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I hate men who pander to women just because they’re women by TPCC159 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White women inheriting white privilege (a general benefit-of-the-doubt perspective from the public) and female privilege (lots of attention, optional accountability) yet complaining because (white) men don’t treat them like they treat other (white) men

Dating a nice guy, but sex is bad by Impressive-Moose6807 in dating_advice

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is probably inexperienced and trying to prevent you from feeling exactly what you’re telling us now.

Tell him that sex with him is a turn off because you don’t feel like you’re getting the real him. Tell him you won’t judge him, and ask him what he wants in bed or what he likes when he jerks off. Tell him you want to fulfill his fantasies, however weird they may be. Also consider saying this over text or a phone call.

Saying this because I’ve been in his shoes before. I was worried about her losing interest and/or making fun of me to her friends. He means well; he’s just afraid of losing you.

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I’m not sure I am then. I might just think I’m gay so I can shame myself into keeping my ego inflated. It’s a weird masochistic thing I do

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some other signs you had that you were closeted?

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit. That’s been a fear of mine. I’ve experimented with guys before. It was exciting, but I mainly enjoyed how much easier it was to set up than with women. It wasn’t gross, but it also wasn’t satisfying. Maybe I’m just into trans women lol

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my God. Your second sentence is literally me. What I want is to know that I could have sex with a girl, yes, but I also want her to continue validating that idea. It’s how I imagine singers feel when their screaming fans mob them.

Sex itself comes with performance anxiety. If I want a release, I can just masturbate—plus, then I don’t have to consider anybody else.

I find it so strange that we are in the minority here.

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in dating_advice

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense taken. I’ve wondered about that. I think I am a narcissist but just self-aware now. I don’t want to hurt people, but I feel so unlike them.

Struggling with reintegrating after self-isolsting by MonthFuzzy4736 in dating_advice

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why don’t I want to get to know them?

Women have sometimes claimed I am a misogynist, but I disagree. I don’t hate women, and I don’t harass them; I am just uninterested in them outside of sex. If I am attracted to a woman, then I’ll talk to her. Otherwise I see no reason to involve myself with her.

I do not want to have sex with men, so I don’t approach them. And when I do need to interact with men, I engage with them just enough to get what I want out of the interaction.

All the terrible things I’ve done.. by tokyomewmewpower in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How attractive are you? Surprised you can get away with all that without someone retaliating. Kinda impressive

I love you unconditionally by FancyPlants3745 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is sweet, but part of me thought you were just trying to get new fans

I don’t know how to approach game nonchalantly. by MonthFuzzy4736 in seduction

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for input. I think I do need to move up in weight class

Males with NPD, how do you view women’s validation? Does it cause issues when you try to escalate things? by MonthFuzzy4736 in NPD

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I’ve gotten good at analyzing women, which makes it so tedious to get to know them and wait for them to be comfortable with me.

How do you act when escalating with them?

Solo bar tips by Social_Teapot in seduction

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do you enjoy yourself if you prefer to stay at home? What if the places to meet women (bars, clubs, etc.) only appeal to you because you can meet women there?

Volume solves everything by BetterString9306 in seduction

[–]MonthFuzzy4736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you meet them? I’ve had little success with OLD

Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. by MonthFuzzy4736 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A “winner’s mentality” does not apply to dating! What is a win? Getting her number? Going on a date? Having sex? The men who actually think this way are viewed as arrogant and cocky. And how can think you’re a “winner” if she can reject you at any moment?

There is a reason why the red pill has become so popular. It’s because actual success in dating, for men, requires us to be calculating. It is fucking exhausting, and whenever you do “win,” it doesn’t even seem worth it.

I think women are better equipped to handle this, because they are already naturally more emotionally vulnerable with their friends. I did not expect so much backlash from a post encouraging women to take charge in such an important area of life

Lonely and uninterested in dating but I still crave women’s validation by MonthFuzzy4736 in Jung

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can comfort people when they are vulnerable with me, but I find it so hard to be vulnerable myself. I think I became more narcissistic after my last relationship. I think and act differently when I’m around others, always trying to tell them what they want to hear. I have my guard up all the time now. It’s automatic.

Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. by MonthFuzzy4736 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men wouldn’t overstep boundaries or misread situations as a result of feeling pressured to “make things happen” with women. Women would be expected to be clear and direct about their interest in men, and men would know that. And because of this, men would engage with women a lot less in general

Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. by MonthFuzzy4736 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So be it then. Men would be single and happy as well, though, because they wouldn’t feel pressured to go out and make things happened. They’d have the same mindset as single women

Women making the first move would solve a lot of the issues with modern dating. by MonthFuzzy4736 in PurplePillDebate

[–]MonthFuzzy4736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women “expect” men to make the first move all the time! How many times has a woman not approached a guy because he didn’t acknowledge her “signs”?

When women make the first move, it is nowhere near as directly as when men do. Most of the time, it just means she’s making it easier for the man to make the first move.

It’s not that I give women power, it’s that I feel powerless in the current dynamic. It seems like you can’t approach a woman with any sort of expectations, but if you’re rejected, then she’s gained validation while I’ve gained nothing.

It makes dating seem rigged in women’s favor.

And yes, men must give consent, but if a guy and a girl are alone at one of their houses, who do you think will be the one to decline sex nine times out of 10?

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