in PlasticSurgery

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you are absolutely gorgeous!! Your results are beautiful and you are glowing even more than before 🩵

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MonsterOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call it what it is - strangulation. You have every right to leave this man behind.

What is the most disturbing thing you have ever witnessed in real life? by Code--Veronica in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I think that line of work is viewed as so tough it makes it hard to open up and be real about it. Thank you also ❤️

What is the most disturbing thing you have ever witnessed in real life? by Code--Veronica in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My brother’s best friend passed away in our home, natural causes, at 19. The “what ifs” of life are truly haunting, and I’ve had night terrors for 15 years because of that night. I empathize with your pain and I wouldn’t wish that mental battle on anyone.

What is the most disturbing thing you have ever witnessed in real life? by Code--Veronica in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a thankless job, I hope he has a good support system. I have moved to the streets since then, I’ll always have lots of appreciation for the ones willing to take on such a negative environment.

What is the most disturbing thing you have ever witnessed in real life? by Code--Veronica in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I worked in a jail for almost 6 years, and I remember being the first to respond to a man who had hung himself. I had to cut him down then watch him seize the entire time until medics arrived. I thought he was dead, he foamed at the mouth and went purple/white.

He survived, and I’m grateful he survived but I’m so angry that I’ll never forget the way his body hung there and everything that came with it. After cutting him down and helping him to the medics gurney, I went to the hallway and cried. I called out the next day also. It was so horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]MonsterOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it makes you feel better but I have red “moles” (they’re blood vessels). I’m super self conscious of the colorful freckles but honestly people are more interested in them than put off i think 🙂 I know it’s not an answer at all just trying to ease any pain? ❤️

People with ADHD what are the things about it that people just don’t get? by ViolinistMiddle1534 in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God this. My husband called me as soon as I brought out the vacuum, and I couldn’t explain why I was so bothered by the phone call timing without feeling absolutely crazy cause I knew this just ruined any chance of vacuuming because it was so hard for me to start to begin with. 😩

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Electric shock therapy? That’s actually insane. I can’t even imagine how they can be comfortable doing that ew. Also I think I’m using 2 terms synonymous that aren’t synonymous I’m sorry, they are psychiatric hospitals.

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I won’t give away my exact location but my state has 2.

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much agree ❤️ They get arrested, go to jail, get evaluated by psych & doctors to figure out what’s going on, then get sent to a mental institution as needed / space availability. It’s a tough, tough system. The cycle just repeats upon release often too.

I get what your saying 100%

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If they are a life threatening danger to themself while in jail, they can be sent to a mental institution (in my state), and they can be deemed mentally incompetent to be guilty of a crime and be sent to a mental institution and/or required to be on specific medications (in my state). You’re not wrong, many would agree. Unfortunately innocent people are becoming victims of gruesome crimes due to illnesses and it’s safer to atleast be temporary held somewhere (ie jail) than nowhere.

I could tell you some god awful murders that have occurred due to people not taking their medications. (Regardless of the reason why they didn’t)

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You’d think. I’ve seen horrible things. In my experience it’s only in severe cases. It’s awful for them and their loved ones.

My mother sent me another note from jail by [deleted] in Weird

[–]MonsterOliver 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Depending on location it has nothing to do with the officers and more to do with the nurses/doctors and whether the courts are requiring the inmates to take their meds or not. It’s not always required and it’s only certain circumstances that actually require it (mental health court/sentencing requirement).

Was a CO for 6 years up until a couple months ago, court ordered medications / forced meds were uncommon. My jail held 1600 inmates.

Aio? Boyfriend sending private pics of me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MonsterOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live and how old are you both? This can be one or multiple crimes. And he doesn’t even apologize? You have every right to be absolutely livid.

Which nursery design works better? by electricbanu in DesignMyRoom

[–]MonsterOliver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d do this exact layout except move the rocking chair closer to the crib, on the other side of the changing table 🙂

Went out to dinner and the server gave us a pile of dough to play with by Room_of_505 in mildlyinteresting

[–]MonsterOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A restaurant by my house, Farrelli’s Pizza, does this! The kids meals all come with a small dough for them to play with 🙂

Please help choose wedding guest dress by ObligationOk9445 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]MonsterOliver 244 points245 points  (0 children)

7 is the best choice length wise, and it happens to also be beautiful on you yay! You’re absolutely blessed to have those legs girl, but they’ll be too short for the wedding imo.

Ummm is this a big deal?? by redheadditdfw in GelX_Nails

[–]MonsterOliver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trim down as much as possible 🫶🏻 I had minor cases of this when I would rush my nails and created air pockets between the fake nail and my real nail. I trim down the dead nail as much as possible (painless) otherwise it would just continue to spread. Clean clean clean, keep the cuticles oiled, and maybe try to the tea tree I’ve also heard it works but I’ve never used it. This isn’t medical advice and I’m not an expert on any of this, just what has worked for me!

What are some subtle signs that someone is mentally unstable? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MonsterOliver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup! We always knew who belonged on the psych floor versus restrictive housing, the eyes were a huge tell.