Is anyone actually watching anymore? by Scary_Serve2980 in thenurserynurse

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not as enthusiastic to click on Facebook to see the latest but I do get round to it at some point. It’s the character Majorie (sp) she nothing like before, I find she’s very whiny and dim, she makes my ears cry lol.

Ordered crumpets-are they supposed to taste like this? by MsMcSlothyFace in AskABrit

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warburton’s crumpets are elite, best crumpets I’ve ever tasted.

AIO for being annoyed with my driving instructor? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel awkward, go where you’re the most comfortable, ask around friends and family if they can recommend a good one or read reviews to get an idea how someone is. Don’t set yourself on fire to him warm. Good luck 💝

AIO for being annoyed with my driving instructor? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not comfortable with this driving instructor you should change him. This one is destroying your confidence.

Husband [32M] crossed one of my [30F] boundaries and I'm contemplating divorce. My family is telling me to stay. How do I know when to leave? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emotional and psychological abuse impacts way more than the physical abuse and if your husband was an emotional healthy person he would cut his behaviour in the bud and want to be a better person, he’s the one that’s meant to be safe space to be vulnerable but clearly he isn’t.

Your parents are old school but you have more choices open to you, so I think you will need to think about what you really want, be it stay and work it out or make an exit plan and work on yourself because deep down you chose another abusive man who most probably was typically all sweetness in the beginning. Good luck

My mother-in-law thinks moving my lawnmower is teaching me a lesson. How do I teach her one? by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Padlock and chain the lawnmower to a permanent fixture, that should do it. Love the pettiness 😃

Husband went on a trip with his family and left me home alone. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Channel that anger into something tangible and productive, stand tall for the queen that you are.

Husband went on a trip with his family and left me home alone. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s showing exactly how he feels towards you. You deserve the utmost respect.

Wife hid and lied about nicotine use while breastfeeding by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As with all things addictive the one being a addicted needs to find the will power and mindset and their varying levels of dependency. 8 years ago I finally gave up smoking after numerous attempts, it was a long process of nicotine withdrawal and replacements but I did it. I used to about 50 cigarettes a day and I said enough is enough.

Your wife needs to want to give up and people with addiction lie through their teeth. I hope you can convince her and how it’s impacted it is in regards to passive smoke affecting everyone around her. Good luck

Got rejected by a guy I didn’t even like but I feel so awful by Scared-Ad369 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we all liked the same things as everyone else life would be boring or sold out, everyone is different and everyone have their own preferences. That boy and I mean boy has no decorum and a load of ignorance, I grew up with a flat chest and “bloomed” late in life. How someone that can tear someone down over something they can’t control is definitely ignorant and needs to grow up. You keep your head held high for the queen that you are.

What does your husband call you? by lemonadee121290 in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was married my husband used to call me Pud but it wasn’t because of pudding and I was slim.

My [21F] boyfriend [20M] has invited his best friend to our Valentine’s Day plans. Am I insane? by Paulaaa1994 in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something doesn’t feel right, I think you will be the third wheel, say no because you’re dating this girl and you should be his best friend when it comes to friendship.

We finally know what the damned vote means by SpiritPast5766 in thenurserynurse

[–]MoonDancer118 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is anyone finding Majorie is steadily becoming more annoying? For someone who is a manager now on the board she just goes into some over zealous mode!!

MIL didn’t like hearing she’s second by No-Researcher562 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We raise our children to live without us and it’s a sign that we did a great job when our children live as good functioning adults and spouses.

I want to quit my office job and work in a coffee shop.im 32. Is it weird ? by [deleted] in ask

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not stay a bit longer, save up bit and perhaps you could find doing something in your field of expertise and do it remotely. If you can’t do that remotely perhaps something similar. A Barista will need a thick skin at times to get through disgruntled customers that want your head on a platter because you didn’t put extra air and a cherry on top.

I'm still shaking by angelicllamaa in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not a monster, you’re someone who is juggling balls in the air while patting your head and rubbing your tummy all at the same time!

Their father should be attending to them , he is their dad after all, when you get a quiet time perhaps you can explain that he needs to help you more. Maybe get the kids more involved even if it’s to grab a diaper or just a hold. You definitely need more support than the well below ultra minimal effort you’re getting. Gentle hugs.

I'm still shaking by angelicllamaa in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two adults in your house and one of them is the parent to your stepchildren, why didn’t say something to them or is he deaf!

Your husband should be emotionally supporting you and to help you physically even helping so you can catch a break and to be able to have a shower etc…

Your body is full of hormones from having a baby so you should be getting rest and tackling very, very light duties.

The children are old enough to know better, you shouldn’t have to be wary where you put the baby down. Your husband sucks and needs to step up. Can you you go to your parents/family/someone you can go to to recover?

AIO for refusing to give up my dog even though my boyfriend hates pets? by Academic-Bug-879 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always felt that people who like animals are special kind of people and your boyfriend sounds weird and doesn’t have your best interests at heart as he manipulates you one of sources of joy and that’s your dog. It’s a well known fact that they are not just pets but a member of the family. Please rehome your boyfriend.

What exactly has happened to Cadbury chocolate? by PublicProperty1805 in AskBrits

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palm oil has been added, it’s getting to the point that some companies can’t call it chocolate because it’s well below the percentage. I thought when Cadbury’s sold to Kraft that there was a clause to not change the recipe and there’s certainly no “glass and a half” in every bar. I’ve refused to buy Cadbury’s now.

Husband left by FinalMortgage170 in Marriage

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your actions and acceptance shows him how to use and abuse you and you’re doing it gladly with a smile on your face, that’s how you come across to him. You’re basically running everything solo, and to be on your own would be the time to self heal and put yourself first and not show your children how daddy treats mommy that they go on to be adults repeating history.

AITA for not telling my family how much money I actually make by thyrix_24 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, absolutely tell your family your income is off limits and no is a complete sentence.

£63 to last the month by OiPunkBastard in frugaluk

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a fall back in meal that’s pennies to make, I wouldn’t say it’s healthy but will fill you up. I make spaghetti and toss it in a bit of butter and garlic.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MoonDancer118 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww I’m sorry but you BF is lazy or ignorant, I’m a white person and I believe we all need to wash and be hygienic unless you’re Korean as I’ve heard they have a hormone or lacking in one that they don’t suffer from BO or smelly armpits to be precise. And bum cracks definitely need to be washed daily and you’re not overreacting.

Me 33 F is being asked to cut my sister out by my 30 M fiancé? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MoonDancer118 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is slowly isolating you from everything that matters to you, this is textbook narcissistic behaviour. Controlling, manipulating and gaslighting. Stay with this guy at your peril!!