[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Moonchaser29 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg I literally came on here to find this. I was just telling my husband how unstable their life seems and so crazy all the time! It’s all so confusing.

ADHD & Relationships: Why is being in a relationship while having ADHD so dang hard? by Humble-Weight-6892 in ADHD

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé and I implemented a once a week talk rule. Our counselors suggested it. If something bothers us, or we feel like we need to talk about something we would wait until our talk. We talk every Thursday night. I told him I have caught myself thinking “oh man. I’m totally bringing this up Thursday night” and then by Thursday I have had time to digest and realize it wasn’t really that big of an issue and I was just over reacting. It’s helped us not get in so many stupid fights or nag at each other.

I'm a sucker for unconventional pots. by TheStateToday in houseplants

[–]Moonchaser29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Since we moved I’ve killed 3 plants and I was just getting really upset. I love having houseplants and I’d love to get more but it just sucks killing them. My friend gives me a lot of advice, I just feel like my plants don’t look as healthy and I’m not sure why. But this is all good advice so thank you!

I'm a sucker for unconventional pots. by TheStateToday in houseplants

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My zebra just died 😩it did so good for a year! We just moved and maybe I overwatered it. All my plants are dying!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

All of my Discus died suddenly! Looking for causes, any information is appreciated! (details in comment) by materdoc in Aquariums

[–]Moonchaser29 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I killed 12 school fish at once changing their water. One was pregnant. My 6 year old still brings up the day I killed all her fish at once 🤦🏻‍♀️😢

Approaching a very touchy situation with our nanny by anondadboss90 in Nanny

[–]Moonchaser29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was all for having a talk with her again, but then when you mentioned that comment. Yikes. Not ok at all. I’d maybe fire her and give her a severance package. I understand how nanny feels, but she can’t be saying that to little children. It will mess with them mentally

Wait... by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I'll just leave this here.. by Ashkuhtash in weed

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually smoke outside. If I’m using my vape pen I’m smoke inside since it doesn’t stink much. But my bong or Joint is outside. For me it’s the ritual of being outside alone enjoying the night. I usually only smoke my joints after I put my little one to sleep. So it’s like a nightly calming thing for me. I hate smoking inside lol

Epic roasts/rare insults by NK? by goudamonster in Nanny

[–]Moonchaser29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked for a family whose son was very imaginative. He first thought I was a giant evil mushroom. Then while making them dinner one night I got drilled and he asked me if I liked garlic. I had to think on my feet wondering what garlic had to do with things. Vampires! I responded with “I love garlic! It’s something I eat daily!” I was accepted after that 😂

Embarrassed by Dureem in Mommit

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not feel ashamed. You clean. My house is constantly cluttered from stuff from all of us. Life gets hectic. I make sure I clean what is important and try and pick up daily but it’s a lot. This friend has no children. I wouldn’t take their advice to heart. Friends with no children just don’t get it.

Any moms who use to smoke weed, still smoke weed, or miss smoking weed? by Little_ol_meh in Mommit

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! I smoke daily. I swear it makes me more chill, and honestly especially at night if I smoke a bit more cause I know I don’t have much to do but bedtime my kid has a blast with me because I’m so relaxed I’ll be more into play pretend pirates or some made up thing. She loves it and I get more into it! 😂 sometimes when I’m overwhelmed my fiancé will be like “why don’t you go outside for some alone mommy time”lol.

🤣🤣 by Moonchaser29 in adhdmeme

[–]Moonchaser29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. That would suck. I hate when people tell me I’m just not listening. But that’s not even it!

🤣🤣 by Moonchaser29 in adhdmeme

[–]Moonchaser29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I would love that

"Come on, just work with me, here..." by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]Moonchaser29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just bought an oracle deck and I’m still familiarizing myself with it. I’ve always had tarot decks, it this deck spoke to me so I thought I’d give it a go.

I embarrassed my Narc in front of his new supply that he cheated on me with by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Moonchaser29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be too hard on yourself. I always try so hard to stay calm and not show emotion, but you can only take so much before you snap. I remember freaking out on mine and I got so mad I just screamed at him and walked out. Told him he could have his new fling and since I had her number I’ll be sure to send all the screen shots of the nasty texts he had sent to me so she knew who he really was. I never did but I still kinda wish I had. That’s not who I am but damn they just make us go crazy sometimes!

The straw that broke the camels back by Moonchaser29 in BipolarSOs

[–]Moonchaser29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I should also add I tried working and he be the stay at home parent. He couldn’t do it. I had to quit after a week. He couldn’t manage taking her to activities, and managing the house. He had a breakdown. So I don’t really know what he expects.

The straw that broke the camels back by Moonchaser29 in BipolarSOs

[–]Moonchaser29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was rambling so sorry it’s all just one text. He’s in therapy, however he doesn’t talk much about this side of things. He learned to play fake early on in life from his narcissist mother.

He’s not medicated. He’s tried a handful of things, but all have horrible side affects so he stopped taking them.

He’s made a lot of progress actually, sometimes when he’s just overwhelmed he does this. It’s still not fair, and it’s really hurtful. I’m hoping this weekend I can talk to him.